Bai Wenshi's life can be said to be a wise man who has cultivated human feelings and is insightful in the world, with strategy, vision, and mind. All of them are admirable, and the real scarf does not let the eyebrows be shaved.
When the Bai family was facing internal and external troubles, Uncle Bai was asked to behead the prison, the grandmother wanted to hang herself, the Hundred Grass Hall was sealed, and the Old and Young Sons of the Bai Family lost their financial resources in an instant.
At this time, the Bai family has no one who can take care of things, Second Master Bai is cowardly and can't take care of things, Third Master Bai is selfish and cunning, and he can't be the head of the family, and the wise old lady Bai strives to exclude public opinion, and eclectically appoints his daughter-in-law Bai Wenshi as the head of the family!
But Bai Wenshi refused this, she understood that in the society at that time, the Bai family was such a large family, and there was no reason for women to be the family, and the old lady Bai almost begged Bai Wenshi to let her promise to be the master of the family.
Bai Wenshi said so, "Without this reason, you can let the second master be in charge, and I will assist him behind his back!" "Grandpa Bai said, no, no, no I don't trust him!
Bai Wenshi also said, no matter how bad there is the third elder? Old Lady Bai said excitedly, "If you want this family to lose a little faster, let the third elder take charge!" This old third has a heavy heart and a lot of eyes."
"Second grandmother, just when I begged you?" Do you have to get me to your knees? Saying that he was really dragging the sick body to kneel, Bai Wenshi rushed to help his father-in-law, and he was already in tears.
It was in this situation that the second grandmother took over the Bai family. At the beginning, when she did not go through some series of changes and attacks, her father-in-law, Old Lady Bai, was very dismissive of her, and when Second Master Bai gave Dage a pulse diagnosis, he diagnosed that Xi Pulse was killed by a horse and smashed the car, and Old Lady Bai could not swallow this breath.
There was another plan, secretly to give DaGege a placenta drug, Bai Wenshi learned of it and advised the father-in-law, the wrongdoer should not be knotted, let them go of a horse, let them remember our good!
Unexpectedly, old lady Bai scolded her, are you the daughter-in-law of the Bai family? Everybody else is riding on our heads and, and you're still elbowing out?
After Da Gege gave birth to a child, Old Lady Bai immediately took Second Master Bai to the Zhan Palace to beat up Grandpa Zhan and let him lose the car and lose the horse, and the second grandmother came out and said good words to stop it: "I think, she will give birth to a child, we should not know anything, and we don't want him to lose the car and horse in the house!" ”
Old Lady Bai reprimanded her even more angrily: "You want to, and it is not your turn to think, what do you know about a woman's family?" ”
From here on, Bai Wenshi has already shown her extraordinary ability to deal with the world, that is, the principle of being generous and tolerant in everything, and being angry and rich to spare people and spare people, leaving a line in everything, and meeting people in the rivers and lakes! However, old Mrs. Bai had not experienced hardships and ups and downs at this time, and she could not understand the philosophy of the second grandmother.
Old Lady Bai's way of doing things is hard and rigid, "Even if you smash this old bone of mine, I will also take this breath!" How difficult it is for the old trumpet of the White Family to go any further, the doctor cannot be deceived! ”
Within a few years, the Zhan family's Erge Ge died, and Gui Wu obstructed from it, causing the palace to put all the responsibility on the head of Uncle Bai, where the Zhan family knew in their hearts that the death of Er Ge Ge was not related to the Bai family's affairs, but a few years ago, the Old Hatred of the Bai Family for making the Zhan Family ugly made the Zhan Family unable to swallow this breath, so as to pretend to be confused and have to bite the Bai Family without relaxing.
Old Lady Bai was angry, and folded the empress dowager, so that Uncle Bai, who still had a glimmer of life, was completely convicted, the grandmother was hanged, the Hundred Grass Hall was sealed, and the White Old Lady finally realized that her foolish behavior of just folding not only led to the destruction of the family, but also about to bury the hundred grass halls of the Bai family for more than a dozen generations.
The old lady Bai, who had turned around, finally became convinced of Bai Wenshi's concept of dealing with the world, and gave all the management authority to the second grandmother! The second grandmother lived up to her expectations and returned to the Hundred Grass Hall, rescued Uncle Bai, and returned the Bai family, who was on the verge of collapse, to its glory.
The Bai family, old and young, the peers in the capital, who are not convinced by Bai Wenshi, admire her ability, thank her kindness, and the third master Of Bai, who once opposed her everywhere, wept bitterly when she died, saying: "Second sister-in-law, you are gone, what strength do I have in life?" "The personality charm of the second grandmother's life is needless to say.
However, even so, some people still criticize her because of her ruthlessness towards Yang Jiuhong, which should be one of the few stains on Bai Wenshi's life.
Bai Wenshi's brutal suppression of Yang Jiuhong
Bai Wenshi did not let Yang Jiuhong enter the door, but also snatched Yang Jiuhong's daughter, and also taught his granddaughter to hate his mother, and did not let Yang Jiuhong go before he died, and did not allow Yang Jiuhong to wear filial piety!
Yang Jiuhong was not allowed to wear filial piety, which completely crushed Yang Jiuhong's spirit, and her mother-in-law could not see herself suppressing herself, these Yang Jiuhong all recognized, she knew that she was an inferior woman! The daughter does not recognize herself, the mother-in-law wants to punch herself in public, and the son-in-law she is looking for does not have room for her own beak, Yang Jiuhong's psychology is on the verge of distortion, but there is still a glimmer of hope.
