Bai Laosan has been clamoring to separate the family, and he disobeyed his father to pass on the position of family to the second grandmother.
On that day, at the dinner table, he angrily buckled the rice bowl on the table, and angrily counted down the second grandmother who used the money of the ancestral hall to buy a private house for the father-in-law in the palace.
Bai Laosan grabbed this handle, pulled the second grandmother to her father, and forced her to associate with the Bai family key.
Lying on the hospital bed, The white old man listened to the second grandmother's words and dispersed everyone, and he personally handed over the key of being a family member to the second grandmother again.
As long as the second grandmother is in charge, the White Family will not collapse.
Lord White is the ultimate boss of the first half of "The Gate of the Mansion".
Against the nobles, he could easily press the people of the Zhan Palace to the ground and rub them, the Hundred Grass Hall was run by him with great sound and color, and the Bai family was also full of children and grandchildren, and his wife and son were filial piety.
The whole family, inside and out, all do not respect this family.
However, the white old man who seems to be a winner in life, at the last moment of his life, has to admit that he is not as good as the second grandmother.
Old Master Bai thought that he was just taking care of the Bai family and not as good as his daughter-in-law, in fact, he still had many places that were not as good as the second grandmother, such as human treatment and work style.
What is really inferior to the second grandmother is the education of the children.
Mr. Bai had three sons and a daughter.
Among these four children, Bai Lao's personality is calm and his medical skills are superb; Bai Lao'er's personality is weak and he does not know how to turn when things happen; Bai Laosan and his daughter Bai Yaping are the most unreliable.
Because Bai Laosan disobeyed the second grandmother's housekeeper, he deliberately embarrassed the second grandmother in front of everyone many times, and also provoked the feelings between the second grandmother and his wife.
Fortunately, Bai Lao'er is more protective of his wife, and he also has self-knowledge, knowing that he does not understand the housekeeper, and he will not prevent his wife from taking care of the Bai family because of the face problem.
Bai Laosan did not do the right thing all day, and all his thoughts were thinking about how to put the public property of the family into his private pocket.
Went to buy and sell medicinal materials in other places, he swallowed 20,000 yuan privately, and after this matter was found out by Boss Bai, Boss Bai filled the hole for his brother at his own expense in order to calm things down.
Even if he was greedy for money, Bai Laosan also quarreled three or four times to separate the family, and seeing that the division could not be done, he joined hands with outsiders to squeeze out the second grandmother and occupy the Hundred Grass Hall.
Later, when foreigners came in, he took the initiative to show goodwill, took the officers and soldiers to rob the property of the Zhan King's mansion, and after robbing them, he took them to his sister's husband's house, and finally caused his sister to be ruined by a group of soldiers.
To use one word to describe Bai Laosan is the rogue Buddha-figure.
What kind of world is Old Master Bai, who has not seen it, he cannot be unaware of his son's virtue, however, he has allowed Old Third Bai to act arbitrarily.
Look at her daughter Bai Yaping.
After getting married, the relationship with her husband was not good, and I did not think about how to repair and save, but lived in my mother's house for many years.
He was indifferent to the affairs of his husband's family, but he was very enthusiastic about interfering in the affairs of his mother's family.
Many times, my brother said, "This is your mother's family, if you want to manage it, you have to take care of your own home." Bai Yaping selectively did not hear every time, and continued to stay at her mother's house to eat and drink.
In order to tease the nephew, he held his own child high, and as a result, he threw the child to death alive.
The child is gone, and the love between husband and wife is even colder to the extreme, at this time, Bai Yaping is still unwilling to go back to her husband's house and her husband to rehabilitate.
For the Guan family, Bai Yaping is only their nominal daughter-in-law.
If it were not for the poor relationship, when everyone fled Beijing, Bai Yaping could not keep up with her mother's family, and she was abandoned by the Guan family, and finally was ruined by a group of foreigners.
The four children of the white old man, two of them were abolished.
The Son is not the fault of the Godfather, but in terms of education, Old Master Bai did not participate too much.
If he had the heart to educate his children, Bai Laosan would not dare to be so rampant.
If he has the heart to educate his children, he can see through the daughter who lives in his mother's house for a long time, which is actually his own small family is unhappy.
In the end, he just loves face, after all, admitting that his child has failed is acknowledging his own failure.
The second grandmother is different.
Bai Jingqi has been a chaotic demon king since he was a child, he can't cry when he fights, he gets into trouble all day, and Teacher Guang doesn't know how many qi have run.
Not only does he run away from the teacher, but he also likes to bully other children.
Every time someone came to the door, the second grandmother did not say a word, picked up the chicken feathers and slapped herself softly.
The second grandmother returned to the fight, Bai Jingqi grew a lot, she participated in it, always paying attention to her son's movements.
When the second grandmother wanted to take back the plaque of the White Grass Hall, she specially brought the young Bai Jingqi with her, the purpose of which was to let him know from an early age that life was not easy.
Later, after becoming an adult, Bai Jingqi spent money without blinking, and the second grandmother noticed that her son had signs of defeat, and in order to let him experience human suffering, she simply drove him out.
After Bai Jingqi broke out outside and returned to the Bai family, the second grandmother began to let him deal with tricky things.
Daughter Bai Yuting, who has liked to listen to drama since she was a child, later confused Wan Xiaoju and only wanted to marry him.
After the second grandmother knew, regardless of Bai Yuting's face, she reprimanded her in public: "Do you understand shame?" ”
Until the death of the second grandmother, Bai Yuting could not marry Wan Xiaoju.
Unlike The second grandmother, unlike The White Master, she never allows her children to behave in a wrong way for the sake of face, nor does she forget the education of her children in order to earn money.
Therefore, when Mr. Bai died, he could only be run by his daughter-in-law, and when the second grandmother died, the son could be alone.
It can be seen that if a family wants to achieve benign development, and the generation is better than the next, it is inseparable from good education.
In addition to educating children with the correct three views and the ability to deal with others, it is more important to set an example for children to learn and worship.
Just like Bai Jingqi, the person he respects most in his life will always be his mother.