The short "Xiao Min Family" in parents has attracted attention from many parties since its release, close to the theme of life, men and women struggling in the red dust, divorced parents and adult children, it is really a difficult book for everyone to read, and everyone has a memory that they do not want to turn over.
In Liu Xiaomin's memory, Xiao Bai Shoes, Jin Bo, and Teacher Su are painful memories that she never wants to touch, while in Jin Jiajun's heart, childhood, chase and mother are the tears and pain points in his heart.
Liu Xiaomin's pain, Little White Shoes, Jin Bo and Teacher Su
Liu Xiaomin comes from a single-parent family, although she has a mother who loves her very much, but the unsound family environment still makes her heart a little sensitive.
Since childhood, Liu Xiaomin has been handsome and loves to be clean, she is sensible, well-behaved, and knows that it hurts, and her mother Wang Sumin, because she divorced her husband, so the life of their family of three is not rich, but the spicy and hard-working Wang Sumin has a tasteful life.
Under the care of Wang Sumin, the light environment at home can also be justified, and she is also doing her best to meet the needs of the children.
Liu Xiaomin loves to be clean, so she always likes to wear white shoes, at that time, those small white shoes were really not cheap, but for the sake of children, Wang Sumin never wronged them.
And clean shoes and delicate face, let Liu Xiaomin appear exceptionally outstanding, soon, her beauty will attract the envy of many people, especially some girls, because, the same white shoes, but no one can wear Liu Xiaomin's feelings.
In this group of female classmates, there is Li Ping, who has been high-minded since she was a child, she wants to compete with Liu Xiaomin everywhere, and soon, the sensitive student era has passed, and Liu Xiaomin has also completed secondary school.
Just 20 years old, her marriage was put on the agenda by her mother, because a good marriage is the best guarantee for the future, and Jin Bo, the second generation of officials, has long been put on the heart of Mother Liu.
You must know that the Jin family at that time was in Jiujiang, which was a well-known family, because Father Jin was the director of a large state-owned factory, and Mother Jin was also a cadre of the state.
Let's take a look at Jin Bo, he was a soldier, not only is he tall, but he is not bad looking, such a family lineage and personality are naturally favored by many women's families.
Therefore, Liu Mother decided to start first, she took the initiative to find the Jin family, put forward a request to call two children to go on a blind date, and the Jin family is also very satisfied with Liu Xiaomin, because Xiaomin is not only beautiful, the key is culture, although she comes from a divorced family, but they are all old acquaintances, and her people are all in their eyes.
In fact, there was another very important reason for the Jin family at that time, that is, they knew very well what kind of person their son was, he was a rusty pillow, looking bright and beautiful, but in fact, there was no content.
He was a man who had no ability to do it, no sense of responsibility, and this man had long been spoiled by them, so when Mother Liu offered to let the two people interact, the Jin family immediately agreed.
Soon, Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo became relatives under the arrangement of both parents, and Liu Xiaomin at that time was too young to know what love was, so she married herself out of the arrangement of her mother.
After getting married, she found that there were too many bad habits on Jin Bo's body, not pragmatic, bragging, not responsible, and even less responsible, he was a child who had not grown up, completely spoiled by his parents, but the wood had become a boat, raw rice had long been cooked into cooked rice, although, she had a lot of complaints, but for the sake of her mother she endured.
Soon, their son Jin Jiajun was born, but Jin Bo did not change in the slightest, during this period, he not only did not do his job, but also learned to drink alcohol, a drink can be drunk from morning to night, drinking is just that, he also learned to hit people and smash things, which made Liu Xiaomin no longer bear it.
So, she proposed a divorce to Jin Bo, but at that time, Jin Jiajun was too young and he was only four years old, so the parents of both sides did not want them to separate, and Liu Xiaomin's mother hid her hukou book.
There is no way, Liu Xiaomin, who can't get divorced, can only live her life hard, but her inner depression makes her sullen all day.
