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Yao Di
Tao Jie wrote in "The Girl Who Killed Quail":
When you are old and look back on your life, you will find that when to go abroad to study, when to decide to do your first career, when you choose a partner and fall in love, and when to get married, in fact, are all great changes in fate.
Life is full of choices, and sometimes a small decision becomes a turning point in fate.
Wise choices can make people soar and reap good harvests; wrong choices may make people fall into the abyss, and one wrong step at a time, or even ruin the future.
If Yao Di did not break up with Chi Shuai that year, if their seven-year love was a beautiful ending, then the happy person today should be her, but time has passed, and after many years of breaking up, their lives, a heaven, an underground.
01 Character determines destiny
Chi Shuai's body has a humble and gentlemanly temperament, which is related to the family environment in which he was born.
In 1980, Chi Shuai was born in Qingdao, Shandong Province, his father was a tailor, it sounds nothing special, in fact, he is a fashion tailor with a forward perception of fashion, so Chi Shuai has been familiar with various fashions since he was a child.
At that time, when there was no tie in China, Chi Shuai's father saw it in foreign magazines and began to do it himself, and when Chi Shuai was only three years old, he began to wear a small suit.
Since then, Chi Shuai has had a unique insight and understanding of fashion, and has also been quite interested in design.
As a busy tailor, Chi Shuai's father did not leave behind the education of his son, in order to cultivate his distinctive temperament, Chi Shuai let Chi Shuai practice dancing, playing piano and other talents from an early age.
It was only when Chi Shuai was 16 years old that his father died of a serious illness, and the family left a large amount of debt owed when he treated his father, and in order to repay the debt, the family not only sold the house, but even had problems eating.
In such a situation, although Chi Shuai is underage, he has begun to show the responsibility and responsibility of a man.
At that time, he had been studying dance at the Beijing Dance Academy for four years, and the future could be expected, but in order to help his mother reduce the financial burden, he hid from her mother and dropped out of school.
Early years late handsome
After that, Chi Shuai made money by being a model and walking around the catwalk.
Because of his superior appearance and temperament, he was also discovered by the agency to sign a group, but before the release of the record, the company collapsed.
With no job and no income, Chi Shuai experienced the most decadent and helpless moment of his life during that time.
He was staying at a friend's house at the time, and he was not embarrassed to ask people to eat and drink again, often they bought something outside or the company ate the leftover meals and packed them back, so he followed them.
During that time he was thinking every day "What to do?" What to do? "All kinds of problems in his mind, he can't sleep at night.
He was often alone in the middle of the night, looking out the window and saying to himself, "Why did you leave me and my mother and let us live so hard?" "The thought of thinking about it and the tears fell.
But Chi Shuai's bones inherited his mother's strength, and he would not be defeated so easily, let alone give up easily.
But the reality is very cruel, just when he was desperate to return to his hometown of Qingdao to become an ordinary youth dance teacher, the news of the recruitment of male hosts for "Little Dragon Club" came.
Chi Shuai seemed to see a new hope, but he was a little hesitant.
Later, with the encouragement of his friends, he decided to give it a go, which was his last chance, and it was a big failure to return to his hometown.
But fate is sometimes so magical, when you fight up, it will often be dark, Chi Shuai successfully passed all the auditions, and became one of the hosts of "Little Dragon Club".
Chi Shuai is a sunny and positive big boy, he always leaves the most energetic and happy side to the audience, giving people positive energy.
Chi Shuai does not like not to complain to people, no matter how much pressure is great, he does not reach out to borrow money from his friends and swallow the pain into his stomach.
When others learned of his past and couldn't help but wipe his tears, he just skipped it lightly, saying:
I didn't think it was bitter, there were people who were bigger than me.
It was by relying on such an upward force that he began to break through in the entertainment industry.
Compared with Chi Shuai's past experience,
Yao Di's growth was also a counterattack, but later she broke a good deck of her own cards.
02 One wrong step wrong step wrong
Yao Di is two years younger than Chi Shuai, born in 1982 in an ordinary family in Tongxiang City, Jiaxing City, Zhejiang Province, in order to live, her parents work outside the home for many years to earn money, Yao Di grew up with her grandparents.
