11 years after the derailment, when Ma Yili encountered an article full of gray hair, he finally understood Yao Di's fate

Text: The East is undefeated

11 years ago, Zhuo Wei put down the three big words "see you on Monday" in a chic manner.

What followed was the "derailment door" incident that shocked the world.

And the fate of the three protagonists has also changed.

Now that I look at Ma Yili and the white-haired article, I finally understand what happened to Yao Di!

01

Recently, the 48-year-old Ma Yili appeared at Milan Fashion Week 2025.

I saw her wearing a leather hooded jacket and leather skirt, with a blue shirt underneath.

The look is chic and aura, and the blue shirt underneath is very eye-catching in the black, white and gray tones of the show.

A perfect fit for Prada's brand.

And the second set of dark gray long trench coats with wide-leg pants.

It is full of life texture in minimalism, showing the confidence and freedom of mature women.

There is no doubt that the independent temperament of a big woman is vividly interpreted.

Ma Yili, who is in excellent condition and has firm skin, has a "murderous aura" in her eyes.

Although the "yellow hair" was complained by some netizens that it was tasteless and had an "earthy taste".

But zero heavy makeup still reveals domineering, and the "sense of luxury" is understood.

is still praised by most netizens as having a "queen style".

Here, Ma Yili shows her style on international occasions.

The article over there was not idle, and it was exposed to the camera again.

Recently, paparazzi Liu Da Hammer exposed the article and the picture of his girlfriend shopping, which instantly aroused heated discussions among netizens.

The article in the video, dressed in a white sweatshirt, shows casual relaxation, walking side by side with his girlfriend on the street, the picture is warm.

This is not the first time the two have been photographed, they have been caught in the same frame many times before, and their relationship is very stable.

The girlfriend of the article, with a slender figure and long hair and a shawl, is dressed stylishly and youthfully.

Judging from the leaked photos, she has an outstanding temperament, a high appearance, and stands with the article, with a different kind of harmony.

But it is worth mentioning that the full head of gray hair in the article is indeed too eye-catching and attracts all the attention of the public.

Looking at Yao Di in the same time period, he can only be described by the word "really miserable".

thought that 11 years after the "See You on Monday" incident, Yao Di would finally be able to make a successful comeback.

After all, before the broadcast of "Actors Please Be in Place 3", she was still working hard to promote.

didn't expect that on the night of the broadcast, Yao Di's footage was all deleted.

Even in some of the scenes, P turned it into a mosaic, and her name is not on the list of show synopsis.

According to netizens, the show was delayed for three hours because he was working overtime urgently to delete Yao Di's footage.

The official response to this was a "contract dispute", but there was no explanation for more specific information.

Some netizens also said: It doesn't look like deleting bad artists, after all, Xu Kaicheng and Liu Zichen are here.

But some people broke the news: it was Ma Yili who made a move!

Although this news does not have any authenticity at first glance.

But I have to admit that now Ma Yili is indeed a proper "winner in life".

Seeing the current situation of the other two, I have to admire her for playing a big "game of chess".

02

Before the "See You on Monday" event.

The lives of the three protagonists can be described as step-by-step and orderly.

At that time, the article and Ma Yili were well-known "model couples" in the entertainment industry.

Because of the support of "Commander Ma", the cause of the article is simply "in full swing".

Therefore, the affectionate confession of the man to the woman can be heard in various public places.

From Guan Hu's "machismo" to the article's "little man, the man behind it".

Ma Yili, who has always shown herself as a "strong woman", slowed down.

After giving birth to a child, the article confirmed his love for her with the name "Wen Aima".

As a result, Ma Yili put a break and focused more on her family.

Here she is pregnant with her second child and recuperating at home, and the article is working hard outside.

It can also be regarded as a "male and female matching", and a real sense of "male outside, female inside".

It's just that I didn't expect that the temptation of the flower world outside was too great.

Besides, Yao Di at that time emerged with the role of "Baochai" in "Dream of Red Mansions".

Later, he shined in dramas such as "Nanjing, Nanjing", "Naked Marriage Era" and "Beijing Youth".

At that time, there was no shortage of people to chase in her life, and her career was thriving and brilliant.

But she grew up with her grandmother and was "lacking love", but she wanted to "moth to the fire" for love.

Because of the role of Tong Jiaqian in "The Age of Naked Marriage", Yao Di won the title of "National Girlfriend".

However, it is precisely because of this drama that she and the article "fell in love because of the drama" during the filming process.

During the filming process, they need to spend a lot of time together, discussing the characters and acting out the plot together.

This kind of close cooperation at work is easy for the two to have emotional resonance and dependence.

