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In daily life, it is impossible for every couple's family situation to be the same, it is inevitable that there will be a higher party and a weaker party, and since they can get married, it means that both parties do not care what the other's family is like.
However, after getting married, there are many people with better families who begin to dislike their other half, feeling that they have a particularly great sense of superiority in front of the other half, and the other party can be paired with themselves, which is the honor of the other party, the other party should feel excited, and should also tolerate themselves more in ordinary life, do not let themselves do some dirty work, and in marriage, they only need to enjoy it.
Such an idea is very wrong, because the husband and wife are equal, and the housework should be shared with each other, rather than blindly pressing on one of them, but just standing by.
Wang Lili is a person with a sense of superiority, always feel that her husband is not worthy of himself, so he does not have a word of praise for his husband, but is degraded and disgusted, and Wang Lili's husband Wang Xiaodong has repeatedly tolerated Wang Lili for the future of his children, until after his son's college entrance examination, he and Wang Lili proposed a divorce, Wang Lili knew that he was flustered, and he also felt that the sky was falling.
01. Hate your husband
Wang Lili and her husband knew and loved each other when they were young, but when they were old, the two people no longer had the same throbbing as when they were young, especially for Wang Lili, Wang Lili felt that she was different from her little sisters, the little sisters only needed to go shopping every day, and she also needed to take care of her children and husband at home, such a comparison made her feel very unfair, and she slowly disliked her husband, which was definitely the reason why her husband caused his own sadness.
And Wang Lili also feels that her family is better than her husband,If not her husband, then she can find a better person and live a better life.
So on this day, Wang Lili and her husband had an argument, and Wang Lili felt that she had an infinite sense of superiority in front of her husband.
"I married you to enjoy happiness, not to live a hard life with you, but look at the years I have married you, have you ever let me live a good life?" No, I don't know what I married you for. How can you be such a, you have no ability at all. ”
"But I haven't let you do some work for so many years, I did everything in the family, and I think I'm very good to you, I don't understand what you've been doing for lately?" We've been in this relationship for so many years, and you've actually said that about me. ”
"What's the point of just not letting me do the work?" I didn't enjoy Mrs. Kuo's life, what I wanted was a better life, I felt that you were a, you couldn't give me a good life at all, if it wasn't for you, then I would be happy for the rest of my life. ”
"But don't forget, I've been making money outside all these years, you don't do anything every day, I don't know where your sense of superiority comes from, I even think I'm dragging you down." 」
"Shouldn't it? I was born to be the proud daughter of heaven, if you hadn't hindered my progress, would I have become what I am now? Do you mean to say that you earn money outside and that men shouldn't make money? What do you do with me that much? Since you think I have a special sense of superiority, are you divorcing me? Don't you dare, shut up if you don't dare. ”
"You're really so unreasonable, the children are so old, you even quarrel with me, and you don't care about our marriage at all." 」
"Enough said?" Enough said, hurry up and cook for me, I'm hungry. ”
Wang Xiaodong sighed and turned to cook for Wang Lili.
02. Quarrel with your husband again
Wang Lili was in a very bad mood these two days, so without Wang Xiaodong's consent, she went to the mall to buy a lot of things, and each one was not cheap, Wang Xiaodong was late when he learned the news, and he felt very helpless in his heart, and he was very angry. So I had an argument with Wang Lili.
"Why didn't you get my consent?" I bought so many expensive things without authorization, don't you know what family situation we have at home? It's almost the end of the year, can you think about it a little bit for your family? Don't be so selfish. ”
"You actually said that I was selfish, I just bought a few clothes, why are you so stingy?" Isn't it true that men earn money that women should spend? ”
"Although it is inevitable that you can buy clothes, but you should also consider it, soon at the end of the year, we should buy New Year goods, you spend not a penny left, how do we celebrate the New Year?" Aren't you selfish in doing so? ”
"I really don't know what you man thinks, won't you just spend a few cents?" You look at other people's men, how can you have a wife, I really regret marrying you, but as long as I find someone else, I will not spend a few cents now to be said by the other party. ”
Although Wang Xiaodong wants to say something again, but considering that the matter has reached this point, it is useless to say anything more, and looking at Wang Lili's appearance, it is obvious that he does not want to live with himself, even if he wants to live with himself, and Wang Lili has such an inflated sense of superiority, he also has no way to endure it anymore, but considering that the child is about to take the college entrance examination, Wang Xiaodong thinks that he still has to endure for a few more days, and when the child finishes the exam, he will divorce the other party.
03. The husband and himself filed for divorce and felt broken
In this way, Wang Xiaodong persisted for half a year, and also endured Wang Lili for half a year.
Until Wang Lili and Wang Xiaodong's son finished the college entrance examination, Wang Xiaodong booked a restaurant, and after eating, he and Wang Lili filed a divorce very lightly, which also shocked Wang Lili.
"Why are you divorcing me?" I haven't done anything wrong, and in ordinary life I am patient with you, why do you want to abandon me now? ”
"Don't you feel weak when you say these things?" You blame me every day, don't say that I am good, even if I am tired and tired outside, you don't care at all, every day I am tired from work, I have to wait for you when I come home, and I have to see your mood, but you don't think about my good at all, so I don't think we have to continue anymore, so let's stop here! ”
"You negative man, the old lady has been following you for so long, you said you don't want me, why are you so cruel?" Are there people out there? You're a bastard, I don't agree with divorce, you don't want to think about it. ”
However, no matter what Wang Lili said again, Wang Xiaodong did not change his determination in the slightest, but only gave Wang Lili a sentence of "good for yourself" and left.
At this time, Wang Lili, who has always had a sense of superiority, was flustered, because she had never done anything, and now after she was divorced, what should she do with her life? She had no way to support herself, so Wang Lili felt that the sky had collapsed, but no matter how Wang Lili saved Wang Xiaodong, Wang Xiaodong was still unmoved and insisted on divorce.
In the end, Wang Lili and Wang Xiaodong still divorced, and after the divorce, Wang Lili remembered Wang Xiaodong's kindness to herself, and regretted everything she had done, but it was too late.
Husband and wife should have one heart, should not dislike either party, or feel that they have an infinite sense of superiority, which will only accelerate the breakdown of the marriage, without the slightest effect, and will also allow themselves to be hated or complained by the other party for a lifetime.
And everyone likes to listen to good words and praise their words, especially boys, so sometimes the words of praise are more effective than the words of complaint, more able to let the other party understand what we think, but also let the feelings remain stable, so there is such a good way, why not use it? Do you have to make two people blush?
Therefore, in daily life, girls should learn to understand their other half, but also appropriately use praise language to praise each other, learn how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, rather than blindly selfish, only know how to think for themselves.
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