53-year-old rich uncle blind date 34-year-old second marriage daughter: I spent 180,000 yuan to marry her, and I didn't pull my hands to divorce

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Uncle Zhou, 53 years old, and Fifi, who met her blind date, were quickly married after only 12 days.

However, this marriage lasted only half a month.

The two went to the public security bureau because of the refund of 180,000 yuan, and finally parted ways.

Uncle Zhou was unwilling: "In order to marry her, I spent 180,000 dowry... However, she didn't even pull my hand... Who will compensate me for my losses. ”

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When Uncle Zhou was 25 years old, he and his wife started a factory from scratch, worked greedily in the morning and made a lot of money.

During that period of entrepreneurship, his wife unexpectedly had three children and did not stay.

For the first time, they were busy with their careers and didn't have the energy and time to have children.

The second time, her wife accidentally had a child while she was sick and taking medicine, and she did not dare to stay.

The third time, they were ready for the arrival of the child, but they found that it was an ectopic pregnancy.

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Since then, his wife's health has gotten worse and worse, and she has never conceived a child.

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Although Uncle Zhou felt sorry, his wife had accompanied him all the way, and he could not dislike his wife because of this.

Therefore, he often comforted his wife that it was better to be tied up without children, free, and when he had earned enough money, he would travel around the world.

But how can you earn enough money!

In the end, Uncle Zhou did not earn enough money, and his wife also died of cervical cancer.

That year, Uncle Zhou was 46 years old.

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He turned the pain of bereavement into a motivation to earn money, trying to numb himself with busyness.

Although he kept himself busy every day like a gyroscope with an engine, the factory went out of business because of poor management.

He took his rich savings and went out on a trip.

After seeing the outside world of flowers and flowers, he slowly let go.

Slowly accept the fact that his wife and the factory are gone from him.

Uncle Zhou's conditions are good, and many acquaintances advocate giving him a blind date, persuading him that he will have such a long life in the future and cannot be single for a lifetime.

Uncle Zhou was indeed afraid of loneliness, so he accepted the blind date.

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His requirements for blind dates are: young and beautiful, preferably able to have children.

Not having children has always been a hurdle in his heart.

Under the introduction of the matchmaker, Uncle Zhou kissed several women one after another.

Finally he settled on a young woman named Fifi.

Fifi, 34 years old, opened a nail salon in front of the community.

Fei Fei looks young and beautiful, and her dress is also very fashionable, and she was looked at by Uncle Zhou at the first glance.

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Maybe there's no harm without comparison!

Those who are close to Uncle Zhou are all women who are about 50 years old and face the sky.

Compared to Fifi, who has exquisite makeup, it is a world of difference.

Since you remarry, you must be trying to run to the young girl! The heart of beauty, everyone has it!

Uncle Zhou has wealth and strength, and he wants to get a son in old age.

He believed that he could capture Fifi's heart, and even more believed that Fifi could give birth to children.

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When Fifi was young, she was a wayward girl, and when she was less than 20 years old, she impulsively married the social youth of the same town despite the opposition of her family.

The next year I had a daughter.

But at that time, they were all too young and ignorant to understand what responsibility was and what marriage was.

As a result, the marriage lasted only two years, and then it was divorced in a big fight, vowing not to interact with each other.

And Fifi, after "throwing" her young daughter to her mother, went to work in a big city with a dream.

She has good appearance conditions and has not been short of men to chase, but she does not want to talk about love and live a life.

Love can't be eaten as a meal, and she wants to find a mature, stable, and financially capable man.

Find a fixed long-term meal ticket for the rest of your life.

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Uncle Zhou is very much in line with her conditions.

The two knew and interacted, and in just 12 days, Uncle Zhou proposed to her.

Fifi did not hide it either, and directly asked: "Are you willing to add my name to the title deed?" ”

She explained to Uncle Zhou that she had been displaced in the city for more than ten years, and had always longed to have a home, a house of her own, and no longer had to worry about the landlord's rent increase.

That's why there's that requirement.

She had also been on a blind date with many men before, but they were all Tufifi's appearance, and when it came to adding a name to the house or buying a house, they were all scared away.

Uncle Zhou listened to Fei Fei's reasoning and agreed without thinking about it.

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He said: "As a mature and atmospheric man, some security and security are to be given to women, so that the day will be more stable." ”

Fifi was overjoyed to hear this.

But Uncle Zhou also told her that there is a very complicated procedure for adding a name, and it must be taken slowly and urgently.

After they went together to ask for relevant information, Uncle Zhou asked Fei Fei for some documents, saying that he was starting to handle it.

Just then, Fifi made another excessive request.

"I was a real failure as a mother, I didn't grow up with my daughter when I was a child, so much so that she doesn't recognize me now, she rejects me, I feel guilty..."

Originally, she hoped that Uncle Zhou could lend her 180,000 yuan to save in the name of her daughter and obtain her forgiveness.

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Although her reasons sounded unconvincing, Uncle Zhou transferred them to her in order to show his sincerity.

He also asked Fifi to marry her immediately.

Fifi looked at the 180,000 yuan that had indeed arrived at her account, and the matter of adding the name of the property was also being processed, and she did what she said.

Then he and Uncle Zhou went to register for marriage and became a legal couple.

However, they are only legally recognized couples.

Because they registered, they have not lived together.

Fifi did not return to the rental house for various reasons and continued to live there.

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She will say that the rental house is not due, and it is a loss to return the deposit when the rent is withdrawn.

I will let Uncle Zhou buy new furniture and move in when everything is ready.

She didn't want to see traces of him living with his wife at Uncle Zhou's house.

In this way, dragging and dragging, people have not yet lived together, but the two people divorced.

