He Saifei is a mainland film and television actress and a national first-class actor, who has participated in excellent films such as "Dream of the Red Chamber", "Big Red Lantern Hanging High", "Red Pink", "Wind Moon", "Behind enemy lines", and won the Best Supporting Actress Award of the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award for "Armed Workers Behind Enemy Lines".
Later, he starred in TV series such as "Love For Flowers on the Sea", "Love is Sunshine", "Dazhaimen", "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", "The Happy Past of Lao Ma's Family" and other TV series, and won the "Audience's Favorite Top Ten Actress Award" of the Meiling Cup of CCTV with "Dazhaimen".
Although he has the title of "Aunt Wife Professional Household" with his acting skills of "Ten Thousand Styles", in fact, He Saifei has played the role of "Famous Lady Show" in Yue Opera before, the absolute Miss Qianjin.
And outside the play, she and her first love Yang Nan have always been each other's only, happily maintaining a love for 39 years, more of which are also inextricably linked to Yue opera...
01
He Saifei was born in 1963 in Daishan County, Zhoushan City, Zhejiang Province, which is an island close to the high seas. Among the children, Josefy is the second oldest in the family.
There is a "second law" in psychology.
Roughly speaking, the first child is generally favored by the parents to enjoy a unique position because of the first child; the youngest child receives more attention from the parents because of the youngest; so the situation of the second child will be more delicate.
But often, the second child is always the most successful. Josefy's childhood perfectly confirmed the "second law".
He Saifei's father used to work in the county's cultural department, and his mother was a tailor who could make all kinds of clothes. Originally, although life was not too rich, there was no shortage of food and clothing.
However, the good times did not last long, and the Family of He Saifei, who was implicated in the family origin problem, was sent to an island near his hometown, and the family's urban hukou became a rural hukou, and his mother unfortunately suffered from tuberculosis.
In order to treat his wife's illness, in addition to doing a lot of agricultural work such as digging mountains and stones, fishing and catching shrimp, my father also did the work of catching medicine and injections, opening a small shop as a tailor, and so on.
He even sold his only house and beloved musical instrument, and spent all his family's savings to slowly cure his wife's illness.
But the illness was cured, and the family was destitute.
Just as the so-called poor couple Pepsi laments, misfortune will only lead to more misfortune, not to mention that there are three underage daughters in the family that need to be raised. The couple often quarreled and eventually divorced when Josefy was five years old.
At that time, He Saifei and the three sisters often followed their mother, but they did not know that their sister and sister were sentenced to their mother, and only she left it to her father.
Knowing that He Saifei especially liked to take pictures, his mother coaxed Him Saifei to the place where his father lived in a "go and take pictures" method.
02
The father and Josefy lived in a rented house and had to do a lot of work to support themselves and their daughter.
Later, He Saifei recalled in the program that the father did not trust his young daughter, often worked with He Saifeng, and put He Saifeng on his own stone cart.
Because no one could watch He Saifeng from behind, afraid that the rough mountain road would turn his daughter upside down, the father could only dig a hole in the stone pile, put his daughter in it, and tie it with a rope to prevent him from falling.
Once his father came back with a scooter and fainted on the way because he was too hungry, which made He Saifeng, who was just six years old, determined to learn to cook.
When he was young, He Saifeng also asked his father about his mother, but his father replied every time he was very resentful: his mother was not good, his father was decentralized, his life was not good when he became poor, and his mother looked down on his father and left.
Slowly, He Saifeng stopped asking.
When he was 17 years old, He Saifei secretly went to see his mother once, but when he saw his mother who had not been seen for many years, there was no surging passion, only plain, and the feelings of mother and daughter had long been strange, and they had not seen each other until their mother's death.
His childhood life was poor, but when he became an adult, He Saifeng stood in front of the old site of his hometown and recalled the life of a dining table, a stove, a sewing machine and two beds, and he could only sigh: Here is of great significance to my life.
On weekdays, his father was very tired from work, and He Saifeng also took care of his father and began to learn to wash clothes, cook rice, and cook.
There is a well behind the alley, where He Saifeng washes clothes, and in the winter, he does not wash large clothes, and He Saifei steps on it with his feet.
He Saifeng's primary school is not far from home, the second class bell in the morning is big, she ran home to cook and then ran back to school, at this time the third class has been a while, after the class and then quickly ran home to cook, after the end of the class to send her father to town.
