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38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

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She is a cold student, all the way to become a female doctor of Shanghai Jiaotong University, found the same highly educated associate professor husband, originally a life winner in the inspirational life, but on the eve of the doctoral graduation to get the bad news of cancer.

As the husband of the other half, he began to speak harshly to her and even lost contact, and his parents became the only dependent, but told her that she was not her own and became a bitter love drama heroine overnight.

This ill-fated female doctor is Yang Nan, after suffering from cancer, his life took a sharp turn for the worse, can Yang Nan withstand this successive blows? Will she agree to her husband's divorce request? And how do you deal with your adoptive parents?

38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

Yang Nan is a native of Luoyang, Henan, her parents are ordinary workers, there is an older brother above, her family is not rich, her personality is strong, she has been studying hard since she was a child, and her parents are also very supportive of her.

The college entrance examination was admitted to a local normal university in Luoyang, and after graduation, he was admitted to Sichuan University for a master's degree, followed by a doctorate at Shanghai Jiao Tong University.

Yang Nan has been very diligent in scientific research, and also met the other half of his life during his doctoral studies, Zhang Hai, who is also a doctoral student, and the two quickly formed a family.

When married, Yang Nan, who was wearing a wedding dress, smiled brightly, and her heart was full of expectations for a better life in the future, after marriage, her husband went to Japan to study, Yang Nan continued to study for her doctorate, during this time, she felt that her body was somewhat uncomfortable, and she did not care too much at that time.

38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

Not long after graduating from his doctorate in 2015, Yang Nan felt that his body's fatigue was getting stronger and stronger, so he went to the hospital for a comprehensive examination.

Hearing that Yang Nan was ill, her husband Zhang Hai also flew back from Japan, watched over his wife day and night, and actively sought a suitable treatment plan for Yang Nan, which made Yang Nan feel very secure, but this sense of security was quickly broken by her husband's own hands.

Because Yang Nan was diagnosed with liver cancer, her husband learned that there was no cure, and that he needed a large amount of medical expenses in the late stage, so Zhang Hai's attitude also changed by 180 degrees.

After the illness, Yang Nan's body was relatively weak, and she lived in her mother's house most of the time, and her parents always accompanied and took care of her.

During the Spring Festival, her husband Zhang Hai took her to his hometown of Anyang, Henan, but during this time, the two quarreled over a small matter, and their feelings also cracked at this time.

Yang Nan fights against the disease every day, but also there are many cases of vomiting blood, has always been his own hard support, husband Zhang Hai has become her spiritual support, did not expect that gradually her husband began to speak harshly to her, feel that the sick Yang Nan dragged him down.

Zhang Hai said to Yang Nan very realistically: "I also have to think about myself, what should I do when I am old, you are like this?" ”

You think that your husband's selfish divorce after the illness is the biggest blow to Yang Nan, but how can fate let her go so easily?

38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

Yang Nan has been living in her mother's house, in order to treat her, her parents borrowed more than 500,000 yuan before and after, her own credit card also brushed off 120,000, and the subsequent treatment cost was as high as 800,000, which made Yang Nan very collapsed.

Knowing that her daughter's condition was serious, Yang Nan's parents also told her a truth, it turned out that Yang Nan was not their biological daughter.

Although she was adopted, her adoptive parents have always regarded her as their own, and the adoptive parents know that Yang Nan likes to read, and they have been working hard to earn money for their daughter to study for a doctorate.

After the illness, Yang Nan's husband could not be contacted, Yang Nan had no income, and the medical expenses for medical treatment were all from his adoptive parents.

Yang Nan learned that she was not her own child, for the seriously ill she was a big blow, her husband did not care about himself, bent on getting rid of his own burden, and now her biological parents have become adoptive parents, and her life seems to have suddenly become a dog blood drama.

Yang Nan couldn't figure out why a good life suddenly became like this, sick and helpless, and the people around her hit her one after another, leaving her at a loss, Yang Nan, who had always been eager to live, suddenly did not know where her life was going to go.

However, for the confusion of her own life, Yang Nan was soon relieved, her adoptive parents cared for her never changed, and told her the secret of her life when she was seriously ill, not to abandon her, but to worry that she had regrets in life.

In order to prepare for the treatment cost for Yang Nan, the long-retired adoptive father still gets up early every day to go to the market to deliver goods, earning forty or fifty yuan a day by relying on coolies, which is a small income for Yang Nan's sky-high treatment costs, but it is the only effort that the adoptive father can do.

The adoptive parents told Yang Nan that no matter how hard and tired they were, they would not give up on her, because Yang Nan had always been their pride, but they did not want their daughter to have regrets, and telling her the truth was also a manifestation of loving her.

Knowing that he was not his own child, Yang Nan was more guilty of his adoptive parents, thinking of his adoptive father doing odd jobs everywhere to supplement the family, and now his legs are sore, and he also has to do physical work every day to earn money to treat his illness, Yang Nan's heart is warm and contradictory.

For her husband's indifference and selfishness, Yang Nan is very sad, but the problem must have a result after all, she wants to live and needs a large fee, and she does not want to become a burden to her adoptive parents again.

38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

So Yang Nan plucked up the courage to find the media, hoping to find her husband Zhang Hai, let her shoulder the obligation to support herself, reduce the burden of adoptive parents, Yang Nan also wants to fight for herself to survive.

Yang Nan's husband is an associate professor at the university, but because he was not in school during the summer vacation, he finally called her husband after several twists and turns.

Husband Zhang Hai said that in order to make money for his wife to treat his illness, he is now moving bricks at the construction site, and learned from Zhang Hai that after learning of his wife's illness, from 2013 to 2018, the money remitted to his wife before and after was more than 200,000, denying his disregard for Yang Nan.

Yang Nan explained this, these money also includes the daily expenses of two people, less than 50,000 yuan are really used for treatment, and she can issue a voucher.

Zhang Hai has always emphasized that he is more traditional, and he is already 40 years old, he wants his own children, and when he learned that Yang Nan was ill and could not have children, he proposed a divorce, and even knelt in front of Yang Nan, took her hand and said: "Please let me go." ”

Yang Nan was aggrieved, he just wanted to live, not bent on dragging him down, since 2018, her husband has not given himself a penny, all relying on his adoptive parents to live to the present.

Seeing her husband's bitter pleading, Yang Nan finally softened her heart and agreed to divorce, but asked her husband to pay off the foreign debt he owed because of the treatment.

38-year-old female doctor Yang Nan: From a winner in life to a bitter love drama heroine, life after cancer is painful

In the end, the two people still did not agree on the amount, so the two people decided to solve the divorce problem through legal channels, and Zhang Hai also made concessions, paying 2,000 yuan per month to help Yang Nan solve the basic cost of taking medicine every month.

The world is uncertain, Yang Nan should have been the proud daughter of heaven, and she also had her own beautiful marriage after graduating with a doctorate, but because of the disease, her lover became an enemy, and she was also tormented by the disease to be skinny, fortunately, she had a pair of adoptive parents who loved her.

Do you think Yang Nan's request to let her husband bear all the medical expenses is excessive? Is not divorcing after cancer a drag on your husband? Feel free to leave a comment in the comments section to discuss.

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