The reasons for divorce are different.

In Fifi's opinion, Uncle Zhou is a liar.

Since the two of them registered, the matter of the real estate deed and the name seems to be gone.

Every time Fifi urged, Uncle Zhou always said that he was handling it, but there was always no result.

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For this matter, Fifi did not argue with him, saying that he was a big liar and cheated on her feelings.

But from Uncle Zhou's point of view, he felt that Fifi was a love liar.

He has taken out 180,000, but he has not felt the taste of love for a moment, the warmth of the family.

The man who had said he would help him have a baby never even pulled his hand.

Her reasons are always bizarre.

"My new nails, don't break them."

"My nail polish will have fingerprints when you touch it, don't touch it."

Uncle Zhou didn't understand these things at all, and could only give up again and again.

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Imaginary happy marriages are not seen, replaced by endless quarrels and torture.

Uncle Zhou couldn't bear it, and after losing confidence in this marriage, he filed for divorce.

Let Fifi return 180,000 to him.

The money was taken out, and I wanted to come back again, which was naturally a fool's dream.

Fifi refused to refund 180,000.

"This is the dowry money you gave me, where is the reason for returning it?" It's all you give voluntarily! Besides, the person who filed for divorce is you, and I haven't asked you for mental damages! ”

In the face of Fei Fei's words, Uncle Zhou felt that she was making unreasonable trouble.

He took the matter to the matchmaker who introduced the two to each other.

I hope she will judge.

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However, Fifi went first to accuse him of being strong.

"At that time, you promised me to add my name to the house, and only after I married you did you know that you wanted my documents, but you never really went through the formalities for adding my name, and you were cheating on your marriage."

"I am 19 years younger than you, have an independent career, and I am willing to have children for you at an advanced age... Why I married you, is not to figure you mature and stable, figure you this person! As a result, you deceived me so badly! ”

"Then we're married, and you don't move to my house, how do you explain that?" Uncle Zhou questioned her.

He was also a fire in his belly and had nowhere to go.

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"I said I'll move in when you've finished changing the furniture in your house." Do you want me to go and live in a bed with the smell of your dead wife at once? Sitting on the couch you've sat on together? ”

"We are newly married, I don't ask you to buy a new house, can't you change the furniture?" Ask yourself, there are a few women who don't care about this..."

In the face of Fei Fei's incessant accusations, Uncle Zhou was unable to argue.

Suddenly, Fifi became a victim, but he became the heinous sinner who cheated on marriage.

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Uncle Zhou is honest in nature, and he can't fight Fei Fei, who can speak the Tao.

After thinking about it again and again, he wanted to give up to get back that 180,000, decided to divorce, and stopped the loss in time.

"Just treat it as if I owed you in my last life!" Man is doing it, the heavens are watching, there are gods who raise their heads three feet, and the wicked will have evil retribution. ”

This was the cruelest thing Uncle Zhou could say to Fifi.

He gave up the recovery, but his family didn't think so.

He had opened a factory, and the hard-earned hard-earned money, why was he so easily cheated out of 180,000, they were not worth it for Uncle Zhou.

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Under the persuasion of his family, Uncle Zhou moved again to the idea of recovering 180,000.

So, he plucked up enough courage to go to Fifi's nail salon and ask for 180,000.

However, Fifi said: "I originally planned to return the money to you, but you ran to my place where I did business to make trouble, and my reputation stinked, and many members shouted to return the card, who will compensate for my losses?" ”

"And you only said last time that you don't want me to retreat, and many people have heard that they can testify, and now you are asking for it again." Back and forth, when I'm an out-of-town woman, unschooled and good bullying for no reason isn't it? ”

Fifi is resolute and insists on refusing to pay back.

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Uncle Zhou's eldest sister came up with an idea, and one of them took a step back.

Let her return 150,000 to Uncle Zhou, and the remaining 30,000 will be a loss fee for Fifi.

So much money goes into your pocket, and it really takes a lot of courage to take it out.

Fifi, who has always been short of money to spend, is of course extremely reluctant.

This 180,000, she did not know to do the Year of the Monkey Horse Month to earn, or maybe not in a lifetime.

It was originally a small and noisy neighborhood business.

The two quarreled incessantly, and neither of them would budge, and finally they made trouble with the Public Security Bureau.

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Finally, after mediation, Fei Fei returned 180,000 yuan to Uncle Zhou, and the divorce certificate was also processed.

The dust has finally settled.

Fei Fei was remorseful, if he listened to the advice of Uncle Zhou's elder sister, it would be better to keep 30,000!

Now, the reputation is stinking, and the already bad nail salon business has plummeted, and it has been so long troubled by this matter...

Stealing chickens does not make it into erosion of rice, and she regrets not being able to do so.

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They met for 12 days and got married, divorced on 15 days, and quarreled for more than 30 days.

Such a marriage makes people sigh endlessly.

Flash marriage is really not something that can be easily tried.

Especially middle-aged and elderly people with limited energy.

Flash marriage, short contact time, lack of understanding of each other, even if it is consensual at the beginning, it will be worn away by life and the passion will return to calm.

When they calm down, they will find that the two do not understand a series of problems such as their family background, temperament, and living habits.

Couples who are flash-married do not have a solid emotional foundation and have not experienced the run-in period to directly enter the marriage.

Such a marriage can hardly withstand the test of various practical problems.

Life, not so much poetry, mostly chicken flying dog jump.

In the short marriage between Uncle Zhou and Fei Fei, we have no way of arguing and making a conclusion about which is right and wrong.

After all, they all have their own positions and ideas.

Do you feel: Who is primarily responsible for this failed marriage?