He Saifei, who is only six years old, has been spending his childhood in this hurried rhythm.
His father was a versatile man who was once called "Little Ma Lie" by acquaintances.
But the heavy burden of life almost overwhelmed him at that time, and the hopelessness of the future and the exhaustion of the body made this intelligent and sensitive man vulnerable and irritable.
Once, when He Saifeng was playing fishing by the river, his father suddenly chased After He Saifeng with a bamboo, and his arm that blocked her ass swollen up.
But seeing that his daughter was swollen, the father would cry on his own and go to get herbs to reduce his daughter's swelling.
Father's love is heavy again. When He Saifeng was sick, the father would not sleep all night and accompany his daughter without squinting.
03
His father's desire to get rid of a difficult life gradually became a driving force in He Saifei's small heart.
When his father saw that He Saifei liked Yue opera, he often ran to his father after listening to it and hummed decently, so he began to teach He Saifei to learn simple notation, learn musical instruments, and learn to sing.
At the age of 19, the Daishan Yue Opera Troupe was recruiting trainees, and if they were selected, they could get the city hukou.
In those days, if you wanted to have a job, you had to go to work.
Being able to move my hukou back to the city means that I can find a good job and make my father happier.
However, the troupe only recruited actors and did not accept musical instruments, so my father was busy finding a teacher in Yue opera to concentrate on letting He Saifei learn Yue opera.
Unsurprisingly, He Saifei entered the Daishan Yue Opera Troupe as a student, and later won a student award when participating in the performances of the Yue Opera Troupe in Zhoushan And Zhejiang Province.
In just one year, He Saifei got the opportunity to play the heroine of the big drama and already had a small reputation in Daishan.
It is also because of yue opera that He Saifei and his sister Xia Saili, who has not been seen for more than ten years, became familiar with each other.
The two once told the story of the first meeting on the show.
It was on a basketball court that her fourteen- and fifteen-year-old sister Xia Saili first knew that she had a second sister, and because of her stubborn temper, she did not know He Saifei.
Later, my sister also liked Yue opera and wanted to test the Yue opera troupe, took the initiative to call He Saifei, got the careful teaching of the second sister He Saifei, and was also admitted to the Yue opera troupe and quickly became a pillar.
After becoming a peer with his sister He Saifei, the two often won awards and were both selected to join the Zhejiang Xiaobaihuayue Opera Troupe with excellent results.
They are sisters in life, but on the stage, they sing a small student and a singer Hua Dan pretend to be a loving couple, from the embarrassment in the eyes at the beginning to the laughing field, and then to the tacit understanding behind.
The relationship between the two sisters, who had been separated for more than a decade, became better and better, breaking the barrier caused by the long separation of their parents.
In addition to the blind date with his sister, the acquaintance and love between He Saifei and her husband are also the opportunity of Yue opera.
04
Four is a very mysterious number for He Saifei.
It took her four years from walking into the door of Yue opera to becoming famous with "Five Daughters Baishou"; and it took her and her husband Yang Nan almost four years from falling in love to getting married.
Recalling the appearance of his first meeting with Yang Nan, He Saifei clearly remembered that Yang Nan was wearing a pair of cloth shoes and a shirt worn by the police, because in the summer, the young man looked black, thin, and relatively handsome.
The first time she saw He Saifei, she didn't know the boy's name, but she knew clearly that this man was the son of Teacher Huang of the theater.
Speaking of his husband being his first love, He Saifei was shy and touched on the show, and teased himself: "I am very happy but I feel very helpless, no one chases after him, and he will marry someone when he chases!" "
In fact, when He Saifei was young, he looked very watery.
At the beginning of the Little White Flower Yue Opera Troupe, many beautiful little girls in their twenties, there were always a lot of handsome boys in the long film studio, lying in front of the window to see them, not to be bombarded by the leader.
Asked why he was with Yang Nan, He Saifei laughed and said that he was the first to get the moon near the water building.
He Saifei said of himself and her husband Yang Nan: In fact, the two words of fate cannot be abused, but sometimes it is not nothing.
When He Saifei followed Teacher Huang to learn Yue opera, he went to Teacher Huang's dormitory and saw a group photo of the teacher's family behind the mirror.
Because he lacked a complete family in his childhood, not to mention the family photo, He Saifei was interested and took it.
The picture shows the handsome four brothers, and at that time, He Saifei had a wonderful and strange idea in his mind, thinking that he wanted to become the daughter-in-law of their family.