Later, in order to ease her mood, she wrote her emotions and unhappiness in her poems, and she also met many like-minded friends with poetry friends, and Teacher Su of the school was her poetry friend.
The two of them are very able to talk, and many of their views on poetry, life, and the future are similar, and after that, the two people often discuss poetry and prose together.
But their pure friendship attracted the criticism of others, once, Liu Xiaomin went to find Teacher Su to borrow books, in his dormitory, suddenly, Teacher Su's wife came, the rude woman saw that she did not say a word, went up and grabbed Liu Xiaomin's hair, she shouted, and soon, her screaming attracted a lot of onlookers.
And those people are all holding the attitude of schadenfreude to watch, the weak Liu Xiaomin was dragged to the front of the people by the tall woman, like a chicken, laughing, cursing, shouting, they knocked Liu Xiaomin unconscious one by one.
Dizzy Liu Xiaomin, she can't escape and can't escape, and when she is overwhelmed, she sees her six-year-old son Jin Jiajun at a glance.
And the young Jin Jiajun, he didn't know what was happening, he only saw his mother being stuck there like someone else, her hair messy and her face was tearful.
And that terrible scene later became a nightmare that Liu Xiaomin could not forget for a lifetime, that day, she just happened to be wearing white shoes again, and after her "peach incident" was spread, a song about her and white shoes was sung in the streets and alleys, "Liu Xiaomin flowers butterflies, wearing a pair of small white shoes,......" The words behind it are really unbearable.
Later, Liu Xiaomin, who suffered a major blow, divorced Jin Bo, but the stain on her body made her lose custody of her children, and finally, she fled to Beijing alone, where she began a difficult life in a place where she was not familiar with life.
Jin Bo, on the other hand, took advantage of her affair with Teacher Su to spoil her, he snatched the custody of the child, and said bad things about Liu Xiaomin to the child.
Therefore, Jin Bo, Xiao Bai Shoes and Teacher Su are the painful memories that Liu Xiaomin is least willing to mention, and Jin Jiajun, he also has a most sad and unforgettable painful memory.
The loss of maternal love, countless times of abuse and bullying
Jin Jiajun is actually a very poor child, when he was young, his family was not compatible, and there was never anyone else's joy and laughter in that family.
Mother Liu Xiaomin, her personality is somewhat introverted, so there are not many words in normal times, and his father Jin Bo, he does not go home under normal circumstances, but occasionally when he comes home, he will play drunk crazy, either beating people or cursing people.
Fortunately, he had grandparents and grandmothers who loved him, and childhood did not bring him joy, on the contrary, it brought him a disastrous blow.
He was only six years old that year, and he happened to be playing at the school that day, but it didn't take long for him to be attracted by the noise of adults.
When he squeezed over, he saw his mother being dragged by her hair and beaten violently, when her face was in tears, and her little white shoes were ruthlessly stepped on under her feet.
That scene was so terrible, Jin Jiajun had no idea what was happening, only that everyone was watching him and his mother smiling.
Later, his mother divorced his father, and then his mother left him alone, after which it was difficult for him to see his mother again, and he did not know that his nightmare had only just begun.
At the age of 7, he went to school, but he found that his classmates were very repulsive to him, no one wanted to make friends with him, and he did not know what was happening.
Later, when there was no one to play, he began to be bullied by other children, who chased him and beat him, singing the song "Liu Xiaomin's Butterfly" while hitting.
He was scared, but he didn't know who to help, his father was still at home all day, and he couldn't go to his grandfather, grandma, and grandma all day.
After that, he became someone else's pump and air bag, but these are not the most uncomfortable, he missed his mother, he asked his grandmother over and over again, why everyone else has a mother, and he did not, but the grandmother could not answer, she could only hold him and cry together.
Year after year, his painful childhood passed, but fortunately he was a very gifted child, his academic performance was very good, and he basically did not have to worry about adults.
