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Stills of Josefy
The Bible says, "Sometimes, one side of man's fate is enough." Because he was your lover in a previous life. ”
This sentence is most appropriate for He Saifei and her first love husband Yang Nan.
That year, José flew to the teacher's house as a guest, and when he saw the family portrait hanging on the wall, the picture of the teacher's four sons came out of his mind, and a strange idea flashed in his mind:
One day I will become their daughter-in-law.
The first time Yang Nan saw He Saifei was in the troupe, he came to find his mother, when he passed the pool in the courtyard, among the many little girls, he saw a good smile of He Saifei.
He could see God and couldn't open his eyes at all, at this time the girl next to He Saifei poked at He Saifei with her arm, and at the same time said in her mouth:
You see, that's Teacher Huang's son, and he's quite handsome.
As soon as He Saifei looked up, "A bit like Guo Kaimin", his heart was moved; the two pairs looked at each other again, and their story began.
01 Everything was arranged in the best way
In April 1963, He Saifei was born in Zhoushan, Zhejiang Province.
He Saifei is the second eldest in the family, she also has an older sister and a younger sister, and her sister Xia Saili is also an actress, and later entered the real estate industry and became a professional strong woman.
When He Saifei was four years old, his parents divorced, his sister and sister changed their mother's surname and lived with her, and He Saifei lived with his father.
He Saifei and his sister Xia Saili
Josefy's father was engaged in cultural work.
In order to raise his daughter, he did not remarry and devoted his life and energy to her daughter.
He Saifei was smart and studious since childhood, his grades were good, he loved to read, and it was like an accident and fate to embark on the road of art.
Zhejiang is the hometown of Yue opera, since childhood in addition to learning, He Saifei is also very interested in Yue opera, when she was sixteen or seventeen years old, Yue opera movies "Dream of the Red Chamber", "Jade Hairpin" and so on were screened in rural areas.
In the early years, Josefy
After Watching it, Every time He Saifei came home, he sang a passage to his father with great interest and said that he studied Yue opera.
The father felt that his daughter had the potential in this regard, and her sense of music and image were very good, so he supported her to go to the Kaoyue Theater Troupe.
And at that time, the treatment of the troupe was very good, if the rural hukou could be admitted to the troupe, it could become a urban hukou, which meant that you could find a good job.
But at that time, life in the countryside was very monotonous, and the conditions for learning art were very limited, but He Saifei's learning ability was very strong, and the open-air movies played in the countryside gave her enlightenment.
Later, his father found a teacher for He Saifei, a spinning worker who could sing Yue opera, and He Saifei studied with her for a period of time and was successfully admitted to the Zhejiang Daishan Yue Opera Troupe at the age of 19.
At this point, Josefy's path looks smooth sailing.
Because she entered the troupe for a year, she was transferred to the Xiaobaihuayue Opera Troupe, and then entered the Zhejiang Art School to study opera performance, and after graduation, she took on the leading role and gained attention for her performance in the Yue opera movie "Five Girls Baishou".
In fact, for He Saifei, who has no foundation and has only begun to learn drama at the age of 18, she can quickly become popular, and who can see the sweat and tears that have to be paid in the meantime?
However, He Saifei never said the suffering he had suffered, but inadvertently said only a few words:
The industry is hard, hard, even painful. I fell ill because of this.
When He Saifei was the most bitter and tired, she also doubted her choice, but because she loved the industry too much and couldn't give it up, she could stick to it no matter how tired she was.
However, if she did not go down this road and continued to persevere on this road, she would not be able to meet the person who loved her all her life and spoiled her all her life, and everything was the best arrangement.
In the early years, Josefy
02 A glance at ten thousand years
He Saifei is dignified and beautiful, has a certain talent in Yue opera performances and is willing to endure hardships and hard work, and the teachers in the troupe are very fond of her.
In particular, Yang Nan's mother, Teacher Huang, often asked He Saifei to go to her dormitory to "open a small stove", where He Saifei met the teacher's sons in a group photo on the wall for the first time.