And Yao Di's grandfather is a violent temper, there are some machismo, at every turn to shout at the grandmother, in such an environment grew up Yao Di, the personality is more and more withdrawn, do not like to communicate with people.
After going to school, Yao Di was often isolated by children, and no one wanted to play with her.
In order to integrate her into other children, the teacher also went to great lengths, such as letting her distribute toys or small snacks.
But every time she distributed something to other children, she was empty-handed again, and her turn was gone.
Yao Di is also not noisy or noisy, and her quiet and well-behaved is a bit distressing. Later, as she grew older, Yao Di became more and more beautiful, and someone wrote her love letters when she was in junior high school, and her parents were also worried that she would fall in love early and often told her.
Early Yao Di
Of course, Yao Di herself had never had any crooked thoughts, she just wanted to study hard and go out to see the bigger world.
After graduating from junior high school, Yao Di decided to go to Hangzhou Art School to study Yue opera.
Yao Di studied Yue opera, not because she really liked it, but because her rebellious heart was at work, and she wanted to escape the control of her parents.
Her parents thought she really liked Yue opera, so they were very supportive of her choice and had high hopes for her.
Yao Di is a stubborn person,
The more others are not optimistic, the more she has to prove herself, which may be the reason why she went the wrong way later.
Although Yao Di was not interested in Yue opera, after arriving at school, she became the one who worked hardest, not for anything else, because most people were not optimistic, and she did not believe it.
Living up to expectations, after graduating from art school, Yao Di was assigned to the Hangzhou Yue Opera Troupe and served the "Iron Rice Bowl", which made her parents very happy, but Yao Di was not much happy, because she had bigger dreams.
In the face of Yao Di's choice, although her parents were angry, they couldn't do anything with her, that was the way she had to go.
Later, Yao Di was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy, and not only became a classmate with Ma Su, but also lived in the same dormitory, and the two had a very good relationship.
During the school period, Yao Di was not eager to go out to shoot dramas, but immersed herself in hard reading in a down-to-earth manner to prepare for better development in the future.
Until 2006, a draft called "Dream of the Red Chamber" began to cast for the new version of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Yao Di had a special love for the role of "Lin Daiyu" in the play, so she signed up for the competition.
At that time, many people participated in this activity, including Yang Mi, who debuted as a child star, and Li Qin. Yao Di stood out with her experience of playing "Lin Daiyu" many times in Yue opera.
Like Yao Di, Li Xudan is also determined to win "Lin Daiyu", but when the director finalized the role, he chose Yao Di to play "Lin Daiyu", which made Li Xudan very sad, so she left the crew overnight.
In the first battle, he encountered an unfavorable situation, which seemed to foreshadow Yao Di's future path.
Yao Di's appearance in "Lin Daiyu" caused many people to be dissatisfied at the time, some people said that she was a resource café and brought funds into the group, and some people said that she had a good background, and all kinds of gossip flocked to her.
In the end, the troupe had to change her role to calm the anger.
In 2008, Yao Di starred in Li Shaohong's version of "Dream of the Red Chamber" as "Wang Xifeng".
03 The future can be expected
The first time she entered the crew to shoot a scene, Yao Di was very much looking forward to it, but also a little nervous, in order to create the first role of her acting career, she privately put a lot of effort.
But as soon as she got to the set, entered the scene, and looked at the actor who was shooting the scene, she would always have a blank head.
Even, too shy to look up at the other person's face, she herself is very annoyed by this, and it is easy to make the director angry.
In order to make her recognize reality and drama, the director scolded her: "You are an actor, don't take your own emotions to shoot, you can do anything in life, but you are here to play this character, not to play yourself." ”
Later, Yao Di really entered the play and successfully portrayed "Wang Xifeng".
Although this role did not make Yao Di famous overnight, it also gained a lot of popularity, and more people in the industry looked for her to shoot, and in those two years she successively filmed "Nanjing!" nanking! " and "Transforming Into a Man and a Woman" and other dramas, the popularity of the gradual rise, the future can be expected.
