In 2020, in the ward of a hospital, a woman said to her husband: "You sold the house, as long as we are cured, we can still live well." ”
The husband's expression is cold, bluntly saying that the house cannot be sold, in order to treat his wife, he has emptied his savings, if he does not even have a house, how will he live the rest of his life.
The woman cried bitterly: "I want to live, what's wrong?" ”
Oh, yes
Everyone has the right to live, so why wouldn't a man sell his house to treat his wife? What's so hard to say about him?
01. Study hard and realize your dreams
The woman's name is Yang Nan, and she comes from an ordinary family in rural Henan.
The family conditions are general, she has studied very well since she was a child, she has awards every year, all the way to shanghai Jiaotong University doctorate, this glory is also extremely happy for her parents, she is also the only female doctor in the village.
Her parents' hope for her is to let her get married as soon as possible, so that she can complete her wishes, but if she wants to find love, she needs fate, Yang Nan's social coverage is not widespread, she is busy with academic research all day, and the people she can contact are also classmates.
Once, she met Zhang Hai, who is also a doctor, the two have common hobbies, but also have a love for academics, unconsciously came together, more fortunately, Zhang Hai's family is also from Henan, and the two are still fellow countrymen.
It is simply the old man to lead the line, they are very satisfied with the feelings, after a period of love, they got a marriage license, Yang Nan is not young, has been 30 years old, parents urge her to hurry to have children, so there is energy to help take care of it.
In the eyes of friends around them, they are gods and immortals, they are all highly educated talents, and they have a common language, the two are together, in addition to discussing academics, they can also talk about the pursuit of ideals, how to look at it is very appropriate.
When they got married, the man's parents paid for a down payment to buy a house, which was their marriage house, and both families had great hopes for the two, thinking that their children must be very smart.
outcome
Yang Nan went to a physical examination before asking for the child, and the results showed that she had liver cancer, had reached the middle and advanced stages, and needed to be hospitalized immediately, she was confused, she couldn't believe that fate had made such a big joke on herself.
She ran to other hospitals to check, the result is still the same, can't help but collapse and cry, you know, hold on for a while, her doctoral diploma will come down, a good life is in front of her, how can it be so turned.
02. Seriously ill, crushing a relationship
Knowing that Yang Nan was ill, her husband Zhang Hai took out all the family's savings, plus the support of his parents, and took out a total of more than 100,000 yuan.
This money for treatment, can only be a cup of water, a check-up and chemotherapy need thousands of yuan, the money is quickly spent, but the condition has not improved, Yang Nan's parents also took out the family's savings, so that Zhang Hai must take her to treat the disease.
The strength of two families is not enough, the doctor suggested that in order to have a better effect, you need to change the liver, but even if you wait until the matching liver source, you also need nearly one million medical expenses, which is nothing less than a heavy burden for Zhang Hai.
Seeing that the daughter-in-law's illness has not improved, the family can no longer take out the money, Zhang Hai's parents privately advised him to let go, he is still young, life is so long, he can fully afford to remarry and have a child.
The first time his parents persuaded him, Zhang Hai resisted, he could not give up Yang Nan, which is the essence of human nature
But with the development of the disease, the pain made Yang Nan grumpy, and she often lost her temper because of a small matter, so that Zhang Hai was under a mental pressure in addition to economic pressure.
Finally, Zhang Hai's spirit reached a critical point, and he began to avoid not looking at Yang Nan, focusing his energy on academic research, hoping to dilute the pressure.
But this is cruel for Yang Nan, sick she is more eager to be cared for, after not being able to contact her husband again and again, she asked the radio station to help solve the problem, hoping that her husband would sell the house to treat herself.
Zhang Hai helplessly said that after falling ill, Yang Nan changed, and she is no longer the person she once loved, she will lose her temper and embarrass the family.
For example, the New Year home, the mother-in-law let everyone get up early in the morning, sleeping lazy is not in accordance with etiquette, Yang Nan slept until noon, knowing that she was not in good health, everyone did not say anything, as a result, Yang Nan saw that lunch was not appetizing, and proposed to go back to her mother's house.
This is also inappropriate, there are local customs, it is best to go back to her mother's house is the third year of junior high school, but no one can persuade her, Zhang Hai has no way, can only send her back, he did not stay at his mother-in-law's house, and turned back home.
Just because of this incident, Yang Nan lost his temper with him, saying that he did not give himself face, whether he was impatient with himself, making him very stressed and did not know what to do.
03. In the end, how to choose, everyone has a different attitude
Yang Nan is eager for health, and her only hope is Zhang Hai, who wants zhang hai to sell her house and see herself.
But Zhang Hai's idea is also realistic
First of all, the house is the down payment of the parents, to sell the house also need to get the consent of the parents, obviously the parents are not supportive, and secondly, even if the house is sold, it may not be enough to make up for the operation, to see the disease needs too much money, and no one dares to promise to be cured.
He felt that he had emptied his and his parents' savings and done his best to be kind to Yang Nan, and he even knelt down to Yang Nan:
Please spare me, I only have so much ability, now we have no feelings, divorce. ”
If Yang Nan agrees to divorce, he is willing to borrow another 300,000 to help each other see a doctor, which is also a shame in his heart, but Yang Nan does not agree, thinking that husbands and wives should share happiness and hardship, the husband has the obligation to see a doctor for himself, if he really wants to divorce, then give herself 800,000, so that she has the ability to see a doctor.
After watching their experiences, netizens have different ideas.
Some people support Yang Nan, believing that the meaning of marriage is not to abandon or give up
If you leave when the other party is sick, then what is the meaning of love, if you help your wife to see a good illness, with the ability of your wife, she can earn several million, you can also contribute to scientific research, and your vision should be longer-term.
There are also netizens who support Zhang Hai, feeling that he has fulfilled his obligations.
The two did not marry for a long time, not even children, always in order to save her, take the second half of their own life, and then say that liver disease is generally inherited, if Yang Nan did not explain before marriage, then there is a suspicion of cheating marriage.
From the perspective of a bystander, we can't make a conclusion, after all, the charcoal fire did not fall on our feet, and we could not feel the pain.
There is an element of selfishness in human nature, there is no right or wrong, we will all make choices that suit ourselves when our fate is decided.
And it reminds us,
Health is the most important, when busy at work, but also pay attention to their health, regular physical examination, do not stay up too late, have a good mood every day, can live happily, is the real winner in life.
Yu Juan said in the book "This Life Is Not Completed":
"At the critical point of life, all overtime and the need to buy a house and a car are floating clouds, there is time to accompany the family, the family is together, and the snail house is also warm."
The truth is so, do not test love, love can not stand the test, a person loves you again, when you become a burden to the other party, feelings may have a qualitative change.
The only thing we can do is to cherish the present, live every day, and let people have fewer regrets.
Give a thumbs up to Yang Nan to bless it! Do you decide if your husband should sell her house to treat her?