After a friend attended a wedding, his mentality suddenly became very bad. It turned out that it was the wedding of one of her classmates, and after that wedding, whether it was her classmates or her peers, no one was single except herself.
Her mentality suddenly became very bad, and she also wanted to find someone to marry quickly, and even came up with the idea that as long as someone was willing and the other party was similar in all aspects, she could accept it.
Sometimes, when the people around us are married, when the sound of marriage is getting more and more frequent, we have not met the right person, and we will be a little stretched, which is very normal, but even so, we better be calm and not over-aggressive.
People are living in the group, so inevitably, we will be a little concerned about the eyes of others, will be affected by others.
Marriage, if you meet in your early twenties, then get married earlier, if you don't meet in your twenties, others have entered the marriage, we better maintain a better mentality.
Not all flowers just bloom in the spring, not all successes will necessarily be at a young age, and not all people's rhythm of life must be the same.
There is nothing to envy, there is nothing to worry about, some people are married in their twenties, but divorced in their thirties, some people have just married and have children, some people have been married for a long time, and they still do not consider the matter of having children.
The road ahead is long, no matter when it is good, we don't have to care too much about others, just control our own lives.
The people around us have not really led much, we have not really lagged behind much, everyone has their own time zone, but everyone's time zone is not so same.
There are many people in the world, and if you just want to find someone to marry, it really doesn't have to be difficult.
Marriage is not the end, but just a beginning, after marriage, there are still many days, many years of years, we need to go step by step, little by little to feel in the future days, if we find that the other party's character is not good, there are bad behavior habits, and they are not at all out of tune, we are happy to get married for a few days, after marriage, it will only be a very torturous years.
Either they barely maintained this marriage and lived a miserable life, or they could only choose to end it early, seemingly married, but later they would only lose more, and they regretted it.
It is very simple to find someone to marry, but marriage is such an important thing in life, and in this matter, we really should not be so casual and irresponsible for our own lives.
Why people want to get married, is not to say that everyone should get married, this is a kind of inevitability, not that at an age, everyone else is married, of course, they should be the same.
Choosing to marry a person should be a responsibility, and it should be so that someone can walk with them in the future and live better.
If we are not happy, after marriage, we are only more sad and lonely, then even if we are married, this does not really make any sense, except for a married identity, a more bad day, we will not have anything left.
For such a long life, we don't have to overestimate our endurance, and being with the wrong people, we simply can't tolerate it, and we don't actually have to endure it and live that kind of life.
Everyone has only this life, this life that cannot be repeated, and we have an obligation to make every day better.
Therefore, when you don't meet someone who wants to get married, you really don't have to be so eager, and you must hurry up and finish the form of marriage. Although more proactive in searching, although more effort to be able to meet a good person.
Live your single life well and make yourself a better quality self. In order to say goodbye to being single, to put it into action, to take the initiative to get close to what you feel is good, to fight for a possibility for yourself.