At this time, Chi Shuai also transferred from the host to the film and television circle, participating in dozens of film and television dramas such as "Killing The Green", "Golden Powder Family", "One Meter of Sunshine", "The Rainy Season Will Not Come Again", "Love Ben Innocence", "My Sun", "Thirteen Provinces", "Great Love Is Silent" and so on.
Chi Shuai looks elegant and handsome, and willing to suffer hardships, he belongs to the genre of drama celebrities, in many film and television dramas, he can always make people shine with excellent acting skills and wonderful performances, but his low-key personality makes his presence outside the drama is not strong.
The fate of Chi Shuai and Yao Di also originated from "Love Ben Innocence", the two are handsome, one is beautiful, and the same age, like-minded, and soon rubbed out the spark of love.
It's just that because both are insiders and their careers are still on the rise, they have opened an underground romance.
It was not until the two traveled to Sanya together that the relationship was exposed, which was also the first time that Chi Shuai entered the entertainment industry for more than a decade.
For the sudden exposure of the relationship, Neither Chi Shuai nor Yao Di ever responded.
Not long after, the two were photographed in and out of the apartment together, which further confirmed the relationship between the two.
However, they unanimously denied it, perhaps in order to focus on their careers, they did not want to make their private lives too public.
Just when everyone was tracking more for the two people's confusing love affair, Chi Shuai fired a fire with the gentle and considerate and obsessive Gao Wenyan in "The Temptation to Go Home".
Stills from The Temptation to Go Home
After that, Chi Shuai starred in many popular dramas such as "Four Young People in New Beijing", "Symphony of Destiny", "Four Talents of Jiangnan", "Xue Dingshan" and so on.
At the same time that Chi Shuai's career ushered in the peak, Yao Di also ushered in the first "fire" of her acting career.
In 2011, director Teng Huatao invited the article and Yao Di starred in the urban emotional drama "The Naked Marriage Era".
Yao Di plays Tong Jiaqian in it, while the article plays Liu Yiyang, and the two are a couple in the play.
After the broadcast of this drama, it won the 8th place in the "Top Ten TV Dramas of the National Drama Festival", and sent the article and Yao Di to the peak of her career.
Yao Di also won awards such as most popular actress and most popular actress with "Tong Jiaqian", and Yao Di became the most promising actress at present.
If it weren't for the fact that she herself was too deep into the drama and couldn't get out, she would have been a unique actress in the film and television circle today.
It's just a pity that one wrong step is wrong, and it is she herself who ruined her great future and happy life.
04 Wrong choice
In Yao Di's mind, the article is her idol, even if he is married.
Thinking about it carefully, Yao Di is somewhat similar to "Tong Jiaqian", tong Jiaqian in the play grew up in a well-off environment, and what she wants from childhood to adulthood can be easily obtained, so she has also developed a temperament that she is determined to get everything.
So when her parents and teachers were chasing and blocking her and Liu Yiyang's early love, she was even more rebellious, allowing her to maintain her relationship with Liu Yiyang for eight years.
Although they later divorced again for various reasons, they eventually came together because of love.
But outside the play, she wasn't so lucky.
In the case of knowing that the article is married and has children, there is nothing wrong with treating him as an idol, the fault is that he is too into the drama, and he also moves the truth.
What happened next, everyone knows.
Photos of Yao Di and the article's outing were exposed, and the intimacy of the two was like a couple in love.
Immediately, a "small essay on admitting mistakes" in the article confirmed the extramarital affair between the two people, and for a time public opinion was in an uproar, all to see how Ma Yili, as a wife, responded.
And Ma Yili is a smart and wise woman, she did not cry and make a fuss, nor did she say forgiveness, but responded with "love is easy, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished".
At this point, the article returned to the family and played a good father and a good husband.
The remaining Yao Di, a thousand fingers.
After the incident, Yao Di "disappeared" for a while, and when she reappeared,
She was no longer the girl who had been glowing with light in her youthful eyes.
