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Preface
In the flashy entertainment industry, the marriages of many celebrities are the focus of attention. And He Saifei, the high-profile actress, made a seemingly ordinary decision: to marry an ordinary husband outside the circle who is 7 years older than herself.
What is the story and consideration behind this choice? Why does He Saifei think that this is the most correct decision in her life?
Difficult childhood: the growth of a stubborn girl
He Saifei was born in 1963 in an ordinary family in Daishan County, Zhoushan City, Zhejiang Province. However, fate doesn't seem to have favored her in the first place.
When she was only 5 years old, her parents' marriage came to an end. When the divorce occurred, her mother took away her sister and sister, leaving only the young He Saifei to rely on his father for his life.
This decision caused great damage to He Saifei's young mind. She used to cry and make trouble, grabbing the corner of her mother's clothes and begging her mother to take her. However, the mother still left ruthlessly. This picture is deeply engraved in He Saifei's memory and has become the most painful memory of her childhood.
My father was a literary and artistic worker who was sent to the countryside, and his living conditions were very difficult. In order to make ends meet, he had to do odd jobs from place to place, sometimes going to the quarry to get stones.
In order to ensure He Saifei's safety, her father often tied a rope around her waist and the other end to a stone, and then built up a stone around her, so that she could spend a long time in this small space.
Despite the difficult life, his father never gave up on cultivating He Saifei. He insisted that his daughter go to school, believing that it was the only way to change her fate.
In his spare time, his father would play the three strings and teach He Saifei some musical instruments and literary knowledge. These bits and pieces of artistic edification planted the seeds for Saifei's future artistic career.
The hardships of life made He Saifei sensible prematurely. At the age of 6, she began to learn to cook and take care of her father's daily life. Although life is hard, the father and daughter depend on each other and face all kinds of difficulties in life together.
This experience made He Saifei develop a strong and independent character, and also gave her a strong yearning for a complete and happy family.
Artistic Enlightenment: The Beginning of the Road to Yue Opera
In 1979, 16-year-old He Saifei ushered in a turning point in his life. That year, the village screened the Yue opera film "Dream of Red Mansions". He Saifei was deeply attracted by this movie, and when he returned home, he enthusiastically imitated it and sang the clips from the movie to his father.
The father keenly discovered his daughter's talent in literature and art. As a former literary and artistic worker, he is well aware of the charm and value of art. In that era when opportunities for further education were scarce, his father made an important decision: to support He Saifei to learn Yue Opera.
This decision changed the trajectory of He Saifei's life. She began to study Yue Opera hard, getting up before dawn every day to practice her voice and practice basic skills. Under his father's strict requirements and his own efforts, He Saifei's Yue Opera skills have improved by leaps and bounds.
In 1982, after three years of hard study, 19-year-old He Saifei was admitted to the Daishan County Yue Opera Troupe with excellent results and became a formal employee.
This not only means that she has a stable job, but also has a city hukou. This is undoubtedly a huge leap for a rural girl.
In the Yue Opera Troupe, He Saifei is like a fish in water. She was diligent and hardworking, and soon became the "pillar" of the troupe. Her acting talent was fully developed and won the love of the audience. This experience not only allowed He Saifei to make great progress in art, but also allowed her to find the direction of her life.
Starlight: The Leap from Stage to Screen
He Saifei's talent was soon widely recognized. In 1984, the Yue opera "Five Women's Birthday" in which she participated was photographed by Changchun Film Studio, and it was decided to adapt it into a movie.
This is He Saifei's first contact with film acting, although it is different from stage performance, but with her solid skills and deep understanding of the role, she quickly adapted to the requirements of film performance.
The success of "Five Women's Birthday" made He Saifei famous in one fell swoop. She not only won the "Little Hundred Flowers Award" Best Actress Award, but also became a nationally renowned actress. The success of this work allowed He Saifei to see a broader space for development, and also strengthened her determination to continue to pursue art.
However, just when He Saifei's career was thriving, her father unfortunately fell ill. When his father was dying, He Saifei was full of guilt and felt that he had not been filial to his father.
But her father smiled and told her, "As long as you can achieve something in the performing arts, this is the best reward for me." This sentence became the motivation for He Saifei's efforts in the future, and also made her cherish her hard-won career even more.
The death of her father made He Saifei go through a difficult time, but she was not crushed by grief. Instead, she took her father's last wish to heart and worked harder to devote herself to her acting career.
In 1986, He Saifei was invited by the famous director Xie Tieli to join the crew of "Dream of Red Mansions". The filming of this work lasted for three years, and although it was hard, He Saifei gained valuable experience in the process, and his acting skills have also been greatly improved.
Immediately afterwards, He Saifei was photographed by director Zhang Yimou and played the role of "aunt's wife" in the movie "The Red Lantern Hangs High". This role requires the actor to be able to sing Peking Opera, which is a huge challenge for He Saifei, who can only sing Yue Opera.
But she did not back down, but took the initiative to learn Peking Opera and worked hard to overcome difficulties. Her professionalism and outstanding performance impressed the audience and won the appreciation of the director.
