Many things in the world are one thing and one thing, and sometimes the same is true between husband and wife.
Some men, you don't look at him outside is very strong, barking five or six, but as soon as he sees his wife, he is docile like a sheep, and what his wife says is what it is. And some other men, who are nestled outside, see everyone who only promises, but in front of his wife, he is like a fierce god.
Therefore, in the matter between husband and wife, outsiders really can't say anything. Some couples look like a good match, but they can't go together, two people are noisy and noisy, not happy; some couples look completely incompatible, but the two people are qinser and ming, kind and loving.
When children are looking for a partner, parents should still interfere less and respect their children's wishes. Parents can create opportunities for them, but don't help them decide, let them see for themselves. As for the marriage partner they choose, as long as there is no major problem of principle, the parents should be generously accepted.
The kind of man who has a cowardly personality or does not do things in a good way, if he finds a strong wife, can control him, which is also a very good thing. A man's nature always has a child's side, before marriage by the parents, after marriage by the wife to manage, no one cares about him, he will not know the direction.
The husband went to play mahjong, and the wife overturned the mahjong table
When Jiaqi and her husband got married, her mother-in-law was very opposed, because her mother-in-law did not like Jiaqi. Jiaqi's personality is very spicy, and she has practiced taekwondo, so she has always been very strong. Because of this, It is also difficult for Jiaqi to find a partner, and many men feel that they cannot control her.
Jiaqi and her husband know each other on a blind date, and her husband's personality is more willful and not aggressive. This is mainly because the family loves him too much, spoils him freely and loosely, and has no spirit of responsibility.
When looking for a partner, the husband is also very willful, picky and choose, and have met many relatives, but they have not succeeded. Later, someone introduced him to Jiaqi, and he didn't know whether he was annoyed with each other or really liked Jiaqi, anyway, he recognized Jiaqi and wanted to marry Jiaqi.
At that time, the mother-in-law was very opposed, probably because of the rebellious mentality. The more the mother-in-law objected, the more the husband wanted to marry Jiaqi, so the mother and son fought every day. Jiaqi's first impression of her husband is average, she is holding the attitude of trying it out, and she began to associate with her husband.
Later, Jiaqi heard that her husband had quarreled with her mother-in-law for her, which made Jiaqi look at her husband differently. Slowly, Jiaqi became more and more fond of her husband, and later got married.
After marriage, the husband is still as free and loose as before marriage, eating, drinking and having fun with friends. Because the family's economic conditions are good, the father-in-law opened an electrical appliance store, and the husband said that he was helping in the father-in-law's shop, but in fact, sometimes he went to the store, sometimes he did not go, which was very free.
The father-in-law had no choice but to take his son, but he was old and managed the affairs of the store by himself. The mother-in-law thinks that her son is still young, he likes to play, so she let him play well, anyway, there is no shortage of money at home.
But Jiaqi felt that no, how could her husband be so out of tune? Although the family's economic conditions are good, it is earned by the father-in-law, not the husband. And the guild is old, the husband does not follow the father-in-law to do business well now, so what will happen in the future?
Jiaqi began to manage her husband, and at first her husband was very disgusted and wanted to resist. But he couldn't scold and scold Jiaqi, he couldn't beat Jiaqi, but Jiaqi had practiced taekwondo, or a black belt! The husband can only be very obedient on the surface, privately still eating, drinking and having fun, jiaqi does not pay attention, he will go out.
When the mother-in-law saw her daughter-in-law in charge of her son, she was very distressed about her son, and she disliked Jiaqi even more. The mother-in-law is looking for trouble for Jiaqi everywhere, jiaqi is not a person who is rebellious, she will directly confront her mother-in-law and show no weakness. The mother-in-law has no way, and the son is afraid of the daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law can only lose every time.
