With the popularity of "Heart Residence", the audience gradually lost the filter for Gu Qingyu, complaining that she was double standard and in love with her brain. On the one hand, he intervened in the family affairs of his younger brother Gu Lei and was always on the lookout for his sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin. On the other hand, Gu Qingyu blindly fell in love on the issue of feelings, chased after shi yuan for his first love, and determined that Shi Yuan must be with him.
Her deep affection is a tricky burden in Shi Yuan, the Shi family has long declined, the scenery is not as good as before, and Shi Yuan's life has ups and downs over the years, the family still owes huge debts, and the invisible life has produced a huge gap.
Marriage has always been about the right door, and the marriage that is not equal cannot last long after all. Gu Qingyu thought that the door was not important, but he ignored that the door was right to have more common topics.
In the early years, the Shi Yuan family was indeed a large family, but later the family's situation deteriorated and gradually declined. But Shi Mu could not accept the reality from beginning to end, in her cognition, the Shi family has always been on top, always one head higher than the Gu family. Since she was a child, she has carefully cultivated her son Shi Yuan, thinking that her son is different, which is not difficult to understand why excellent people such as Gu Qingyu have never been able to enter her eyes.
In fact, Shi Yuan, whether from the family situation or from a personal point of view, has comprehensively climbed Gu Qingyu. The Gu family later made a fortune and soared, Gu Qingyu engaged in a high-paying white-collar job, decent and profitable. On the other hand, the Shi family has long lost its former scenery, and after Shi Yuan's defeat in the college entrance examination, it is inevitable that he will fall into a mediocre life, and after several twists and turns, he has become a tour guide, which is very different from Gu Qingyu.
However, in Gu Qingyu's eyes, Shi Yuan is like a child, and she has always been difficult to let go of her first love complex. This is her obsession, and it is also the reason why her marriage is getting narrower and narrower.
She is obsessed with the filter of first love and indulges in the surprise of a long-lost reunion. However, over the years, the two life trajectories are completely different, each other has not yet fully understood, Gu Qingyu can't wait to visit Shi Yuan's parents, falling in the eyes of others is tantamount to upside down.
Originally, Shi Mu was proud and arrogant, still addicted to the prosperity of the past, unwilling to bow to reality. In her eyes, Gu Qingyu was not worthy of her son Shi Yuan. Even if the marriage of the two people has been decided, and the two families sit together to eat, Shi Mu still does not give face, yin and yang strangely mock the family, and also write disdain on her face. It is also a direct reference to the gap between the two families decades ago, and the words are all dissatisfaction with Gu Qingyu, which also makes the family unable to step down.
This posture is not like a family, but like a feast at the Hongmen Gate. Across the screen, you can feel the vitriol of Mrs. Shi, and the audience can't avoid pinching a handful of sweat for Gu Qingyu. After marriage, the days will most likely not be calm, and chicken flying and dog jumping is most likely the norm.
Everything can not come with the nature, the decision made based on impulse will eventually become the fuse, and not long after marriage, Gu Qingyu tasted bitterness. Shi Mu was plagued by illness and urgently needed medical expenses, but shi Yuan's meager salary could not make up money.
Considering her husband's self-esteem, Gu Qingyu anonymously bought Shi Yuan's piano and sold it to Zhan Xiang. This move was completely out of good intentions, who knew that Shi Yuan, instead of appreciating it, complained that Gu Qingyu was good at making claims. He believes that this will be looked down upon by outsiders, and he does not want Gu Qingyu to meddle in his own affairs.
It is imperative to raise medical bills for your mother, not to blame your kind wife for helping. The reason why Shi Yuan was not satisfied, in the final analysis, was nothing more than poor self-esteem.
Gu Qingyu did not care about the previous suspicions to treat Shi Yuan's mother, in exchange for Shi Yuan's sentence "You are married to survive the robbery", the inferiority type personality is too tired to get along.
Later, the arrears came to the door, and Shi Yuan suggested that the money for the mother's kidney replacement be returned to Gu Qingyu. Unexpectedly, Shi Yuan's father not only did not say a word of thanks, but instead thought that this was what Gu Qingyu should pay. Even if you divorce, you must also worry about Gu Qingyu's marital property, want to empty the gloves and white wolves, and directly divide half of the family's money.
Shi Yuan's parents are indeed strange, but he himself is undecided, and he does not take the initiative to solve things when he encounters things, and he is still a typical mother treasure man. From a young age, he was arranged clearly, even marriage was half pushed and half done, once Gu Qingyu and his parents had a conflict, they were unable to adjust from it, and such a person could not make decisions for his own life.
From the marriage between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, it is not difficult to see that the door-to-door pair is the premise of happiness. The two sides whose economy is similar to the three views are more likely to resonate, and it is easier to face problems positively.
The most taboo love brain in the relationship, Gu Qingyu for the so-called first love complex at all costs to chase backwards, role dislocation is also a minefield in the relationship between men and women. She thought of the young white moonlight and ignored the exhibition that silently guarded her. Wait until Zhan Xiang is discouraged, and only then can he regret it.
If Gu Qingyu can spend more time getting to know each other and give each other more time to consider after reuniting with Shi Yuan, or they can discover each other's generation gap over time. That way, even if you can't be a couple, you can at least keep the good memories of your childhood, rather than consuming your body and mind in a trivial marriage.