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In "The Gate of the Big House", Bai Jingqi had emotional entanglements with four women in his life.
The first is Huang Chun, the legitimate wife of Qingta Mei zhuma. Huang Chun was kind and virtuous, and had a high status and prestige in the Bai family, but unfortunately she was not in good health, and she was sick in her forties and died in the funeral palanquin of the second grandmother.
The second is Yang Jiuhong, who was born from the kiln sister. Yang Jiuhong is a woman with a bitter fate, she was sold into a brothel by her brother-in-law since she was a child, and later followed Bai Jingqi, but she has not been recognized by the second grandmother, who did not agree to let Yang Jiuhong enter the door of the Bai family until her death, and even when she died, she was not allowed to wear filial piety.
The third place is the acacia flower. Huaihua was the handmaiden of the second grandmother, who promised her to Bai Jingqi before she died. In the struggle with Yang Jiuhong, Zhenhua was slapped by Bai Jingqi for exposing Yang Jiuhong's shortness, and finally hanged herself with humiliation and hatred.
The fourth is the second grandmother's dog-hugging handmaiden Xiangxiu. Xiangxiu was just a dog-hugging, but in the end she succeeded in becoming the wife of the white family.
When I was young, I watched this drama and thought that Xiangxiu could ascend to the throne all by bai Jingqi's favor. Looking at this drama now, there is a different interpretation of Xiangxiu's success in ascending to the throne.
Xiangxiu's ascension to the throne is no accident, nor is it achieved overnight. Of course, there are external conditions for her to ascend to the throne and Bai Jingqi's love for her, but it is more inseparable from her own ingenuity.

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Xiangxiu was born in a poor family, and when she was 14 years old, she was caught by her second grandmother and spent 500 oceans to buy it as a dog-hugging.
She has a beautiful appearance and a unique personality, and is deeply loved by the second grandmother. The status in the Bai Family Compound is naturally much higher than that of other Yahuan.
The first time Xiangxiu saw Bai Jingqi was in the Bai family compound. At that time, Bai Jingqi saw the second grandmother's dog big top playing in the garden, so he picked it up.
Unexpectedly, he was reprimanded by Xiangxiu: "Put down, you put it down for me." ”
Bai Jingqi's personality is debauched, loves to play and make trouble, and there is no shortage of women around him who are low-brow and obedient to his eyes, and Xiangxiu's character of daring to risk the world and not violate it suddenly opened his eyes and gave him a different experience.
Coupled with the fact that Xiangxiu is beautiful and tender, she immediately enters her eyes.
When he learned that the person he was not inferior to was the Seventh Master, Xiangxiu did not show a look of fear, but instead grinned shyly, and Bai Jingqi's eyes immediately lit up.
Later, she did not apologize only in a promise, but used her own unique apology method to show Bai Jingqi a cigarette bag.
She clarified a fact to Bai Jingqi with practical actions: I am wrong to commit the following crimes, but I am not humble.
All her behavior makes Bai Jingqi feel new and unique, men like to hunt for curiosity, and it is normal for Xiangxiu to enter Bai Jingqi's eyes.
This is the first condition for Xiangxiu to be able to ascend to the throne.
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Before her death, the second grandmother promised the locust flower to Bai Jingqi. Since then, Yang Jiuhong has regarded the locust flower as a thorn in her eye and competed with her everywhere for jealousy.
When the Bai family's medicinal materials were stopped outside the Guan, Yang Jiuhong, in order to ask for merit in front of Bai Jingqi, took the initiative to ask Miao to go to the Guanwai to transport the medicine.
She was afraid that after she left, the locust flower would be favored in front of Bai Jingqi, so she offered to take the locust flower with her.
As everyone knows, people are not as good as heavenly calculations, and she did not expect that her move would create conditions for Bai Jingqi and Xiangxiu.
It didn't take long for Xiangxiu to secretly communicate with Bai Jingqi, and the bright bunk was covered.
Yang Jiuhong probably wouldn't have dreamed that she had done everything in her power, but in the end she was making wedding clothes for others.
This is precisely the wisdom of Xiangxiu, and it can also be said to be a heart trick.
When the second grandmother was alive, Xiangxiu was deeply loved by the second grandmother and had a certain right to speak in the Bai family compound.
Xiangxiu is very self-aware, after the death of the second grandmother, her status will definitely decline, and if she wants to gain a foothold in the Bai family, she must find a new patron.
And Bai Jingqi is the most suitable candidate.
Xiangxiu is not stupid, Bai Jingqi likes her, she can definitely feel it, so she wants to fight with Bai Jingqi's liking and climb into a relationship with him.
And Yang Jiuhong left with the locust flower, creating unique conditions for Xiangxiu.
Neither aunt was at home, and a watery bitch's attempt to put a man who liked himself into bed was effortless.
Xiangxiu is very smart, and she understands that the reason why Bai Jingqi likes her is because of her pungency and difference.
Bai Jingqi's side has never lacked women with low eyebrows and pleasing eyes, so she has done the opposite, using the means of wanting to catch the old and indulgent, which has satisfied Bai Jingqi's appetite.
After Xiangxiu had a conflict with Yang Jiuhong, he did not wait for Bai Jingqi to catch up, and he ran away first in a huff.
I have to say that men are all bones, Xiangxiu did this, Bai Jingqi was not angry, and personally went to Xiangxiu's home to invite her back.
