When a man completely lets go of you, he will definitely do this to you

Listen to happiness with you every night

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A friend told me two days ago that she had been dreaming about her ex-boyfriend occasionally lately.

Strangely enough, she didn't miss the other person, nor did she expect any unfinished scenes.

There is no inseparable plot in the dream, just a vague figure, but at a glance, you know it is him.

I am reminded of a statement to the effect that:

When you dream of someone you haven't seen for a long time, it means that this person is forgetting you.

Maybe feelings are a thing that can't be hidden, when you love, when you don't love, when you plan to separate, and decide the past time.

And I think a relationship should have two real endings.

One time when one of them mentioned separation, and the other time when the person who loved more finally let go.

1

When you miss someone, you can't help but click on the other person's social account.

Which piece of content did he like on Weibo, and there was a newly opened hot pot restaurant in the picture of his circle of friends.

Attention to those details is proof of care.

On the contrary, if a person no longer peeks at your social account, no longer silently likes you, and no longer carefully and tentatively asks where your circle of friends today is going, it means that he is already putting it down.

Expecting others to love themselves is always easy to be disappointed, and it is the most reassuring to love yourself in a down-to-earth manner.

Even if two parallel lines have ever intersected, after that they will only drift apart and get farther and farther away.

Later, you have your days, he has his scenery.

2

Can't help but contact a person is the most direct evidence of liking the other person.

Not contacting a person for a long time is the most direct explanation for forgetting the other party.

If you don't love, you no longer need to get emotional comfort from your response;

Relieved, so even if the contact is broken, it doesn't matter.

Don't contact, don't bother, and say a quiet goodbye to the past.

Only by giving up the most important position for each other can we invite more suitable people in.

3

After the separation, some people appear to be calm, but they do not miss any opportunity to dig up the news of their predecessors in their mutual friends.

Some people, on the other hand, do not say a word when talking about each other, but the expression on their faces leaks the emotions in their hearts.

Others, even if they inadvertently talk about their ex, just smile without distraction.

After experiencing a lot of things that happen around me, I found a truth:

People who really let go will not bother to inquire about the latest situation of the other party.

You may be mentioned by chance, but only by chance;

I may still miss you, but I won't miss you again.

Losing the desire to share is the beginning of the dissolution, and losing the desire to care is the beginning of letting go.

4

People who have made up their minds not to love will no longer miss your past, nor will they look forward to a future with you.

When a relationship ends cleanly and thoroughly, there is no blame in the past.

No matter how many moments of pleasure there have been, they no longer worry about it; no matter how much sorrow they have been, they will no longer worry about it.

Those who have imagined the future together are all invalidated when they break up.

Don't blame you for not accompanying me all the way, but the road ahead, we have to separate, each of them well gone.

5

Did you actually find out?

Sometimes it is not inseparable from the person, but it is difficult to get used to life without the other party in a short period of time.

I used to be full of joy and cultivated the days of having him by my side, but I had to face the situation of returning to a person.

Habit is scarier than deep love.

It must be admitted that it is a very powerful thing, because it is easy to cry silently, easy to lose armor and armor.

But now that we're out, sooner or later we have to get out of the minds of two people and get back to our own life tracks.

Maybe the process is difficult and long, maybe loneliness always comes unexpectedly, but when you finally make up your mind to say goodbye to this relationship and this person.

When you finally formally examine your past and future, when you finally come out, you will find:

No matter how hard things are, they will pass, no big deal.

And life, too, goes on, and we always have the opportunity to start all over again.

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