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The so-called "see the truth in times of crisis" is particularly appropriate in the relationship between husband and wife. Whether it is sweet words or gentle and considerate words in ordinary days, they cannot withstand the true feelings related to conflicts of interest and important moments of life and death.
A couple with 11 years of marriage age, in order to compete for 400,000 yuan of car accident compensation, Shengsheng forced himself and the other party to the point of divorce, they put aside the marital love, the responsibility of parenthood was left behind, in front of money, the husband and wife love evolved into a joke, making everyone know.
His wife, Long Fen, ran away because of the contradiction between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and suffered a car accident on the way back to her mother's house. After being rescued by the hospital, his life was saved, but he also left sequelae.
After being discharged from the hospital, Long Fen, accompanied by her mother, went together to receive 400,000 yuan in compensation. The husband and in-laws were angry at their daughter-in-law's self-assertion and decided that Long Fen had given all the money that should have belonged to the in-laws' family to the mother-in-law's family.
Long Fen said that the money has always been in his bank card. However, after taking her husband and father-in-law to the bank to inquire, it was found that the balance was only 15,000 yuan. At this time, the in-laws are even more uneasy, in order to force the relatives to hand over the compensation, the father-in-law and her husband ran to Long Fen's mother's house together to make a big fuss, in order to get the 400,000 yuan compensation money in hand, the father-in-law also had a physical conflict with Long Fen's father.
Long Fen's mother provided the whereabouts of the large compensation in front of reporters, and she took out two fixed deposit slips, the name of the depositor was Long Fen. It was not as suspicious as Long Fen's husband's family suspected, Long Fen's parents did not take their daughter's compensation for themselves, but only kept the deposit certificate for their daughter.
However, the husband and father-in-law still did not spare, and had to let Long Fen take the money back to her in-laws. Husband Liu Xiaodong also said that he has the right to manage this money, and has always stressed that this compensation money belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife.
Liu Xiaodong also warned Long Fen: If you don't understand the affairs of your mother's family, don't go back with him. Divorce, but also score compensation. The father-in-law even ordered Long Fen to sever ties with his parents to resolve the economic dispute. Long Fen was reluctant to have two children, and she was unwilling to give the compensation to people so confusedly, and she was once caught in a dilemma.
Long Fen's mother insisted that the money exist in her daughter's name and did not agree to bring it back to her in-laws. The reason is: the daughter has been married for more than ten years, has been helping the in-laws who do the decoration business, and has created at least 100,000 profits a year, but the father-in-law has never given her a penny of wages, and even the money to buy a bottle of water in her hand is not even in her hand, and the family's money is managed by the father-in-law.
Long Fen confirmed what her mother said, and added that the in-laws have always regarded themselves as outsiders, and every time they need to spend money, they have to reach out and look at the faces of the in-laws.
In addition, Long Fen's mother also proposed that in the golden time when Long Fen's life was hanging on the line and needed the family's signature to rescue, the son-in-law Liu Xiaodong hesitated for a long time. This makes her feel that the Liu family is not sincere about her daughter, especially after the daughter's car accident, her health is not as good as before, and she is afraid that her daughter will be abandoned by the Liu family one day, so the compensation for the car accident is the daughter's future back road guarantee, and it must not be handed over to the in-laws.
Liu Xiaodong has been silent about his mother-in-law's accusations, and he is reluctant to talk much about the situation in the hospital at that time. Just repeatedly stressed that in order to save Long Fen, he spent 145,000 yuan from admission to discharge.
Liu Xiaodong's father told reporters: Saying that Long Fen is a good daughter-in-law, that is, she is too filial piety, and a little money will be given to her mother's family. Therefore, on the grounds that this compensation could not fall into the hands of Long Fen's mother's family, Long Fen was required to bring the money back to her in-laws' house.
The two families, who had not given in to each other, accepted judicial mediation the next day. The judicial mediation staff clearly pointed out that according to laws and regulations, the compensation of 400,000 yuan really belongs to Long Fen alone, and how to deal with it depends on her personal wishes.
Liu Xiaodong still insisted: requiring Long Fen to take out at least 200,000 yuan as child support, and the rest as the joint property of the husband and wife for living expenses, otherwise divorce. Long Fen proposed that if he wanted a divorce, he had to first calculate the wages he had worked for his in-laws for more than ten years, and give her a share before leaving.
As a result, a couple and two relatives of Mai Mang's family broke up unhappily, first separated, and then went through judicial procedures for divorce...
At first glance, it seems that Long Fen is at fault, the kind of woman who can't be confused in people's mouths, a bad daughter-in-law who doesn't live a good life with her husband when she is married, and always wants to take money from her mother's house.
However, if you patiently understand the various reasons behind the whole incident, I believe that more netizens will sympathize with Long Fen, a poor woman, and will also understand that she can't give up her children but is not willing to give up her compensation to her in-laws in order to continue to live a life.
First of all, it is very certain that Long Fen has always been a daughter-in-law who is single-mindedly living a good life with her husband. She and her husband had two children together and helped her husband and father-in-law in the renovation business. The salary has not been given a point, the family's money is controlled in the hands of the father-in-law, can be in such a family for more than ten years of daughter-in-law, and now can find out how many?