The mother-in-law couldn't do anything with Jiaqi, so she sighed all the time, saying that it was unfortunate for the family to marry such a daughter-in-law. However, the father-in-law admired Jiaqi very much, saying that if his son was not a tool, he should be managed by a daughter-in-law like Jiaqi, and he was very supportive of his daughter-in-law.
After Jiaqi and her husband were married for more than half a year, her father-in-law went on a business trip, and one day her mother-in-law suddenly fell ill. Jiaqi immediately sent her mother-in-law to the hospital, and called her husband who was playing outside, and after her husband rushed to the hospital, her mother-in-law underwent surgery.
Because the father-in-law was on a business trip, the store was not managed by himself for several days, and only a few salesmen were in the store, so Jiaqi had to go to the store to see. When leaving the hospital, Jiaqi instructed her husband to stay by her mother-in-law's side and take good care of her mother-in-law, and her husband agreed.
But Jiaqi's front foot just left, and the husband on the back foot excused himself to go to the boiling water room to pour water, and then went to the chess and card room to play mahjong. The mother-in-law lives in a single ward, and she does not see her son return for a long time, she wants to drink water, urinate, etc., and there is no way to get it. The mother-in-law rang the bell to call the nurse, and the nurse was very unhappy, saying that this kind of thing was done by the family, and the nurse should not be bothered, and the nurse was very busy.
After the mother-in-law was choked by the nurse, she called her son, but the son only cared about playing mahjong and did not care about her mother. The mother-in-law was very angry, and if the son had said that he would not take care of her, then he would have asked a nurse. Now with no son and no caregiver, she was miserable.
The mother-in-law was embarrassed to call Jiaqi, she had always felt that Jiaqi was not good, and now how could she ask for Help from Jiaqi? At four o'clock in the afternoon, After Jiaqi finished her business in the store, she went to the hospital to see her mother-in-law, only to find that her husband had gone to play mahjong.
Jiaqi was very angry, so she blamed her mother-in-law for spoiling her son too much, so that her son would be like this; she served her mother-in-law at the same time. The mother-in-law did not say a word, her son was so disappointed and cold to her, she finally realized that Jiaqi was right, she spoiled her son.
After Jiaqi settled her mother-in-law, she went to her husband angrily, and she would not be accustomed to her husband like her mother-in-law. After arriving at the chess and card room, Jiaqi didn't say anything, and flipped the mahjong table upside down. My husband was scared and pale, and everyone else was confused!
Jiaqi grabbed her husband's ear, carried Jiaqi out of the chess and card room like a chicken, and then "repaired" her husband outside the door, and everyone else was stunned. Finally, Jiaqi took her husband to the hospital and said, "That's your mother, I don't care, you can watch and do it yourself!" ”
If the husband dares to leave again, he can only honestly serve the mother-in-law in the hospital until the mother-in-law is discharged. After the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, the husband honestly went to work in the store again, like a changed person. The mother-in-law was both surprised and happy, and finally admired her daughter-in-law, and began to praise her daughter-in-law every time.
After marriage, there must be a sense of family responsibility
Jiaqi's husband was spoiled and raised from childhood, and his mother has always spoiled him and protected him after marriage, so he is a free and loose person. He had no sense of family responsibility at all, so after his mother fell ill and was hospitalized, he ignored his mother's life and death and sneaked out to play mahjong.
If it weren't for a wife like Jiaqi in charge of him, he would be a cynical rich second generation. When his father was old and unable to work, he could not keep the family business at all. Fortunately, after marrying such a powerful wife as Jiaqi, he was calmed down and managed obediently, so he said that one thing drops one thing!
It can be seen that what kind of wife a man marries is very important, and the relationship between husband and wife is also a game. Jiaqi lowered her husband, and her husband slowly embarked on the right path and became active.
Jiaqi's mother-in-law loves her son, which is a common sentiment of people, but she can't love too much, that is, coddling. If you spoil the child, there is no benefit to the child, only the disadvantage. After the children get married and start a family, the mother-in-law should let go appropriately, and let their little couple solve the matter by themselves.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.