Enjoying the mountains and flowers with your lover and watching the clouds and clouds together should be the happiest thing in the world. In the path of love, some people have returned in vain, and many people have been hurt by love.
Today, young people's concept of love has changed significantly, and the concept of "starting a family first and then starting a business" has also been interpreted, and not everyone can grasp love as soon as possible.
For girls, the greatest happiness in the first half of life is to find the right person. Putting on a wedding dress and entering the palace of marriage is a wonderful scene that all women have dreamed of.
However, with the postponement of the marriage age, there are many "leftover women" in life, and even if they face great psychological pressure, they are still discouraged from marriage.
Some people say that girls are reluctant to start a family, mostly because they pursue independence or expect better partners. In fact, the deeper reason is actually "one word", that is: "afraid".
Afraid to face the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and marriage trivia
Girls' understanding of love is mostly: sweet, pure and comfortable, they yearn for the world of two people, do not want to face the complicated family relationship after marriage.
It is indeed not easy to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some boys do not have the ability to mediate, which brings concerns and troubles to some girls who are looking forward to marriage.
The information about the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in life continues to pass into the ears of girls, which will undoubtedly affect their judgment and even bring "fear of marriage" emotions.
Worrying too much, the negative emotions outweigh the desire for true love, so that when looking for a partner, they will see the boy's independence as a key factor.
They could have enjoyed a carefree life, but after marriage, they had to face oil, salt, vinegar, trifles and complicated interpersonal relationships, so some girls chose to wait and watch.
Fear of betrayal or deception after marriage
Loyalty and single-mindedness are the foundation of feelings and the premise of long-term marriage, but the high divorce rate has hit many people's confidence.
In the time of my fathers, marriage meant a lifetime, but at the moment, marriage does not necessarily mean that you are old with a white head, and this strange phenomenon is indeed a kind of irony.
Seeing friends divorce, some girls began to doubt feelings; found that someone had been betrayed or cheated, and some girls dismissed the idea of falling in love.
Sensuality is the commonality of all girls, when they do not meet a close lover, they will subconsciously protect themselves, close their hearts, and do not want to say love.
Afraid of wrongly paying for youth and choosing the wrong partner
There are countless choices in life, and many times, we don't have to worry about right or wrong, because the road ahead is long, and most of the mistakes can be corrected and the losses can be recovered.
But marriage cannot tolerate any mistakes, and once you get married and start a family, it means binding yourself for the rest of your life. It is necessary to be cautious enough.
We always believe in love at first sight, expect a fantastic love story to happen to us, and every girl has a princess dream in her heart.
Unwillingness to settle is the mentality that all women will have at the intersection of love, so they try to find and screen with their hearts, just to find a perfect lover.
Fear of choosing the wrong partner, worried about their own wrong youth, this mentality is beyond reproach, but this fear of psychology has invisibly added a barrier.
To women: The pursuit of excellence can eliminate fear and meet true love
Every girl has always maintained the best expectations for love, and they have a longing to meet the Prince Charming who conquers themselves and warms their hearts as soon as possible.
But reality has made jokes with many people, some people love it, and many people repeatedly hit the wall. Finding the right partner quickly has even become a luxury.
In this information explosion era, girls are always easily swayed by other people's voices, so they become afraid of love and begin to be afraid of marriage.
In fact, when you are good enough and excellent enough, the world will be gentle with you, you will have more confidence and confidence, and meet a better lover.
Instead of worrying or thinking wildly, try to improve yourself, read more, try to improve your professionalism and personal charm, and your emotional path will become incredibly smooth!