But which one it was, she didn't know.
Later, she was the first to meet Yang Nan.
That day, she and other girls were washing clothes behind the theater, and when she saw Yang Nan, her first reaction was to think that he was very decent and simple, and that he was very handsome and left a good impression.
06
Because of his parents, He Saifei's requirements for marriage are to be stable and absolutely cannot be divorced.
So even though there was a boy who actively pursued He Saifei at that time, he had been flying from Shanghai to see He Saifei, but because he felt that others were too affectionate and unsteady, he did not have the intention of he Saifei.
Because He Saifei and some other girls often could not go home, Teacher Huang would invite them to their own homes to make dumplings to eat, and they often met Yang Nan and chatted over time.
Later, once Chinese New Year's Eve went to Huzhou to perform, Yang Nan wrote a letter to He Saifei, the words were written straight, and it was very literary at first glance.
There is a saying in it: I love the sea and I love the daughter of the sea.
Because He Saifei is a daughter living by the sea, this cryptic confession suddenly touched her heart.
He Saifei is a very traditional woman, feel that falling in love is a very sacred and beautiful thing, learned that Yang Nan had another girlfriend before getting along with herself, shook the hand of another woman, and once wanted to break up.
Yang Nan took a roundabout tactic, tricking He Saifei into going to Daishan on a business trip, and took a boat back to her hometown with her, and the two people laughed and laughed on the boat, so that He Saifei was reluctant to break up.
07
In 1985, at this time, He Saifei had signed a contract to shoot the Yue opera film "Dream of the Red Chamber" for three years, and it was the busiest time that He Saifei's father was diagnosed with lung cancer.
Yang Nan always accompanied He Saifei to visit He Saifei, because the father did not want his daughter to fall in love so early, so Yang Nan was always waiting for He Saifei downstairs.
In the last nine days of He Saifei's life, He Saifei has been accompanying his father, and Yang Nan, who has accompanied He Saifei for a long time, learned the news of He Saifei's death because he had just returned to Hangzhou from work, and immediately rushed back.
At that time, He Saifei was sad and tired because of the death of his father, and when he woke up from sleep in front of the bed, he found yang Nan holding his hand tightly, which gave her great encouragement and strength.
In 1988, more than a year after her father's death, He Saifei married Yang Nan, who was six years her senior.
The wedding is particularly simple, it is a wedding photo of two people, or a friend told them that the studio did the activity shoot, and finally the studio gave two people a souvenir.
The marriage room was still in Yang Nan's own room, without any arrangement, and He Saifei wrote a few words on his own.
But He Saifei said that at that time, she was particularly touched, no less than the grand wedding.
A marriage with love can be satisfied not only in form.
Because there is Yang Nan and a family with Yang Nan, He Saifei is also particularly down-to-earth when he goes out to shoot a drama to do business.
08
In 1985, He Saifei became famous for winning the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Award for the Yue opera film "Five Daughters Baishou", and then there were often big directors who came to her to make movies, but because of the group, they have been dragging.
It was not until 1991 that He Saifei won the opportunity again to play the third aunt who came to sing in the film "The Big Red Lantern Hangs High" with Gong Li.
Subsequently, Li Shaohong and Chen Kaige invited her to star in "Red Pink" and "Wind Moon", and it is said that Chen Hong, the role of He Saifei in "Wind Moon", also went to the interview, but Chen Kaige finally chose He Saifei.
He Saifei, who stepped into the film and television circle, has a deep interest in acting, and the successive favors of big directors have also made He Saifei popular in the film and television circle.
The road ahead is smooth, but it has not yet reached the top, and He Saifei still wants to continue to fight.
In fact, from stepping into Yue opera to later stepping into the film and television circle, He Saifei has always been a workaholic, and she has taken little care of her family.
The two men dragged their feet until the tenth year before they had their first son, Tiger Baby.
Yang Nan is a very tolerant husband, when his wife is outside the lord, he is inside; his wife is very busy filming, he takes care of the children, which directly leads to Tiger Baby being closer to her father from an early age.
These are the pains and regrets of Josefy as a mother.
Because Tiger Baby has favored her father since she was a child, He Saifei cried and laughed on the show and said: "What to do, I must be good to my father, otherwise my son is not good to me." "
Although it seems to complain, it is full of concern.
They were in love for 40 years and maintained a marriage for 34 years.
From the once poor to the later happy family, still as beautiful as the beginning, how many couples can do it?