Although Da Gege and Yang Jiuhong are not a generation, both of them have suffered from the separation of flesh and bone, and the pain of the separation of flesh and bones of these two people is also caused by man, and the end of the two people is also until death without hearing their daughter call out to their mother! Left regrets!
Da GeGe's marriage was ignored by her father, and she became an old girl, she was very resentful of Zhan Wangye in her heart, Da Gege hated her father on the one hand, and on the other hand, she was full of hatred for marriage, and Zhan Wangye, who only knew that he led soldiers to fight, was not considerate of Da Gege's daughter's heart.
When Prince Zhan returned victorious again, he was blocked by the Bai family father and son to tell him that he had a pair of double-rod grandchildren! Prince Zhan temporarily put aside the sarcasm and sarcasm of the Bai family's father and son, and rushed to the outside of Dagege's boudoir in anger, and before he entered the door, he heard the child's crying.
The fiery Zhan Wangye was so angry that he was about to fall to the death of these two children, and da ge ge protected the calves with his heart, and excitedly fought with Zhan Wang ye, and soon after giving birth, Da Ge Ge actually forced the five big and three thick Zhan Wang Ye to be helpless, it can be seen that motherhood can make people soft, and it can make people become incomparably strong and tough.
After Prince Zhan tied up Da Ge Ge and forced out that the father of the child was Gui Wu, Zhan Wang Ye neither let Gui Wu marry Da Ge Ge to take responsibility, nor did he find Gui Wu to settle the account, but let people take the child to the countryside overnight to send people, and send Da Ge Ge back to his hometown in Mongolia! Hope this will put this scandal to rest!
The child was sent away, and the days of Dage Ge's stability and prosperity came to an end, and Da Ge Ge chose to give up his glory, give up his identity, let go of all his fears of the unknown, and go to find his own child!
However, the vast sea of people is so slim, Dagege has worked hard to find his son Huang Li, but did not find his daughter Huang Chun, and when she and Huang Li finally found Huang Chun, Huang Chun had already been driven out of the gate by the Bai family without marriage with Bai Jingqi and went all the way to Jinan.
However, Da Gege did not go to recognize Huang Chun! After determining the character and responsibility of his son-in-law Bai Jingqi, Dagege mother and son chose to silently guard Huang Chun behind their backs, and their mother and son lived a very poor life, obviously living in a desolate vegetable field not far from Bai Jingqi's new house, but quietly.
Although the days were difficult, DaGege and Huang Li never took the initiative to recognize Huang Chun, but silently guarded Huang Chun and Bai Jingqi behind their backs, and the Bai family house suffered bandits, and Huang Li was the first to rush out to protect his sister and brother-in-law, as in the past few decades!
Until Da Ge Ge was almost ill and really missed his daughter, Huang Li went to meet Huang Chun, and later Huang Chun was reunited with his mother, but when Huang Chun arrived, Da Ge Ge had already died, and the deceased Da Ge Ge looked serene and lay dressed neatly.
This made Huang Chun cry out in pain: "Mom! What a pain you are! Indeed, Da Gege was proud and decent until her death, and she never brought Huang Chun a hint of trouble and embarrassment, because she knew that her daughter's identity was awkward, that it was not easy for Huang Chun to gain a foothold in the door of the mansion, and that she had never known only silently watching and paying behind her back.
Hide the thoughts of your daughter in your heart, don't bother, don't care, just know that your daughter is doing well! It was Da Gege's restrained and stoic maternal love that instead fulfilled her and Huang Chun's mother-daughter love, and the miss of the last side of mother and daughter left Huang Chun with great regrets, but fixed the mother's love brilliance and personality in Huang Chun's heart.
Since then, thinking of his mother, Huang Chun's heart is warm and missed, although the mother and daughter do not recognize each other, but Huang Chun's strong feelings for her mother are not less than any mother and daughter in the world!
On the other hand, Yang Jiuhong and Bai Jiali are another lose-lose model!
After Yang Jiuhong returned from Jinan, everyone before and after them revealed a strong obsession: "I am Jiali's mother!" She couldn't help but recognize me! ”
Bai Jiali is afraid and evasive of this. In the eyes of Bai Jiali, who was brought up by her grandmother, Yang Jiuhong's identity is her shame and embarrassment, if possible, she would rather never be born herself!
But Yang Jiuhong does not see it this way, in Yang Jiuhong's view, "I gave birth to a child, that is, a great kindness to the child, if the child does not recognize me, not close to me, it is not in line with heavenly reason, then I can not swallow and can not rationalize this breath!" ”
However, Yang Jiuhong did not want to think about it, after more than ten years of separation, the mother and daughter who originally had no intersection, how could you say "I am your mother" in public!" "The child rushed eagerly into your arms?"
Moreover, under the education of her grandmother, the standards and views of her daughter Bai Jiali in receiving people and treating things are fundamentally the opposite of Yang Jiuhong, with different concepts and different views, such a mother-daughter relationship, forcibly closer, and there is no intimate feeling. Instead, it hurts each other!
Later, Yang Jiuhong was angry, but also snatched Bai Jiali's daughter, which can be said to be revenge for wrongs, endlessly, and in the end, the relationship between mother and daughter became more and more rigid, and Yang Jiuhong became a bad woman in Bai Jiali's mouth! Even to death, yang Jiuhong died with a wounded heart, and Bai Jiali left with an attitude of indifference.
If Yang Jiuhong is willing to take a step back, there is not so much obsession with recognition, choose to look at her daughter from a distance like a big grid, do not force or disturb, with her good, I am good, deal with the relationship with her daughter, dare not say whether Bai Jiali will be impressed by her in the end, choose to recognize her.
But at least yang Jiuhong's life for the rest of his life will not be so unhappy and so painful. Nor will he be like an enemy who fights with his daughter when he meets. Sometimes something, like the sand in your hand, the more you want to hold it, the more it loses, open your hand, but it is stable there without any loss.
Therefore, the same suffered from the separation of mother and daughter, compared with the big grid and Yang Jiuhong, the gap will come out, it is obvious that the treatment method of the big grid is more intelligent and more transparent! Yang Jiuhong is too extreme and too narrow.