Although the young man in the photo is not handsome, He Saifei is inexplicably attracted to them, and a thought comes out of her heart that frightens herself: "I want to be the daughter-in-law of this family." ”
Unexpectedly, later her teacher really became her mother-in-law, and she really became the daughter-in-law of her mentor.
The first time Yang Nan met He Saifei was in the troupe, and he went to find his mother for something to do.
Just that day, He Saifei and a group of girls were washing clothes by the pool in the courtyard, chattering like happy birds talking non-stop, Yang Nan was attracted by this scene, especially He Saifei's smiling face was particularly beautiful.
He Saifei did not know at this time that the person he had seen on the wall of the teacher's house was standing there looking at her. A girl next to her first spotted and poked her: "Hey, look, this is Teacher Huang's son." ”
Josefy looked up, and his first impression of him was simple, not ugly-looking, and quite decent.
At that time, they did not know that this eye was ten thousand years.
Yang Nan was seven years older than He Saifei, and it is estimated that they did not have other ideas at that time, but only had a good feeling for each other.
To say, Teacher Huang should be the help of their love, that mid-Autumn Festival just happened to be Yang Nan at home, as usual, Teacher Huang asked some girls in the group to go to the house to make dumplings for dinner or something, so that they could meet Yang Nan.
Every time I saw it, I would chat two sentences in two sentences, and slowly the two people would become acquainted.
Yang Nan found that he had a deep affection for his mother, a proud protégé, a "sister" who was several years younger than himself.
He Saifei also found that his liking for the teacher's son was rising, but because He Saifei was a girl, she was more reserved, and this was her first love.
In order to show his sincerity to He Saifei, Yang Nan also made a lot of hard work.
At that time, he did not know how to confess to the girl he loved, he felt that it seemed a little frivolous to say it with his mouth, and he was afraid that he would say the wrong thing when he was nervous, so he thought of a way: to write love letters.
There is a sentence in the love letter that impresses He Saifei very much: "I love the sea, and I love the daughter of the sea." ”
Although it is not a direct confession, this sentence is deeply rooted in the heart of He Saifei, because she was born on the seashore, and she is the daughter of the sea.
He Saifei thus fell into Yang Nan's romance, and no one was happier than her teacher about them being together.
She was originally her favorite student, and now she is her son's girlfriend, her future daughter-in-law, and she is very sweet in her heart.
03 You are my love at first sight, but also a long-term love
After He Saifei and Yang Nan were together, Yang Nan was very fond of her, and whenever he had time, he would come to the group to see her, and every time he came, he would bring a large bag of things she liked to eat, and sometimes he would bring some popular gadgets.
In short, Yang Nan wanted to give her the best thing in the world at that time.
Sometimes he came to the regiment, Jose Fly was too busy to have time, he would wait patiently, waiting for hours, and he looked at her on the stage, as if she was glowing.
Every time, José Fei ran to him after a rehearsal, and sometimes she would ask, "Are you impatient to make you wait so long?" ”
Every now and then, Yang Nan would look at her dotingly: "How can you be impatient, it is you, how long are you willing to wait." ”
This is not an empty word, this is Yang Nan's promise to He Saifei.
Of course, He Saifei also cherishes him, and when she has time, she will also make some small gifts for each other, such as scarves and sweaters, just like other little girls in love.
The mutual care and maintenance between these couples makes their feelings deeper and deeper, and they are wrapped in warmth.
Stills from He Saifei's "Dream of the Red Chamber"
You are my love at first sight, but also a long-term love, like this two-way love is so sweet.
Yang Nan's promise to He Saifei is not just lip service. He is really reflected in every detail, whether it is before or after marriage. During the relationship, Josefy's father was diagnosed with lung cancer.
Hearing this news, He Saifei felt that his sky had fallen, from childhood to adulthood, his father was reluctant to eat and wear in order to provide for her, and gave her the best of everything.
Now before she could make a difference, before she could enjoy a day's blessing, he fell.
Josefy and father
He Saifei's tears dried up, seeing her crying so sadly, Yang Nan was also very heartbroken, he accompanied He Saifei in the hospital to take care of her father, which made He Saifei's father very happy, even if one day he left, entrusted his daughter to him, he was also at ease.