Since then, He Saifei has starred in movies such as "Red Pink" and "Fengyue", although they are all supporting roles, her performance is still outstanding. These works not only enhanced He Saifei's popularity, but also made her status higher and higher in the entertainment industry, and finally won the China Film Performing Arts Society Award.
Fate is destined: acquaintance and love with Yang Nan
While his career was thriving, He Saifei's love also quietly came. The beginning of this marriage dates back to when He Saifei was studying at Zhejiang Art School.
At that time, He Saifei's teacher invited her to his home. At the teacher's home, He Saifei saw a family photo, in which the family was smiling brightly and happy.
This picture deeply touched He Saifei's heart. Having lived in a single-parent family since she was a child, she has a strong yearning for a complete and happy family.
At that time, He Saifei silently thought in his heart: "It would be great if I could be their daughter-in-law." Although this idea is a bit naïve, it seems to be a prophecy that lays the groundwork for her future marriage.
The warm hospitality of the teacher's family made He Saifei feel the warmth of home. She began to go in and out of the teacher's house frequently, and thus met the teacher's son Yang Nan. Yang Nan is 7 years older than He Saifei, mature and stable, and full of charm.
At first, Yang Nan didn't have any special thoughts about He Saifei, but just regarded her as her mother's student. But as the contact increased, he was gradually attracted by He Saifei's beauty, gentleness and understanding.
Yang Nan's mother also sensed her son's thoughts, and after learning that Yang Nan had a good impression of He Saifei, she not only did not object, but encouraged her son to pursue his own happiness.
With the support of his mother, Yang Nan began to take the initiative to pursue He Saifei. His gentleness, thoughtfulness, maturity and stability made He Saifei feel an unprecedented sense of security. Yang Nan's age and experience just make up for He Saifei's lack of emotion due to his lack of maternal love since childhood.
The relationship between the two has developed steadily, and Yang Nan's mother also takes special care of He Saifei and treats her as her daughter-in-law. This feeling of being surrounded by love made He Saifei feel warm.
The Choice of Happiness: Balancing Marriage and Career
In 1988, 25-year-old He Saifei and 32-year-old Yang Nan entered the palace of marriage. This decision is of great significance to He Saifei. She has lived in a single-parent family since she was a child, and finally has a complete family that she has been looking forward to for a long time.
However, the newlywed He Saifei soon faced a difficult choice: should he focus on career development or have children as soon as possible? At that time, He Saifei's career was on the rise, and she didn't want to affect her acting career because of childbirth.
At the same time, she is also worried that the economic conditions of herself and Yang Nan are not enough to give the child the best life.
After careful consideration, He Saifei and Yang Nan reached a consensus: don't have children for the time being and focus on career development. This decision was fully supported by Yang Nan. He understands his wife's love for her career and respects her choice.
However, this decision also brought a lot of pressure to He Saifei. She was afraid that her in-laws would be dissatisfied because she had delayed giving birth, and even did not go home for the New Year in Chinese New Year's Eve for a year, just to avoid being spawned.
But what moved He Saifei was that Yang Nan always stood on her side, used her own way to resolve the pressure of the family, and gave He Saifei the greatest support and understanding.
With the support of Yang Nan, He Saifei's career is thriving. She has starred in many popular TV series such as "Mansion Gate" and "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", created many classic roles, and became a powerful actor loved by the audience.
However, as he grew older, He Saifei also began to rethink the issue of childbearing. Once, after a Yue Opera performance, the famous Yue Opera actor Yuan Xuefen said to her earnestly: "Children are a process that women must go through, and maternal love is also the greatest love in the world." He Saifei was deeply touched by these words.
After much deliberation, He Saifei decided to try to get pregnant. In 1998, after 10 years of marriage, 35-year-old He Saifei finally welcomed his first child, named He Xiaofeng. The arrival of his son brought new joy and challenges to He Saifei's life.
In order to take care of the children, He Saifei had to reduce his workload. Every time she is on set, she can't help but miss her son at home. However, she did not give up on her career. With Yang Nan's full support, He Saifei found a way to balance work and family.
Yang Nan took on more family responsibilities, taking care of the children and handling housework, so that He Saifei could work with peace of mind. He often said to He Saifei: "Even if you go to film and pursue your dreams, everything in the family has me, you can rest assured." This kind of unconditional support and understanding made He Saifei even more convinced that marrying Yang Nan was the most correct decision in her life.
As he grew older and his children grew up, He Saifei also began to adjust his work focus. She reduced the shooting of film and television works and devoted more energy to Yue Opera performances and artistic inheritance.
She is constantly committed to the promotion and development of Chinese opera, hoping to contribute to the inheritance of traditional Chinese culture.
epilogue
He Saifei's life story tells us that happiness in life often comes from the right choices and unremitting efforts.
From a difficult childhood to a brilliant career, from the desire for a complete family to the management of a happy marriage, He Saifei uses his own experience to interpret what true success is.
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