Although his grades are among the best in school every time, the lack of maternal love has made his personality more inferior and sensitive.
Later, his grandparents were gone, he only had to live with his grandmother, and his father Jin Bo had long been laid off, and he had nothing to do.
Don't look at What Jin Bo can't do, but every time he slanders Liu Xiaomin, he is set after set, and he says bad things about his mother in his son's ear, saying that Liu Xiaomin makes their family unable to lift their heads.
At first, the young Jin Jiajun did not understand, but later, he gradually understood the meaning of the song, and he also had some hatred in his heart for his mother.
The mother still rarely came back, that is, the time they spent with each other was also very short, and slowly, there were some strangeness and estrangement in the hearts of their mother and son.
Thirteen years have passed, Jin Jiajun is already twenty years old, but his Tsinghua dream has not yet been realized, last year's college entrance examination, his results are two points away from Tsinghua, so he is not willing, he only wants to be admitted to Tsinghua.
He didn't know what this obsession was in his heart, but he was coming to Beijing, he was going to enter Tsinghua, maybe in his subconscious, this was a kind of thought about his mother!
Although he said that he didn't care about his mother, his heart was still longing for that mother's love, but just before he was about to take the college entrance examination, his father Jin Bo was in big trouble.
It turned out that this Jin Bo had no money, but he still learned what others were engaged in financing, and as a result, he was cheated out of his money, and finally owed a large amount of usury, and in order to repay the loan shark, he laid down the idea of his son.
He let his son take a year off school and paid off his debts by making up classes for others, while Jin Jiajun, who only wanted to take the Qinghua exam, rejected Jin Bo very angrily.
Later, in order to avoid Jin Bo's persecution, Jin Jiajun only came to Beijing to find Liu Xiaomin, and he lived in Liu Xiaomin's home with his grandmother, although he and his mother were not very close, but jin Jiajun, who was kind at heart, had already forgiven his mother in his heart.
But just as their mother-son relationship was shamefully intimate, the rogue Jin Bo came to the door, and it turned out that he really couldn't avoid the forced debts of those creditors, and he had no place to hide, only to come to Liu Xiaomin with a thick face.
Jin Jiajun saw such a skinless and faceless father, his heart was actually very broken, but that person was his father, although he rarely fulfilled his father's responsibilities, but no matter what, Jin Bo was his own father.
Once, they lived together in that small and simple hut, where Kim Jia-joon still spent some memorable time.
Now that his father was in trouble, it was impossible for her mother to help him, but he could not help him, because he was the only person his father could rely on.
Although the 20-year-old is not yet independent, he is already an adult, and he feels that he has an obligation to help his father, although, as a father, Jin Bo is useless, because he has neither managed him much nor loved him much.
But Jin Jiajun was a kind and responsible child, and since he was a child, because his mother had had enough of other people's blank eyes and insults, he understood how uncomfortable that feeling of humiliation was.
Today, he does not want to see his father being blinded by others, although this father is not qualified, but he still wants to be a qualified son, which may be the conscience and goodwill of a person's human nature.
Seeing this, everyone may have a certain understanding and understanding of Jin Jiajun so tolerant of Jin Bo, and finally, let's talk about the relationship between Jin Jiajun and Liu Xiaomin, in fact, as a kind-hearted child, he has long forgiven his mother.
Especially during this period of time, in his contact with his mother, he saw the difficulties and hardships of his mother in his eyes, he wanted to make his mother happy, but he also did not want his father to live too badly.
This may be a child, the most simple kind of love for his parents, in fact, I want to hug Jin Jiajun, because in his life, there are too many imperfect, mutilated families, unreliable fathers, and mothers who have humiliated him.
But in such a harsh environment, he still maintains a kind and tolerant heart, which is really precious, and finally, he sincerely hopes that Jin Jiajun can realize his wishes, in this life, there is a person who really loves him, stay by his side!