At that time, Yang Nan's work was also on the rise, took too long of leave, the unit has been urging him to go back, and then there is really no way to shirk him and tell He Saifei to go back to deal with the work first, and then rush back immediately.
When Yang Nan finished his work, it was already midnight, but he could not rest assured that He Saifei was alone in the hospital, so he rushed back to the hospital overnight.
At this time, He Saifei was already asleep, he looked at her in sleep full of pain, she was just a little girl in her early twenties, to bear so much, he held her hand tightly.
When Josefy woke up and saw the man holding her hand in front of her, her tears couldn't help but flow down.
The man in front of her, this pair of hands, this grip, gave her great warmth and energy.
From that moment on, she was even more certain of Yang Nan, and in this life, except for her father, no man was as good as him.
Perhaps sensing that her daughter already had a home, the sick father did not survive, and since then he has been sleeping, Yang Nan helped He Saifei deal with her father's affairs, and returned to the troupe with her.
Stills from "Dream of the Red Chamber"
With the sadness of losing her father, He Saifei plunged into the drama, and with her talent and hard work, she soon became a famous character in Yue opera.
In 1986, director Xie Tieli began to shoot the film version of "Dream of the Red Chamber", and He Saifei got the opportunity to star in "Miaoyu", which was also the beginning of He Saifei's on-screen, which was a perfect opportunity for her.
But this six-part eight-episode movie will take three years to shoot, and at this time, Yang Nan is thirty years old, and the love between the two of them has been talked about for three years, and it is time to cultivate the right results.
If she went to shoot "Dream of the Red Chamber" for three years, it would mean that he would have to wait for three years, and his family and friends would persuade him to get married.
Yang Nanzi understood their kindness, but he understood He Saifei's pursuit even more.
Therefore, he refused the advice of others one by one and wholeheartedly supported He Saifei's choice.
How could He Saifei not understand Yang Nan's love for himself, he always waited silently and paid silently.
In 1988, she and Yang Nan entered into marriage, no romantic proposal, no wedding, no house, living with her in-laws, and even this wedding photo was sent by the studio.
However, before their love could bear fruit, the two almost broke up.
Because at that time, Yang Nan felt that the two people had already made love and decided that they would spend the rest of their lives with each other, and he felt that he should explain his past to each other, so he said that he had a love experience.
Hearing this, Josefy was not happy.
For her, he was her first love, but he had been in love, and he had held himself by holding the hands of other girls, and she was a little disgusted, so she made up her mind to ignore him, to say goodbye, thinking that she would go to buy a ticket to go home.
Yang Nan followed all the way out, how to coax is not good, fortunately there was a strong wind that day did not go, lived in Ningbo for one night.
The next day, He Saifei continued to buy tickets to go home, Yang Nan also followed all the way, He Saifei asked him why he was going, he said on a business trip, so the two people got on the same boat again, and the relationship eased up a lot along the way.
When she arrived at He Saifei's house, she asked him where he was on a business trip, and Yang Nan said that it was near her home.
In this way, He Saifei made trouble all the way, Yang Nan coaxed all the way, and soon the two people were reconciled.
In fact, He Saifei also felt that he was a bit excessive at that time.
Everyone has their own past, and they shouldn't bother with the people who used to be.
However, this little episode became the condiment of their love, and after that, they were honest with each other and did not hide anything.
04 Love is fulfillment, it is mutual
After marriage, in order to support He Saifei's career, Yang Nan really did her best, that time was the rising period of her career, she did not want to have children, afraid of affecting her career, Yang Nan was not angry after knowing.
He knows very well that love is fulfillment, in his heart, nothing is more important than He Saifei, no matter what choice she makes, he unconditionally supports, ignores the gossip of others, and ignores the impetus of others, so that He Saifei can pursue his ideals without scruples.
Stills from Josefy's "Big Red Lantern Hanging High"
This delay is ten years, and Yang Nan is middle-aged in a flash.
However, in the past ten years, He Saifei has not failed himself, and has starred in many film and television dramas such as "Hanging High on the Red Lantern", "Red Pink", "Wind Moon", "Behind enemy lines", "Armed Workers Behind Enemy Lines", and won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 19th Hundred Flowers Awards for Popular Films with "Behind Enemy Lines".
