"I'll raise you for the rest of my life, but it's my wife who loves you more," the man told the truth

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"I'll raise you for the rest of my life, but what I love more is my wife."

Here's what a dad said to his daughter.

Psychologist Zeng Qifeng said: "The relationship between husband and wife is the needle of the family. ”

In a happy family, the wife will always be the first. Truly successful men start with loving their wives.

The more loving the parents are, for the children, although the dog food is enough, the heart is always warm.

01

When I was young, my dad traveled a lot.

Every time I come back, I bring some small gifts. Most of it is my mother's, and a small part, that is, the part that my mother does not like, belongs to me.

Once my dad was on a business trip for a long time, and when he came back, my mom stuck to hug him.

My dad was just about to hug me, and when he saw me coming out of the room, he paused and said, "There are outsiders, pay attention."

I was speechless for a moment.

Psychologist Nolfeo said: "Parental love is the best gift for children. ”

Therefore, I am willing to be an outsider. After all, couples should always be greater than parents.

02

Every time my parents got into a fight, I became a vital microphone.

Once, my mother was angry, pushing my father away while aggrieved, and hid in the master bedroom.

My father saw that he could not communicate, and he was not convinced, so he took care of himself and sat in my room.

It was dinner time, and no one said a word, so I had to go and cook.

After everything was done in the kitchen, I first took a copy to my mother, and my mother said, "Your father didn't eat breakfast, let him eat first." ”

When the meal was brought to my father, he said, "Your mother has a stomachache easily, so you let her eat it first." ”

Back and forth a few times, I did not dry, let my father ask himself, whether to eat or not.

So my dad, sure enough, took a meal, ran to the master bedroom and said, "Wife, I was wrong, don't be angry." The meals are ready, let's eat. ”

I reasonably suspect that the two of them are in conflict just to trick me into cooking.

No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife, it will also be noisy. Who takes the initiative to bow their heads and admit mistakes, many times it does not matter who is right and who is wrong.

My dad understood this very deeply.

The wife shed a tear, he is justified and wrong.

Men take the initiative to admit mistakes, not to admit encouragement, not to be mean, but just because of deep love.

People who don't love you, of course, don't care, just eat well and sleep well.

03

I don't like pasta, but my mom loves it.

Our family's breakfast, generally only two kinds, white porridge or noodles, choose your own.

But my dad was very full of plays every morning, and he always asked several times, "What do you want to eat this baby?" ”

When I asked for a little ravioli, my dad looked like he was in the chest.

As a result, there is still only white porridge and noodles on the table.

My dad said that your mom doesn't like to eat small wontons the most, and you can eat some porridge to make it up.

I saw the noodles in my mother's bowl, the ingredients were complete, the color and flavor were good, and I only had a light white rice porridge as water to squeeze vegetables.

When it comes to eating fruit, it is difficult for our family to unify opinions.

I love pink apples and hard peaches, but my dad loves crisp apples and soft peaches.

Every time my mom came back from the vegetable market, eight times out of ten, only crispy apples and soft peaches.

Protest several times, my mother will only perfunctory, children do not be so picky, next time buy for you.

Wu Zhihong once said:

"If the relationship between husband and wife is the core of the family and has the first say, then the family will be rock solid."

Indeed, my family is rock solid, and I cannot shake it in the slightest.

04

After work, it was a long way home, so I rarely came home.

In fact, I feel guilty because I don't often spend time with my parents.

Once during a vacation, my dad carefully asked me on the phone, do you have time to go home during the holidays?

I hesitated to say that the work was more intense during this time and I might not be able to go back.

As a result, my dad was very happy, "You don't come back?" That's great, I'm getting ready to go out with your mom, so you can work, come on. ”

I remembered that when I was in middle school, our family went out to play, and when we came home, they drove away happily, and I was confused in the same place.

After calling over, they found that there was one less person.

My father often confessed to me that it was rare to have such a girl as me. In fact, his most rare thing is his wife.

As soon as it came to the anniversary and the Tanabata Festival, I left me to live with my mother in the world of two.

I became an "orphan" of this beautiful world.

One time after they had a holiday, my dad drank too much. As soon as I got home, I nervously pulled my mother into the room and asked with the door half hidden

"Wife, who is that person outside?"

I was angry and shouted, "Who can I be, I am your lover in the previous life."

Laughing so hard that my mother couldn't stand up straight.

The so-called loving couple is probably what my parents look like.

05

Family therapy guru Satya says couples are the architects of the family.

The loving family of parents, like a warm nest, gives the child enough security.

The love of my parents made me see the best of love and marriage.

The best love is to fight mediocrity together, to overcome the thorns together, to overcome chai rice oil and salt together, and to face life, old age, illness and death together.

Husband and wife love, even if the beginning of life is a little worse, slowly will get better and better.

This kind of good, nothing can be replaced.

Therefore, in this life, people must find someone who loves you to live with. This is true for both men and women.

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