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In fact, every man and woman are thinking about how to be a husband and wife for a lifetime? It's like a vow at a wedding ceremony.
However, life is cruel, when two people gradually expose each other's shortcomings in the days, if they are not able to adjust their state in time at this time, and do not look at it with the perspective of development, it will often come to an end in many cases.
This begs the question, how do we be husband and wife for life?
Some people say it's respect, some people say it's understanding, and some people say it's not forgetting the original intention, so you have to always, but I want to say that if you want to be a husband and wife for a lifetime, then the husband and wife must be evenly matched.
The fact is that when one of you is getting better and the other stays where you are, there will be more contradictions, more problems, and less feelings.
How to be a husband and wife for life? Be sure to take the time to check out this article.
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Husbands and wives are evenly matched, and marriages are stronger.
Some netizens said that the best couple is evenly matched.
Back to reality, this sentence really makes sense.
You and I are equal, you and I are financially independent, you and I have our own jobs, you and I have our own dreams, we are in the same position, we can share the same frequency, we can also resonate.
We are independent of each other, and we are all independent individuals.
and will not cater to each other because they want to please each other, so they will please and live a humble life.
We have confidence on each other's faces, we have peace in our hearts, and we respect each other.
Such a husband and wife will have a stronger marriage.
Sometimes money is not the only criterion, sometimes feelings are not the only criterion, the real criterion is the beauty of two-way running.
Our three views are the same, and our goals are the same.
It's really good for couples who don't get tired of getting along like this.
So, if you get lost one day, think about whether each other's positions are still in the same place.
If not, it's likely that that's why you're getting separated.
Countless facts are telling us that if we want to be a husband and wife for life, we must be evenly matched, because this is the only exit.
How do you feel? What communication? In the end, they all lost to close matches.
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Husbands and wives are evenly matched, and the relationship is deeper.
It has been said that marriage is the grave of love.
The reason why you are in love and I are in love, and the reason why you are good to me during love is because it is a period of love.
When two people enter marriage and return to plainness, the relationship will naturally fade.
Couples for more than ten years are equivalent to touching their right hand with their left hand, and they don't feel anything at all.
Many people are accustomed to it, so there are also many people who are reluctant to step into marriage.
In fact, if one day, when you meet someone who is on par with you, maybe you won't think so.
Because you are attracted to each other, the charm of each other can completely make you fascinate each other.
Of course, after getting married, if you are still evenly matched, you are allies, you are partners, and in the end you will cooperate and win-win.
When you are at a low point in your life, when you fall countless times, you support each other, you will become more and more affectionate, and your feelings will become deeper and deeper.
Therefore, take a look at the people around you, and you will suddenly understand that it is the husband and wife who are really together until they grow old.
Not only because you know me, I understand you, but more often, we know each other.
In the long years, we were able to warm each other, and we were able to be happy with each other.
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The husband and wife are evenly matched, and the relationship is more harmonious.
Seeing such a video, a woman and a man are divorced, and during the cooling-off period of divorce, the man finds a woman, and the man is unwilling to divorce.
It turned out that the woman thought at first that they were arguing with each other because they were not communicating, so the woman kept trying to communicate with the man.
But a man after unemployment is like a hedgehog, always feeling that women look down on him, always feeling that women don't love him enough and don't protect him enough.
In fact, everyone understands that it is actually because men are unemployed, and women are the best in the industry.
Men have low self-esteem, and women always advise with bitter words, which undoubtedly widens the distance between each other and worsens the relationship between them.
Because, the couple is no longer in the same position.
At this time, if the woman interferes too much with the man, it will only make the man feel that the woman is proud, if you want to change this situation, unless the man really comes to his senses.
Find a job again, work well, be aggressive, and try to catch up with women.
When one day they stand on the same height, then they will have the same topic again.
So, how to be a husband and wife for life? The answer is evenly matched.
May all husbands and wives in the world be evenly matched, and their marriages will be happier.
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