The feelings in the play extend to the outside of the play.

In fact, as early as August 2013, "Nandu Entertainment Weekly" reported that Ma Yili was pregnant with a second child and Hong Kong prenatal inspection news.

An agent in the industry revealed to him that the article and Yao Di were secretly "good".

After that, the weekly's reporters and photographers began to follow the article and Yao Di for a long time.

When it was discovered that Ma Yili had gone to Shanghai to raise a baby, Yao Di moved to a hotel-style apartment across the street from the article's house.

When the article was filming in Los Angeles, Yao Di also flew to Los Angeles.

Until "See You on Monday" was completely exposed, these two became the "rats crossing the street" that everyone shouted and beaten.

For Ma Yili, who was still in confinement at the time, it was undoubtedly not a huge trauma.

But when the outside world is waiting for her anger and drastic "cut in two".

However, she staged what is a "textbook-level" coping strategy.

03

Ma Yili did not choose to make a big fuss or tear up openly.

Instead, he made a short but meaningful response, "Do it and cherish it."

On the one hand, this sentence reflects her cherishing of marriage and her attitude of wanting to redeem it.

shows that she is willing to give the article a chance, and also give this marriage a chance.

On the other hand, she also showed her tolerance, generosity and high emotional intelligence, and did not let the incident worsen.

It avoids a greater impact on the image of the family and the individual in public opinion.

It retains a certain dignity and space for himself and his family, and has also won widespread sympathy and support from netizens.

Although the article also admitted his mistake in time, he was still affected a lot.

starred in works such as "Fat Squad" was complained by the audience about poor acting skills and poor reputation.

"Lie Detector" also failed to salvage its reputation.

Gradually, the resources and works that came to my door became less and less.

Later, the article was more turned to behind-the-scenes or drama work, although talented, but due to the image damage.

The development in front of the stage is not as good as before, from the former screen darling to a supporting role, and his career has fallen into a trough.

Yao Di's career was hit hard after the incident.

No one cares about new dramas, and the performing arts resources have been greatly reduced.

For a long time, he rarely appeared in film and television works, and even if he did, most of his works were cameos.

And Ma Yili really opened the "big heroine" mode.

She didn't let it affect her career too much.

Instead, he returned to the screen with a stronger attitude and focused on his acting work.

She starred in "The First Half of My Life", "Find You", "Flowers" and other works in the follow-up.

With his excellent acting skills, he has won the love and recognition of the audience.

It shows the charm of women's independence and strength, and the career has reached a higher level.

He has proved his value and ability with practical actions.

It also conveys a positive attitude to the outside world and not being defeated by setbacks.

After successfully turning the tables against the wind, she officially announced her divorce from the article 5 years after "derailment".

Before the two divorced, Yao Di announced the news that he was about to get married.

I don't know if it's intentional, but it's a bit too much of a coincidence.

Later, Yao Di's husband was rumored to have walked out of the club holding arms with beautiful women many times.

Yao Di is suspected of being cuckolded, and her love life has also been affected by public opinion.

The image and mentality of the article have also changed significantly.

Judging from the image in the public eye, the article that is only 39 years old seems very vicissitudes.

There is no light in his eyes, and his face is a little puffy, which is in stark contrast to his previous high-spirited image.

On the other hand, Ma Yili has learned to enjoy life, and traveling, reading, and fitness have become part of her life.

In front of the public, the image is more and more calm and confident, elegant and generous on the red carpet, and true expression in interviews.

Shine as an independent woman.

In 2025, she will also be awarded the "National First-Class Actor Senior Title", which is a high recognition of her nearly 30-year acting career.

In terms of relationships, some media broke the news that she has a stable relationship with actor Wu Haochen, who is 18 years younger.

Although a staff member denied the relationship between the two in 2020, saying that the two "haven't seen each other for three months."

But in 2025, the relevant reports have once again aroused public attention to their romance.

Today, in the eyes of the public, Ma Yili is an independent, strong, and intelligent female representative.

With high emotional intelligence and strong professional ability, he has won the respect and love of the audience.

But Yao Di's label of "knowing three and being three" is still difficult to get rid of.

Even if there are works launched or life shared, there are still many negative comments from netizens, and it is difficult to repair the public image.

Although there are no real winners in this matter.

But compared to the article full of gray hair, and Yao Di, who has failed to make a comeback many times.

Today's Ma Yili can be regarded as "the spring breeze is proud"!

Summary:

Some people say that 11 years have passed since the incident, and Yao Di has also received the price he deserves and should be forgiven.

But there are also people who believe that being betrayed during confinement is something that cannot be let go of for the rest of their lives.

Do you think Yao Di should be forgiven?