The in-laws said that Long Fen did not have the ability to make money, and helping her own business was equivalent to not doing it? Saying that Long Fen has a little money to take from her mother's house, does she have money to take it to her mother's house? The contradictory statements make onlookers see what it means that the wicked person sue first.
I have seen the husband and wife keep their own salaries after marriage, and I have also seen the small two mouths of the little two mouths together and the husband and the little two mouths to manage it in a unified way. However, the situation that the money of the two small mouths and the small two mouths is all managed by the father-in-law and the small two mouths is really eye-opening. In what era, this feudal patriarchy was still practiced?
No one is a fool, and this practice of Long Fengong is actually not obviously leaving a back hand? I am afraid that if the son and daughter-in-law change their feelings one day, then the little couple will not have a penny of savings under their names, divorce, no common property, and the daughter-in-law will not be able to take a penny from his family. This can be confirmed by Long Fen's grievances that he only gives her husband's family free labor.
Only this kind of family that beat the little abacus to the point of being a thief at the beginning will suspect that the family has appropriated Long Fen's car accident compensation for themselves. Moreover, seeing that the name of the daughter-in-law written on the certificate of deposit is not finished, or the strong demand for the daughter-in-law to hand over the money, this is the rhythm to grab.
For Long Fen, bringing the money back to her in-laws meant that the money went into her father-in-law's pocket, and when she was healthy and healthy, she was guarded everywhere as an outsider. Now that she has the after-effects of the car accident, how can she believe that her in-laws will treat her well? Of course, their own compensation money is only the most secure in their own hands.
Secondly, the in-laws have always regarded the compensation as the money of the in-laws, not Long Fen's personal. Even in order to force Long Fen to hand over the money, even the divorce was spoken, as an old husband, he also brazenly asked his daughter-in-law to sever relations with her biological parents.
The compensation is in Long Fen's own name, what is wrong? During the marriage period, why can't a woman keep her own money in her own name, and the in-laws are stirring up here, don't know what shame is? A father-in-law who manages his son's money is not counted, even the daughter-in-law's money is also managed, the management is also addicted, even the compensation for the daughter-in-law's car accident is not afraid of hot hands?
Finally, the most important thing to say is that Long Fen's husband, Liu Xiaodong, basically belongs to his father and fights wherever he goes. An adult man who has married and had children does not know how to defend his wife, and after more than ten years of marriage, he cannot be financially independent. I am obviously working, but I have no money in my hands, I have to spend money with my father, I have to look at my father's face, I don't know, I think my wife and children are all supported by my father-in-law.
The compensation for the wife's car accident was not handed over to the father-in-law, and he accused the wife of guarding against the in-laws' family and helping the mother-in-law's family. The mother of the mother just does not want to see her daughter being bullied without a bottom line, and helps to store the money in her daughter's name, in the end, she is still not optimistic about this son-in-law.
During the normal period of marriage, why can't the compensation money exist in Long Fen's personal name? Why should it be handed over to the in-laws for disposal? For the sake of money, he will not hesitate to destroy a small family with his own hands, so that the two children can no longer have a complete family. How can such a man have an ulterior motive behind him?
Some netizens said that Long Fen should pay back the 145,000 yuan of medical expenses paid by her in-laws. Some netizens also said that there is no need to pay back, why should it be returned? She spends her joint property with her husband, not her in-laws' money. If you really want to pay back, then you have to settle the salary of Long Fen's work in the father-in-law decoration team for more than ten years. For more than ten years, more than a hundred thousand can not be earned?
Or the cheesy saying: Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
Long Fen did not think of divorcing her husband at all, not divorcing, 400,000 compensation even if it exists in Long Fen's name, it is still the money of their small family; if Liu Xiaodong has made up his mind not to continue to live with his wife who has been in a car accident, but just wants to get his wife's compensation money, then talk to the open face and talk about divorce directly; if you still want to continue, just forced by the pressure given by your father, then this time is also a good opportunity to get rid of your father's control and separate the family. Go out and find a new job on your own.
If a man can't even support his own small family, can't even protect his wife, and doesn't even have the right to freely control his own wages, how can such a man be a husband? How to be a father?
Marriage is one's own, and a small family requires husbands and wives to work together to build and maintain them. Whether it is the in-laws or the mother-in-law's family, if you are sincerely for the good of your children, then don't stretch your hands so long, and leave the matter of the little two mouths to them to deal with by themselves.
It is suggested that Long Fen keep his own 400,000 yuan compensation money, there is no need to put it in her mother's home, so that the in-laws will have no thorns to pick. In addition, the certificate of deposit is in your own name, brought back to the in-laws' home, the father-in-law can not be snatched; it is recommended that Liu Xiaodong, to have independent thinking and the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, the so-called parents for your own good, may not really be good for you, your own life must rely on yourself, not on your parents. Don't pestering your wife for compensation anymore, if you don't have two hearts, why are you afraid that she will drain the money? (Images are from video screenshots)