New standards for girls to choose a mate: having a car and a house has become a thing of the past, and "three no boys" is more popular

Let's start with a true story that happened around you. The father of this family left unexpectedly due to a car accident, claimed 300,000 yuan because of the accident, 300,000 just arrived, the son of this family went to gamble, and then one afternoon not only lost all the money that his father exchanged for his life, but also owed hundreds of thousands of dollars to others. And the son of this family was also because of this problem earlier, his daughter-in-law is divorcing him, they already have a daughter, the man does not care, the child is still raised by his grandmother.

And the girl in the story is the daughter of my neighbor in my hometown. Therefore, the neighbor aunt will have the opportunity to tell the people she knows that when the daughter is supposed to marry, the selection of the object must polish the eyes, some boys are excellent, but there is a gambling habit, but also do not marry, otherwise it is not a good day to wait for themselves after marriage.

I have to say that when girls marry, there are indeed many things that need to be paid attention to. In the past few years, people may have taken "having a car and a house" as a necessary condition for men when girls marry, but now, the new standard for girls to choose a mate has also been released, and "three no boys" is more popular.

The new standard for girls to choose a mate, "three no boys" is more popular

The man has no dependence on the old and sells the old, all kinds of parents or other family members

This point can be said to be very critical, some boys themselves are very good, there is no bad habits, but the parents of the family are not clear, always do all kinds of things, from time to time to find something for the children, or is to mix with the married life of young people, or to rely on the old and sell the old, put forward a bunch of unreasonable requirements for the children, or is a variety of troubles, in the end, girls marry into such a family, the life after marriage can be said to be a day can not stop.

And now when girls get married, they will also understand the man's parents and family relationship in advance, if the man's family is too bad, then many girls will directly refuse to marry in.

There is no "big man" doctrine on the man side, and all kinds of old ideas that look down on and despise women

Some men have a sense of superiority in their bones, they think that they are men, which is better than the daughter-in-law, and their words and deeds always reveal the idea of looking down on women and despising women, and such boys will also make girls stop.

Therefore, the man's non-"big man" doctrine has also become a new criterion for girls to choose a mate, after all, in the new era, girls also have new ideas. In addition, if the man requires the woman to have a son for herself after marriage, the purpose of not being a man will find all kinds of things, all kinds of men, and girls will not marry now.

The man has no emotional record of "infidelity" or "half-heartedness"

If a boy is very handsome and very good, but in the emotional problem is a variety of peach blossoms, before marriage there have been "infidelity to feelings" or "half-hearted" history, such a man, girls will basically not consider when they marry.

At the age of talking about marriage, girls hope that they can meet the other half of their choice, and boys also hope to choose a city to grow old and choose a person with a white head. The woman requires the boy to be very good, and the same reason, the man also has requirements for the girl. Only then will the marriage be considered complete.

Girls who meet these conditions will be more popular with boys

Girls themselves "don't do it".

The woman's parents and family did not have too complicated a relationship.

Girls are independent enough, especially in terms of finances, to have a small career of their own.

Honor your elders.

Here I will focus on the first requirement, that is, the girls themselves "do not do". If it is said that when talking about love, girls occasionally "do" a little, the boyfriend will be coaxed, but really in marriage, girls or three days and two ends of the matter to do nothing, then the problem is a lot. And girls who are accustomed to doing everything first will not only make their husbands and families feel more tired, but their own lives will also be chaotic, so many boys will stop when they meet such girls.

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