Every child is the heart of the parents, do not want the child to be bullied, and hope that their children will grow up healthy and happy. But in fact, more than 50% of children have been bullied in school. Therefore, some parents do not want their children to be bullied, and may teach their children to fight back bravely in the face of bullying, or let their children become bullies of others. The former is fine, but the latter's approach is not agreeable.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun has encountered such parents and children, Bao Ma Xiao yun's son kindergarten, often in the class group to hear some people say that their children were bullied, at first did not pay attention, just think that it is a small fight between children.
But then his son also encountered such a problem, was bullied by a classmate in the class, Bao Mom Xiaoyun reflected to the teacher, but did not get effective treatment. Because this child is the child I heard in the class group before, often bullying other people's children. The teacher is also very troubled by this, and has negotiated with the other parent more than once, but the other parent does not take it seriously at all, thinking that the child is still young, just naughty, and every time he is perfunctory about it. Therefore, baby Xiaoyun is directly in the class group Aite to the other parent.
Bao Mom Xiaoyun hopes that the other mother will apologize to her son. Let the other child stop bullying his own child. But the other party's mother said that her child was too naughty, and she could not guarantee that her child would not bully others again. Bao Ma Xiaoyun was directly angry, directly in the group to scare the other mother, if you do not care to teach the child, and then there is a next time, then I will help you discipline, the consequences are at your own risk, as long as you can bear the consequences, I don't care.
Parents in the class group whose children have been bullied by each other's children have also echoed them, saying that Bao Ma Xiaoyun has done a good job. There are also bao mothers who say that if their own children are bullied by each other's children, then they will also discipline the other parents well. There are also some mothers who do not want to cause trouble, directly in the group Aite teacher said that they do not want their children to share the table with this child, and hope to keep their children's seats away from this child.
Listened to Bao Ma Xiaoyun's strong words, as well as the echoes of other parents in the group. The other party's mother saw that she had met a bad parent, so she directly admitted it.
Because this mother is actually a person who is very introverted. Before encountering other people's mothers who were good at talking, they stirred up a lot of trouble, and they turned big things into small things, and small things became nothing, and finally they didn't work. Now that he has met a strong baoma Xiaoyun, he has been embarrassed, directly confessed, afraid that his child will really be retaliated against by the other party, he directly apologized to Baoma Xiaoyun privately, hoping to reconcile.
After that, not only did the other child stop, the mother rarely spoke in the group, and the class group rarely heard about the child bullying other classmates.
Although parents do not want their children to be bullied by others, this is difficult to avoid, and it is possible to happen to their children.
If parents always swallow their anger and let their children endure, then the children are likely to continue to be bullied by others, and the children become inferior and timid, and their grades decline, so that they do not want to study anymore.
If parents choose to solve problems violently and fight back for their children, they may temporarily help their children solve the problem, but they may also make their children become violent and like to use violent means to solve problems.
What can parents do to avoid their children being bullied by others?
How can parents avoid their children being bullied and bullied at school? This is a lesson that every parent should take.
Strengthen physical exercise and enhance children's physical fitness
Generally speaking, children who are easily bullied in school are often those who are thin, introverted, and look weak and can't help but be windy. And those who like sports, outgoing personality, good physical fitness, often not easy to be bullied.
Therefore, in order to avoid children being bullied, parents are best to let children strengthen physical exercise, which not only helps to promote physical health development, but also makes children look stronger and look bad at bullying, so that children can be well avoided from being bullied.
Or let the child practice running, the child is not good, you can also take 36 counts as the best strategy, and you can't win the run, so that you can also avoid the child's injury.
Exercise your child's social skills and let your child make more friends
Children who are easily bullied and bullied in school are often more isolated and introverted children. And those children who have a cheerful personality and have many friends around them at any time are often not easy to become the target of bullying.
Therefore, in order to avoid children being bullied at school, parents can exercise their children's social skills from a young age and let their children make more friends. Even if someone wants to bully their own child, they need to worry about the friends around the child. Know that a person is a good bully, and a group of people is not so easy to be bullied.
Instill anti-bullying awareness in children from an early age
Children are still young, often do not know what is being bullied, or how to deal with after being bullied, these things are parents need to teach their children in advance, so that their children can become bad.
If we want to avoid children being bullied, we need to cultivate children's anti-bullying awareness from an early age, let children realize what bullying is, and let children know what to do when they encounter bullying. In this way, children can better cope with bullying situations.
If you have children aged 3 to 8 years old, you don't know how to educate your children in order to make your children have anti-bullying awareness. Then, you may wish to accompany your children to see more "Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book".
The "Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book" contains 8 kinds of bullying problems commonly seen in schools. Such as shoving, snatching, laughing, taking nicknames, etc. are all bullies. Some are explicit bullying, easy to identify, but some are implicit bullying, it is not easy to identify, through this book, we can better let children more fully understand what is bullying.
In the set of picture books "Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book", we also shared the correct way to deal with bullying, how to face bullying, let the other party stop bullying, stop hurting themselves.
The Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book has a total of 8 picture books, each of which is very practical, contains an aspect of bullying, and is also accompanied by audio. Even if parents are tired of telling stories, they can listen to the audio with their children, and parents and children are relaxed.
Preventing children from being bullied is a very important thing. Because being bullied and bullied at school can easily happen to us and happen to children, we can only prevent children from being bullied as much as possible, avoid children being hurt, and thus better promote the healthy growth of children.