I ask you to be my wife/husband, my partner in life and my only lover. I will cherish our friendship and love you, now, in the future, and forever. I will trust you, respect you, and I will laugh and cry with you. I will love you faithfully, whether the future is good or bad, whether it is difficult or happy, I will spend it with you............ Maybe the Lord asked me to do more, but whatever happens, you will be around with you.
The vows at this wedding often make many people who yearn for love burst into tears, so in real life, how many people can fulfill the vows at the wedding, regardless of life, old age, illness and death, they are in the same boat with their partners? The 2020 Henan female doctor cancer case may be like a cold knife, which perfectly unveils the complexity and unbearableness of human nature.
The female doctor in the case, named Yang Nan, unfortunately developed liver cancer at the end of 2015. The doctor told her that she had to have a liver transplant as soon as possible or she would be in danger of dying. Desperate, Yang Nan pinned all her hopes on her husband Zhang Hai, after all, Yang Nan's original family is very poor, as far as her current situation is concerned, only her husband Zhang Hai is the only straw she can grasp.
So at this crucial moment, what kind of decision will Zhang Hai make?
In fact, Zhang Hai and Yang Nan did not marry for a long time, the two met during their doctoral studies in a key university, and the matching of academic qualifications and appearance made their love get the envy and blessings of relatives and friends from all over the world. As the saying goes, why didn't Zhang Hai and Yang Nan ever aspire to the happiness of a couple in their lifetime?
Unfortunately, regret is the norm in life. In 2015, Yang Nan's last year of doctoral studies, she began to feel often that her limbs were weak and her whole body could not lift her spirits. She thought she was just overtired, but who knew that after going to the hospital for diagnosis, she found out that she actually had advanced liver cancer!
This news is undoubtedly a huge test for the family that she and her husband Zhang Hai have just formed. After all, the two also swore at the wedding not long ago, no matter whether they are born, old, sick or dead, they will spend time with each other, and now, Yang Nan is terminally ill, will Zhang Hai betray his faith?
Zhang Hai was 35 years old at the time, and during the time when Yang Nan was first diagnosed with the disease, he did run around for her, seeking medical treatment, and even spent all the savings he had saved in recent years for her. But as time passed minute by minute, Zhang Hai found that his wife Yang Nan's illness was like a demon devouring money, and whether Zhang Hai was willing to throw money to make a bet or not, the end was doomed after all.
So, in the fifth year that he accompanied his wife Yang Nan to fight the disease together, that is, in 2020, he filed for divorce from his wife because he could not afford to pay medical expenses. But Yang Nan refused to agree no matter what, because she wanted to live, if her husband insisted on divorcing her, who would be willing to pay her a high cost of chemotherapy in the future?
After all, her elderly parents were already in debt for her, and the friends around her had cut off contact with her as early as the beginning of her cancer, only her husband insisted on it for five years. If her husband no longer helps Yang Nan, then Yang Nan can only watch herself die in a hospital bed.
Therefore, she refused to sign the divorce agreement under any circumstances. After some bitter entanglement, her husband Zhang Hai actually knelt down for Yang Nan, and he cried and begged his wife: "You let me go, I just turned 40 years old, I don't have any children under my knees, I don't want to drag my life down like this..."
After hearing Zhang Hai say this, Yang Nan shed painful tears. Although she also knows that her husband is not easy, she still can't reconcile with the world in her heart, and it feels like you are about to fall off a cliff, and the partner who promised to spend life with you has chosen to abandon you and run to a new life.
The icy reality began to tear a crack between the two, separating them farther and farther apart. In the end, Yang Nan still chose to fulfill her husband and signed the divorce agreement, but she hoped that her husband could help her repay the 800,000 loans owed due to medical treatment, so, as far as the law is concerned, does Zhang Hai have this obligation?
According to Article 1059 of the Civil Code, husband and wife have the obligation to support each other. A party in need of maintenance has the right to demand maintenance in the event that the other party fails to perform its maintenance obligations.
When Yang Nan was terminally ill, Zhang Hai, as a husband, did have the obligation to raise his wife, and he should also pay part of the wife's maintenance. That is to say, the requirements put forward by Yang Nan are also based on the law. In addition, after the divorce of the two, the division of common property between the husband and wife is carried out as usual.
Article 1062 of the Civil Code [Joint Property of Husband and Wife] The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be the common property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife: (1) wages, bonuses and labor remuneration; (2) income from production, operation and investment; (3) income from intellectual property rights; (4) inheritance or donation of property, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 1063 of this Law; (5) other property that shall be jointly owned.
Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of common property.
In the end, after the agreement between the two parties, Zhang Hai paid Yang Nan 300,000 yuan in maintenance fees, and Yang Nan finally agreed to sign the divorce agreement, and this relationship that struggled in the illness for five years came to an end.
Everyone longs for the happiness of a lifetime and a couple, but they do not know that life is often full of gaps in regret, as Bai Juyi said in his poem, "If there is no hatred under the eyes of the teaching, I do not believe that there is a white head in the world." "In this case, Zhang Hai and Yang Nan did not do anything wrong, but the interests they stood on were different, after all, no one stipulated that they must dedicate themselves to each other to be considered great love, you and I are ordinary people, in order to survive it is not easy, how to blame?