Bullying in disguise has a profound impact on a child

Bullying is no stranger to me, but listening to the voices of bullied children up close is the first time for me.

The protagonist of the story is called Lele. He is a college student, but relatives and friends are still very surprised that he can go to college. Because in everyone's mind, Lele is really not a studious child, and his temper is very strange, and he is even worried by the teacher that he is autistic, and his parents are also anxious. This child is a problem child at the beginning of the second year of junior high school. No one knows why this child, who once had excellent grades and a cheerful personality and can learn to draw, suddenly became a grumpy and withdrawn child. Parents have always believed that puberty has arrived, and the child has rebelled. However, this chat with Lele, I realized that things are far from simple.

When Le Le was in the second year of junior high school, one day the mischievous Le Le used his hand to make a small pistol in the toilet, and made a shot at a boy with low intelligence in their class, and the boy ran out of the toilet and crashed head-on into the arms of the class teacher, and the class teacher asked what was going on, and the boy cried and said that Le Le beat him. The class teacher called LeLe to the office, and the grade director criticized Lele together, originally thought that this matter would end here, but far from over, the grade director not only called the parents, but also told all the teachers about this matter, some teachers even directly said that Lele should be arrested to the juvenile detention center, which will be a social scum in the future. Lele's class teacher let all the children in the class say all the bad things about Lele, so those children began to make up out of nothing, lying and saying all kinds of strange things, all of them began to isolate Lele, Lele asked the teacher questions, the teacher did not give explanations, group discussions, no one accepted Lele as a team member, even Lele's foot was injured, he could not climb the stairs to go to computer class, the teacher all gave Lele a skip, only the math teacher was not accustomed to the practices of other teachers and classmates, and he insisted on righteousness. However, how can a teacher resist such a bloody rain, Le Le feels particularly sorry for the math teacher, he has never dared to look at the math teacher, does not dare to answer the math teacher's questions, once excellent mathematics plummeted, once optimistic children thought of jumping off the building countless times, once simple children became extremely sensitive. During that time, Lele was in the dark every day, and the school became a place of fear for Lele.

Fortunately, LeLe has his own goals, he was admitted to the district key high school, but the gray and dark experiences he has experienced, those ruthless human feelings, the experience of those nonsense and lies that Le Le still dare not make friends, his personality has completely changed, he told me that since then he hates hypocritical people, as long as he knows who is hypocritical and who has lied he can't tolerate, he can't tolerate any stains. He prefers to be alone rather than socialize with people, he no longer believes that teachers have love for their students, and he resists any teacher's teaching. Fortunately, he has an infinite tolerance for his class teacher who understands him, and in the three years of high school, the class teacher has accompanied him through countless gray days.

Lele and I said that he didn't understand why those who really bullied people were not punished, they obviously bullied the mentally inferior child too much, but they were able to get away with it because they were not seen by the class teacher. Look

Le Le cried while talking, that kind of pain made me very distressed, he asked me, why does a 12-year-old child experience this, why the teacher should treat it like that, why do classmates fall into the well out of nothing? I can't answer, I can only say that it is an experience of growing up in life. Le Le said that since then, his personality has completely changed, he has become sensitive and does not believe in people, he said that if it were not for the trust and love given to him by his class teacher in high school, he might have ended his life, and the possible end would be to jump off a building and commit suicide.

I was silent, how many teenage children have experienced this, how many children have been overwhelmed by such cold violence and choose to end their lives. When a child makes a mistake, if the teacher teaches the child and gives the child a positive education, rather than letting the whole class rise up and attack it, what will Lele look like? 12-year-old age, like a flower, just about to bud to be released, but it is destroyed by the merciless wind and rain, a little careless, it will be ruined, the teacher's approach, can let the child rise into the clouds, but also let the child fall into hell. Le Lehao did not jump off the building, he was admitted to a fairly good university, and gradually became cheerful, but when he and I recalled the gray, the pain could not be concealed.

Wei Wei once sang a song "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world"! I hope that there is love everywhere in the world, and care for the children who have made mistakes, rather than letting them experience the cold wind and rain, otherwise, this flower that is about to bloom will wither!