Stills from He Saifei's "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines"
Jose Fei became famous, from the famous role of Yue opera | to film and television, she won a place for herself and became one of the most popular actresses at the moment.
Of course, she knows that she can't achieve this without her husband's support, and she is not a selfish person.
Over the years, Yang Nan's love and concern for her, she has seen in her eyes, remembered in her heart, she knows that Yang Nan has carried a lot of pressure for so many years, including the birth of her parents.
He looked at the man in front of him who had accompanied him from youth to middle age, his eyes were full of gratitude, he had sacrificed a lot in order to complete himself over the years, at this time her career was stable, her age was just right, she decided to have a child of their own.
Yang Nan and his son
When Yang Nan heard her say this, she was not very happy, they loved each other so much, there should be a love crystal.
In 1998, when Yang Nan was 42 years old and He Saifei was 35 years old, they ushered in the fruits of love as they wished, because that year was the Year of the Tiger, and they called their son "Tiger Baby".
Upgraded from a world of two to a happy family of three, He Saifei and Yang Nan are immersed in the joy of parenthood.
Looking at her son, her heart is indescribably happy, at first in those two years, in order to accompany her son, He Saifei reduced her workload, but after her son was older, she threw herself into the work again.
Sometimes It's a few months after José Fei enters the crew, and when she comes home after filming, her son almost doesn't know her.
Every now and then she was a little lost, and Yang Nan always gently comforted her: "It's okay, mother and child are connected, just get acquainted with it." ”
Sometimes in order to alleviate the pain of He Saifei's lovesickness, after his son is older, Yang Nan often takes him to visit the class.
He told his son what his mother had done, and he told his son that his parents were the people who loved him the most in the world.
Yang Nan took care of everything in the family very well, and in order to achieve He Saifei, he was willing to be the family cook and be the man behind her.
He Saifei was grateful, grateful that he had the privilege of meeting such a good man.
I love her so much and support her, educate my son well, and take good care of my family.
It is precisely because of his support that she has a wonderful performance on the screen, bringing many excellent works such as "The Gate of the Great Mansion", "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", "The Story of the Mother's Family", "The Woman of the Knife Family" and so on, becoming one of the audience's favorite actors.
A few years ago, in order to give Yang Nan a sense of security, He Saifei would store the money he earned from filming and the remuneration he earned in the bank in his name.
Yang Nan gave her the courage to move forward, guarded her thoughtfulness in life, and the way she could reciprocate was to reassure him.
Of course, Yang Nan has always been very assured, whether it is a little girl in love, or she who focuses on her career after marriage, the love between them has not been less than half a point, and then the arrival of her son, the connection of family and flesh and blood has sublimated their love.
For Yang Nan, being able to marry He Saifei in this life is the happiest thing for him, and the same is true for He Saifei, who can be his wife in this life, which is also her luckiest thing.
Jose flew a recent photo
Today, He Saifei and Yang Nan have been in love for more than forty years, and their son Xiao "Tiger Baby" has become a big Tiger Baby.
The feelings between them are still strong, and their love for each other has not faded because of the passage of time.
On the contrary, like old wine, the older it is, the more fragrant it is.
With the blessing of love, He Saifei, who is 59 years old and nearly a flower armour, is still active on the screen, and her state is still so good, although the years have carved wrinkles on her face, but they are not vicissitudes, not haggard, or so beautiful.
Stills from Josefy's "Wind and Snow"
I once heard a saying: The husband is the wife's life, the wife is the husband's luck, and two people together is fate.
Shakespeare also said: "A bad marriage is like a hell, a lifetime of chickens and geese fighting, and no life." On the contrary, choosing a satisfactory spouse can lead to a hundred years of harmony and endless happiness. ”
Deeply believed, meeting a good partner is a booster of life, running in both directions, sharing the burden of wind and rain, and being invincible.
He Saifei and Yang Nan are each other's good companions, they love each other, support each other, and achieve a beautiful marriage.
Praise, may you also meet good people, join hands with whiteheads, and spend the rest of your life together.
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