"Yang Jiuhong" He Saifei: After 10 years of marrying her husband, her answer makes people ponder

In 1983, when 20-year-old Jose flew to the teacher's house as a guest, she saw the teacher's 4 sons in the family portrait and thought to herself: She will definitely become the teacher's daughter-in-law! Unexpectedly, a word became a slur.

On the wedding day, there is no banquet, no relatives and friends are full, and a photo is hung on the wall.

After marriage, the mother-in-law was anxious to hold her grandson, and He Saifei said to her husband: Career is important, and I want to wait. The husband agreed, but this wait was 10 years.

Years later, someone asked: You were also a celebrity back then, didn't you feel shabby when you married your husband?

Josefy's answer makes people ponder...

Speaking of which, He Saifei was still a rare "costume beauty" in that era, and the costumes looked like people in the painting. And the "Yang Jiuhong" she played in "The Gate of the Big House" is even more memorable.

In general, He Saifei gives people the feeling of a kind of woman who has a good time and will live.

The facial features are exquisite, the mouth and nose are three-dimensional, and the eyes under a pair of willow eyebrows contain emotional pulses.

This is the first sense of José Fly.

But it was such a beautiful woman, before the age of 30, no one chased her, and the only one became her husband.

In Josefy's home, she had an older sister and a younger sister, and her father left home when she was four years old, setting up another court and taking her away. Perhaps "because the poor children have long been in charge", Josefy has been sensible since childhood.

Father wanted her to be a useful person.

He sent her to the Yue Opera Troupe, but he didn't think about it, and really gave her a little bit of fame. At the age of 16, he was on the rural big screen of the Cantonese opera movies "Dream of the Red Chamber" and "Jasper Hairpin", and also participated in "Five Girls Worship Shou".

For this day, He Saifei paid a lot, hanging his throat and pressing his legs at dawn every day.

But she never cried bitterly, and her understanding was painful.

Slowly, He Saifei became a little famous enough to make money, and she gave more than half of her money to her father, leaving a little enough for herself to live. Because she also had a teacher in the troupe who was very good to him.

On this day, He Saifei came to the teacher's house for dinner as usual.

She stumbled upon a family portrait of her teacher with his four sons. He Saifei thought to himself: In the future, she must become the teacher's daughter-in-law. The thought startled her.

What she didn't know was that there was providence in the darkness, and that love was coming.

This year, He Saifei turned 20 years old, which was a good age for the wind and prosperity, but he just met the teacher's second son Yang Nan. At that time, the teacher was hospitalized, and she went to visit and happened to meet her.

When Yang Nan first saw her, he was deeply attracted.

He felt that this must be a gift from Heaven to himself. After having a relationship, Yang Nan began to pursue He Saifei. Yang Nan's feelings for He Saifei are not bad, a table of Sven, very much in line with his mate selection criteria.

She was even touched by a love letter from Yang Nan for several days.

What is valuable is that Yang Nan has a stable and responsible personality, just like this, in the first year of joining the Xiaobaihua Troupe.

Josefy began his sweet love affair.

But this did not affect her career development, on the contrary, she ushered in the opportunity to appear in "Dream of the Red Chamber", and her career has grown by leaps and bounds. But Yang Nan fell into bitterness again, because He Saifei had no intention of getting married.

Until He Saifei fell ill, Yang Nan took meticulous care of his father.

She decided that the person in front of her was worth her entrusting for a lifetime.

In 1988, 25-year-old He Saifei and Yang Nan entered the palace of marriage. On the wedding day, there was no Shengda wedding, not even a banquet. After marriage, He Saifei and his mother-in-law's family huddled together.

Someone asked Josefy, don't you regret marrying him? He didn't give you anything.

JOSEFELD: What do you regret? We don't need these needs between us, but the feelings in our bones. But that being said, her mother-in-law's proposal made her embarrassed again? The mother-in-law is old and anxious to hold her grandson, and he hopes that He Saifei will put the family first.

He Saifei believes that his career has just started, and it is not appropriate to have children at this time.

She said to Yang Nan: I want to develop my career first, but I don't want to embarrass my mother-in-law? Can you help me? Yang Nan is sympathetic: Well, mother, I will say over there, you can do your business with peace of mind! I'm waiting for you.

The result is 10 years.

In the past 10 years, He Saifei's career has once again ushered in a take-off, and with the posture of classical beauty, he has won the favor of many big directors, including the big director Zhang Yimou. As a result, classic works such as "Hanging High with Red Lanterns", "Singing Girl at the End of the World", "Wind And Moon", and "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines" have come out successively.

He Saifei also had the title of "Mrs. Professional Household".

Finally, at the peak of his career, He Saifei gave birth to a son named He Xiaofeng in 1998. This year she was 35 years old, and her career and life were perfect. It was late, but everything was on the planned route.

He Saifei's success is inseparable from her husband's support and encouragement.

When she encounters suffering, the husband will come to his wife, comfort her, encourage her, and gently cheer her up. And took the initiative to take on the chores of the family inside and out for him.

In addition, he also has to work on his own, and his life is not easier than that of his wife.

The good thing is that everything is worth it.

I have to say: smart men know how to balance career and family, so that life can be happy and satisfying.

Love is mutual respect, mutual support, but also mutual rush.

Nowadays, He Saifei and Yang Nan have been dependent on each other for more than 30 years, and the husband and wife love each other, and 0 scandals are enviable. He Saifei harvested the happiness of life, lived soberly and freely. She understands the trade-offs between career and family.

After the prosperity, he retreated in a rapids, responding to the love and expectations of his family.

Perhaps it is these precious qualities that keep the love between the two alive! Wish this pair of lovers to eventually become grandchildren, white heads to old age, give them praise! How many of Josefy's movies have you seen?