After the wall fell on everyone, the scandal between Yao Di and the article was exposed, and the reason for her breakup with Chi Shuai was also rumored.
It is said that the two had been talking for seven years at that time, to the point of talking about marriage, but because "the man could not afford to buy a million marriage houses", he was opposed by the other parents.
In this regard, Chi Shuai took the initiative to clarify in an interview, saying that the two did not break up because they could not afford to buy a house, and they had a house in Beijing, and the rumors were fictitious.
For these rumors, Yao Di never gave any explanation.
Maybe she herself knew that no matter what she said, no one cared, so she simply "hid".
Until a long time after this incident, in an interview, Yao Di indirectly said that he was also deceived at that time.
It's just that things have happened, and no matter what to say, the truth is that no one cares, the only thing to do is to live yourself.
But over the years, Yao Di's career and love have made people sigh, originally an actress with a great future, plummeted to the point where there was no drama to shoot, and even if there was, no one paid attention to it anymore.
Emotionally, it is even more bumpy.
In March 2018, at the age of 36, she finally posted a photo of herself being proposed on social platforms with the caption:
This peace of mind is Bliss!
If it is someone else, it will definitely be a blessing of the same color, but Yao Di's social comment area is not optimistic.
Life is her own, Yao Di does not care, she is at ease to be her own little woman, and her husband Gao Jie is also very fond of her.
However, in less than three years, Gao Jie was photographed traveling with the woman intimately, and even the news of the marriage change between the two was spread, and Yao Di was still silent about it.
Zweig has a classic quote in The Severed Queen:
She was too young to know all the gifts of fate, and she had already secretly marked the price.
Character determines fate, Yao Di played a good hand of cards herself, and she paid for her wrong choice.
And Chi Shuai, although he has not been among the ranks of first-line male actors for so many years, he is also a masterpiece, and he is deeply loved by the audience with his low-key personality and solid acting skills.
05 A lot of choices, it's a lifetime
Speaking of which, Chi Shuai's concept of love is quite admirable, and after he became popular in "The Temptation to Go Home", he talked about his view of marriage in an interview, he said:
I have a principle that if you are married, you can never divorce.
Think about that time Chi Shuai and Yao Di are still a couple, if the two did not break up, unfortunately there is no if.
However, Chi Shuai is also living quite happily now, and under the introduction of friends, he met his wife Li Luxi, who is 8 years younger than himself.
Li Luqian is also an actress, whose works include "Adolescence 3", "Hitchhiker", "Midnight Song", "Grandpa's War of Resistance" and other dramas.
However, after 2015, she gradually retired from the appearance of works, and there were rumors that she was already married to Chi Shuai Fengzi at that time, and after marriage, Li Luxi focused on family management.
Although the two are very low-key on weekdays, they have never published a couple photo.
But clues can still be found from their social platforms, and Chi Shuai once sent a set of photos and captions on Weibo:
Hook up with little girls under Disney Castle
In the photo, he is "smiling like a flower", and people can feel his happiness across the screen.
And Li Luqian is the little girl who was hooked up.
Nowadays, Chi Shuai has been in love with this little girl for many years, and the two people have a clear division of labor, one inside the main, one outside the main, and when leisure, they will take their sons, a family of three, travel together, and they are not happy.
Someone once asked yao di if he regretted it when he dreamed back in the middle of the night, especially when he saw his ex so happy?
After no regrets, do not know.
Just a lot of choices, just a lifetime.
With the soaring popularity of "The Naked Marriage Era", Yao Di's future was originally bright, and both inside and outside the industry were full of expectations for this rising star.
But less than two years after the fire, she fell into a wrong relationship and ruined her future and happiness with her own hands.
She originally had many choices, it could be Chi Shuai, or any single man, but she chose the married article and chose a way to make herself doomed...
Writer Liu Qing said: "Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps at the critical point, especially when people are young. ”
In life, people will face many choices, and each choice will be a path to a completely different destiny.
I hope that every choice you make is well thought out and will take you in a good direction and eventually live the life you want.
Wen ‖ one by one
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