Generally speaking, men and women's thinking patterns are not the same, the pursuit of things are not the same, the vast majority of men hope to achieve their ambitions in their careers, through their own struggle to obtain a lot of, more wealth. For most women, having a stable job and a man who loves him wholeheartedly is the greatest desire and success, which is why so many women who look successful will be planted in the hands of men who are unreliable at first glance.
He Shan (pseudonym) in Hunan is such a woman, even if she has been divorced once, but because she has hardly done any heavy work over the years, the children are basically nannies and mother-in-law, so He Shan's appearance and figure are maintained very well, plus she often goes to the beauty salon to do maintenance, and the 43-year-old looks like she is in her early thirties.
He Shan originally had a good family, in the early years the family was demolished, she was allocated several houses and a lot of money, never worried about money, so she can be said to have never tasted any hardship in her life, and what decisions she made has always been very casual. In the first marriage, her husband could not give her the care and love she wanted, so she resolutely chose to separate, the child was awarded to her husband, and she chose to live alone.
Single days are too long, He Shan can't help but feel a little lonely and lonely, hoping that someone to care about themselves, accompany themselves, so she registered an account on a dating website, hoping to find her own "second spring" on it, this registration really has a lot of people to contact themselves, in these people she especially likes Li Zhongde. Li Zhongde is also a divorced person, 7 years older than He Shan, but he is particularly fond of He Shan when he speaks.
After the two met, He Shan found that Li Zhongde was a particularly handsome man, although he was older, he spoke funny and humorously, and dressed very well, so although he had no house and no career, He Shan was hopelessly in love with him. Li Zhongde showed that in front of He Shan, it was called a courtesy and thoughtfulness, what He Shan needed most was someone to spend time with, and Li Zhongde just had nothing but time.
Immersed in Li Zhongde's honey jar, He Shan felt that she was simply happier than when she was young and in love, and in less than six months, she and Li Zhongde were licensed to marry. After getting married, Li Zhongde's true face was slowly revealed.
Although Li Zhongde did not have any serious work before marriage, his time was spent on He Shan, and after marriage, Li Zhongde began to indulge in the card table, and he often cooked for He Shan before, and after marriage, he basically stopped going into the kitchen and became He Shan to take care of him. He played cards and lost more and more money, and He Shan has been giving him a bottom.
A year later, Li Zhongde suddenly said that he wanted to open a company, hoping that He Shan could invest a sum of money to start a business for him, "the woman who fell in love has zero IQ" This sentence is really not a joke, He Shan really sold two apartments, and all the funds were used to open a company for Li Zhongde.
Opening a company is false, let He Shan realize the house is true, Li Zhongde has no heart to run the company, the affairs are basically He Shan in charge, He Shan is busy, Li Zhongde often goes out to spend days and drinks on the grounds of not disturbing her work, the paper can't contain the fire after all, He Shan still found Li Zhongde's behavior, and had a big fight with him, but Li Zhongde was very cunning, three times five divided by two and got He Shan done, and finally let He Shan feel that he did not care enough about her husband, and decided to "compensate" Li Zhongde.
In fact, what is the difference between Li Zhongde's approach and what we call PUA today? He Shan did not realize that she was bent on building another house for Li Zhongde in his hometown, and she could return to him for the elderly in the future. One day, Li Zhongde said that he wanted to go home to see, so he went back to his hometown and lived for a long time. He Shan originally did not want to go over, but on this day, the company had some things to deal with there, so she drove to Li Zhongde's house by herself.
As soon as I went in, I found that the door was full of women's shoes, opened the bedroom door, Li Zhongde and a woman were caught and raped by He Shan in bed, He Shan was furious, randomly picked up the things around him and hit the two people on the bed, and then left the room. Afterwards, Li Zhongde fearlessly told He Shan that he had actually been married five times and had several lovers, and He Shan felt that his true heart had been betrayed.
He Shan once again took the initiative to propose divorce in her marriage, carefully calculated, she has spent more than 1 million yuan on Li Zhongde in the past two years, in addition to the gambling funds directly given to him and the money for building a house, He Shan also bought a car for Li Zhongde of more than 200,000 yuan, feeling that he was deceived He Shan wanted Li Zhongde to return all the money, Li Zhongde was triumphant, he knew that there would be today, so he was fully prepared for this situation.
In the event of divorce, the spouses can only divide the joint property of the husband and wife, and the premarital property of both parties cannot be divided, and the premarital property refers to the property that has been acquired by one of the spouses before marriage. The premarital property of one of the spouses, whether movable or immovable, tangible or intangible, is protected by law as long as it is lawfully acquired. For example, He Shan's several houses and all her money belonged to her premarital property, which Li Zhongde did not have the right to use and distribute.
But after she married Li Zhongde, she sold two houses, and after selling the money, she used it to register the company, build a house for Li Zhongde, and buy a car, at which time the money and these items belonged to her and Li Zhongde's common property. Article 1062 of the Civil Code stipulates that the following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be the common property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:
(1) wages, bonuses and remuneration for labor services; (2) income from production, operation and investment; (3) income from intellectual property rights; (4) property inherited or donated, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 1063 of this Law; (5) other property that shall be jointly owned.
So even if it is a divorce, Li Zhongde also has the right to control half of these properties, and there is a principle of taking care of the no-fault party in the Marriage Law, that is, in a marriage relationship, the party at fault will be correspondingly less or no when the property is distributed, He Shan obviously belongs to the no-fault party, so it can be more, but there is a big premise here that He Shan has to grasp the evidence of Li Zhongde's cheating, even so, the probability of Li Zhongde's net out of the house is still very low.
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