Since then, Xiangxiu's status in the Bai Family Compound has risen another notch.
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The deaths of the three women of the Bai family created the necessary conditions for Xiangxiu to successfully ascend to the throne.
The first is the second grandmother.
Bai Jingqi's position in the Bai family was above ten thousand people under one person, except for the second grandmother, no one dared to say a word in front of him.
Even though he was so tyrannical and said one thing or the other, he never dared to disobey the orders of the second grandmother.
The second grandmother sent someone to take away Yang Jiuhong's child, he knew it was wrong, but he still did not dare to say the first half of the sentence for Yang Jiuhong.
In his words, all parents in the world always have to listen to their words.
Yang Jiuhong questioned him: If you are wrong, you have to listen?
His eyes narrowed, and he was straight-forward: "If you are wrong, you have to listen!" ”
Can be a mother-in-law man.
Therefore, if the second grandmother did not die, such a mother-only mother-only man would never be able to disobey his mother's order to marry a maid and enter the door.
The biggest possibility is that he will marry a woman who is the right woman to be the wife of the house.
The second is Huang Chun.
As mentioned earlier, Huang Chun is the wife of Bai Jingqi's qingmei bamboo horse and has a high status in the Bai family.
If it were not for her sudden violent illness and death, Bai Jingqi would definitely not have divorced Huang Chun to marry any woman.
Xiangxiu's ascension to the throne is also impossible.
The third is the locust flower.
At first, Huaihua rebelled against Yang Jiuhong's bullying and did not dare to confront half a sentence.
Later, at the instigation of Xiangxiu, his courage became bigger, and he began to openly argue with Yang Jiuhong.
She learned to expose Yang Jiuhong's shortness by Xiangxiu, mocked her as a "kiln sister who rides thousands of people", and was slapped by Bai Jingqi in public, hanging herself with hatred.
Huaihua may not understand until she dies, why Xiangxiu scolded Yang Jiuhong, "You went into the kiln without seducing the grandfathers", and she scolded and would be slapped in public.
This is in response to the saying that if a man doesn't love you, you are even wrong to breathe.
Compared with the locust flower, Xiangxiu's status in Bai Jingqi's heart was much higher.
Xiangxiu may not have the intention of killing locust flowers, but the death of locust flowers also has something to do with her.
She took advantage of Bai Jingqi's guilt for Huaihua and used the radical method to tell him in front of Jingqi about his grievances of being bullied by Yang Jiuhong as his aunt's wife, so that Bai Jingqi, who was already dissatisfied with Yang Jiuhong, blurted out and agreed to marry her as a wife.
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The above are all prerequisites for Xiangxiu to be able to ascend to the throne.
But only these are not enough, Bai Jingqi can not marry a handmaiden just because he likes it.
The most important thing about Xiangxiu's success in ascending to the throne is that she has the ability, the personality charm that can hold Bai Jingqi, and the ability to stand alone in the Bai family.
After Huaihua's death, Wang Xiguang, in order to avenge being stripped of his pants in public by Bai Jingqi and driven out of the Bai family, wrote a complaint and filed a complaint against Bai Jingqi in the name of Huaihua's family, so that Bai Jingqi was squated in prison.
Xiangxiu settled the old mother of the locust flower for Bai Jingqi and made silver up and down, not only did not let Bai Jingqi suffer, but also let him live a good life in prison. So much so that Bai Jingqi also researched several prescriptions in prison.
Bai Xiguang, who did not get the money, was furious, and Xiangxiu designed to use Bai Xiguang to empty his mouth and set up white wolves, so that Wang Xiguang would report a statement: Bai Jingqi has suffered on behalf of others, and Yang Jiuhong's guilt cannot be escaped. Saved the reputation of the White Family.
The Japanese surrounded the Bai family and coerced Bai Jingqi into handing over the ancestral secret recipe, and Xiangxiu proposed to use a fake formula to fool through the pass.
At this point, Xiangxiu's position in Bai Jingqi's heart has taken a qualitative leap.
Bai Jingqi is a shrewd person, he understands that the only son, Bai Jingye, can't support the wall, and lingers in the wind and moon place all day long, and it is difficult to take on the heavy responsibility of carrying forward the Hundred Grass Hall.
Under the long-term suppression, Yang Jiuhong's psychology appeared a sick imbalance, which made the Bai family restless, and later became close to the Japanese.
Looking up and down the White family, I can't find a person who can carry things.
So when Xiangxiu proposed to be his wife, he hesitated for a moment and agreed.
Bai Jingqi was worried that after he left, Bai Jingye and Yang Jiuhong would lose their family business, and it was better to hand it over to Xiangxiu.
Xiangxiu followed the second grandmother for fourteen years, learned a lot of skills from the second grandmother, and there are also many shadows of the second grandmother in terms of personality and life in the world.
She is smart and fierce, and dares to love and hate, so Bai Jingqi will agree to her being the wife of the main house and entrust the great cause of the Bai family to her.
In this way, Xiangxiu's success in ascending to the throne is more due to her own wisdom and talent.
All female friends should understand the deep reasons why Xiangxiu can succeed from this drama, take every step in a down-to-earth manner, and let themselves practice a skill that no one can replace.
In this way, when the opportunity comes, when the external conditions are satisfied, I will not sigh and regret because I do not have the ability to take charge of it.
Author: Water Flower, Tang Xiaoxiao Writing Class Student.