There will always be contradictions between people, children are the same, adults still have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, through some means to stop being bullied, but children are different. Once it is easy to be bullied, you will be bullied everywhere you go, think about the baby that hurts in the palm of your hand, how much it hurts your parents to be bullied.
As the name suggests, Jing Ren is a very quiet 5-year-old girl. The mother boasts every time, the daughter is sensible and obedient, and she does not worry about raising. It's just that this seemingly advantageous place has become a shame that is quiet and difficult to talk about.
The quiet tablemate was a boy, the famous little naughty bag in the class. The little naughty bag looked quiet and very introverted, and deliberately provoked Jing Jing several times.
The boy always makes excuses at random, laughs at JingJing for being "dumb", and does not answer questions. After a while, he was "blind" and couldn't see him, a big living person, who was talking to him. In the face of the little boy's unreasonable teasing, Jing Jing tolerated compromise every time. The number of times increased, and the little boy began to become more intense.
The naughty bag boy once felt very bored when he was in class, so he made a small move below, deliberately taking a colored pen to scribble on Jingjing's body. Unexpectedly, I cried quietly and did not tell the teacher. In this way, the little boy became more bold, and gradually moved his hands and feet to Jingjing. Sometimes pushing and shoving quietly, sometimes speaking sarcastically and quietly, more often than not, other boys in the joint class, saying quiet bad things together, so that other students are excluded from quiet.
Such days have lasted for a long time, and I can't eat quietly. Jingjing felt very depressed, less and less like to talk, and sometimes secretly wiped away tears. Mom found JingJing's abnormality, and after carefully inquiring about Jingjing, she learned the truth, which made Mom angry.
The mother decided to fight back with a trick so that the person who bullied her daughter would never dare to bully anymore
With Jingjing, the mother took the initiative to find the kindergarten director and explained the situation.
At a class activity, the mother also asked the teacher to preside over justice, so that the boy with the naughty bun took the initiative to apologize to Jingjing and admit his mistake. Otherwise, the mother will force the school to expel such a child with bad character.
Fortunately, everything went smoothly, and the teacher also changed the new table for Jingjing. Since then, Quiet in school, finally no one dares to bully her at will, quiet and happy.
You may not know that your child is experiencing "being bullied" and that no one is in charge
There is an unspoken rule in kindergarten that a teacher takes care of a group of children. If the child has something to do and does not take the initiative to tell the teacher, and the teacher is not present at the scene of the incident, then naturally it is impossible to make decisions for the child. Moreover, most teachers adhere to the principle of "big things become small things, small things are small", and do not publicize the ugly things in the class, so they suppress things.
Of course, some responsible kindergarten teachers do carefully observe each child and actively identify problems based on the child's recent performance. After the teacher learns that some children are being bullied, they will also take the initiative to take some measures for the children to change the status quo of children being bullied at school. But after all, such a good teacher does not have three heads and six arms, and it is impossible to actively stare at the bullied child every moment.
In addition, what happens to children in school, especially some bad experiences, memories of being bullied, children are embarrassed to tell their parents. Most of the children are seriously affected by the mood, do not want to go to kindergarten again, by the parents to take the initiative to ask the fact that the child was bullied.
Imagine that the child is bullied in front of outsiders, but no one makes the decision for the baby, what a helpless scene! Therefore, it is really necessary for parents to actively carry out "anti-bullying" education for their children. This matter is very beneficial to the physical and mental health of the child, parents should carry out as soon as possible, do not wait for the child who is bullied to take his turn to be a baby, and the parents regret that the family education is not in place.
If the child is bullied, this trick can make the child a "bad trouble" person
This trick is very easy to learn, and any parent can try to learn it. It is like a quiet mother, choosing to stand by the child's side unconditionally, uphold justice for the child, and do justice.
Parents can take the initiative to find a school teacher
Explain the situation, investigate the facts, and ask the teacher and school leaders to give an explanation. In this way, the child is treated fairly and justly, and the soul can be comforted.
For those children who love to bully, the deterrent effect of this solution is also obvious.
Raise your child to be a bad person
For example, let your child expand their social circle, actively make friends, and don't always play alone. The more small partners around, the more people who maintain children, and the bully children do not dare to do it easily.
Parents should actively educate their children against bullying
Raising your child's awareness of self-preservation is the most important thing. Only when the child can clearly realize that others have the intention to bully him, and there is bullying behavior, the child can actively resist, get rid of the bully's bully as soon as possible, and safeguard his own interests.