Yang Jiuhong is waiting, when she survives the old lady, she can turn over, for this reason when the old lady is seriously ill, Yang Jiuhong in the name of filial piety, with the pleasure of revenge in hand sewing filial piety, Ya Gui praised her for her righteousness, Yang Jiuhong pretended to be peaceful and said: "No matter what, I am also the daughter-in-law of the Bai family!" ”
But unexpectedly, the mother-in-law struggled to leave a last word before dying: "Yang Jiuhong is not allowed to wear filial piety!" ”
The old lady died, the white family inside and outside the up and down a piece of musu, even the cats, cats, dogs and dogs are wearing filial piety, Yang Jiuhong alone was locked in the house, not allowed to come out, her pet cat on the white filial piety, completely stabbed Yang Jiuhong's eyes, she went crazy and strangled the cat's neck, until the cat did not move and died, so that Yang Jiuhong's mentality was completely distorted. She desperately needed to find an outlet for her emotions, and unfortunately, the locust flower became her punching bag.
Huaihua is also a bitter person, the family is poor to the four walls of the family, was sold to the white family as a maid, but fortunately, she looks good, she is favored by the old lady. The old lady's interest in the locust flower was ulterior motive, and she planned to adjust the locust flower well and put it next to Bai Jingqi to suppress Yang Jiuhong.
Locust Flower is very loyal, during the period of being a maid, everything is centered on the old lady, the old lady let her go to serve bai Jingye who went to do medicine for the first time, and Locust Flower followed her to Anguo thousands of miles away.
When the old lady was seriously ill, she took her hand and pointed her to Bai Jingqi as a concubine, and Huaihua shyly agreed. Huaihua obeyed the old lady's orders, and Yang Jiuhong, who hated the old lady, of course, was also the same enemy.
However, after Huaihua followed Bai Jingqi, it did not take long for even a son and a half daughter to be born, and before her heels could stand, she was forced to die by Yang Jiuhong. In fact, if you think about it, the fate of the locust flower was doomed the first time she saw Yang Jiuhong.
Huaihua haughtily and indifferently rubbed shoulders with Yang Jiuhong and wrote her ending
Huaihua was ordered by the old lady to come to Bai Jingqi's new house to send snuff to Bai Jingqi, when she left, Bai Jingqi asked her to bring some pineapples to the old lady, at this time Yang Jiuhong learned that the old lady's handmaidens around her came to the new house, she was full of flattery and smiles, and wanted to say hello to Huaihua.
However, as soon as Huaihua heard Yang Jiuhong's voice, she immediately stood up and walked outside, Yang Jiuhong smiled at her, but she did not squint, did not look at Yang Jiuhong, let alone say hello, to Yang Jiuhong, Huaihua was full of pride and superiority written on her face, but instead said goodbye to Yang Jiuhong's side of the handmaiden.
Huaihua's arrogance and disregard made Yang Jiuhong fiercely humiliated and embarrassed! Yang Jiuhong angrily questioned Bai Jingqi: "Why did she leave as soon as I came?" Did she see me? ”
Bai Jingqi would only talk to the mud: "The people around the old lady, you don't have to be more real!" Yang Jiuhong said very unevenly: "I am more real, in the old house she can do anything, but this is the new house, if she is not big or small in such an eye, I am not polite!" ”
Huaihua's contempt for herself, Yang Jiuhong wrote down here, and when Bai Wenshi died and did not allow Yang Jiuhong to wear filial piety's last words, Yang Jiuhong's new hatred and old hatred broke out together, and Huaihua became cannon fodder.
Huaihua is very self-aware, she is just a squirrel, looking up, the seven grandmothers in the door of the mansion Huang Chun, the big miss Bai Yuting, when the family Bai Jingyi, aunt Bai Yufen, old aunt Bai Yaping, these people have ever had a person who treated Yang Jiuhong like this, which person is not polite and polite to Yang Jiuhong? Acacia flower a beard, but indiscriminately reach out to hit the smiley face person, do not understand the principle of being a person, do not know their own duty, have no self-awareness, to Bai Wenshi is just foolish, do not know how to change.
Huaihua also has no understanding of people, Yang Jiuhong and Bai Jingqi couple for decades, the two people also have a common child, Xiangxiu is Bai Jingqi's favorite, these two people are deeper than the love between themselves and Bai Jingqi, but she learned Xiangxiu's method of dealing with Yang Jiuhong to deal with Yang Jiuhong, Xiangxiu and Yang Jiuhong, are the women that Bai Jingqi cares more about, Huaihua herself is not cannon fodder, who is not willing to abandon her?
The locust flower is always strong when it is time to show weakness, and cowardly when it is hard! When she and Yang Jiuhong met for the first time, they should treat each other with courtesy, which was the principle of being a human being and wisdom, but there was no one in her eyes, which hurt Yang Jiuhong's self-esteem and made Yang Jiuhong hate her. Later, when Yang Jiuhong bullied her, when she slandered her and Huang Li, she should argue to bite this point according to reason, pull Huang Li together to let Yang Jiuhong explain clearly, and put pressure on Bai Jingqi, but she did not say a word, and buried her head into an ostrich-like cringe to escape. He was slapped by Bai Jingqi and looked for short-sightedness.
All aspects of Acacia's character flaws determine that she can only become cannon fodder for the struggle between wives and concubines.