Bullying in schools is repeatedly prohibited, and whenever this matter is mentioned, the atmosphere will become solemn, worrying about the children who have been bullied. Perhaps many parents feel that in school, children are "bullied" but some small conflicts between children, and there will not be much impact.
However, this matter is not so easy to solve. There are many forms of bullying, including physical bullying, verbal bullying, and social bullying.
Slight language bullying and social bullying will make children become cowardly, and cowardly children are even more pitiful, bullied, excluded, and will encounter various problems on the road to growth.
And more serious physical violence, the harm to the child is greater, even if this matter is solved, the physical pain caused to the child is only temporary, but the psychological trauma will always exist, and even ruin a child.
After children are bullied, the behaviour of parents will have a profound impact on their lives.
Bullying will bring endless harm to children, so I sincerely suggest that everyone should take precautions and not have any fluke psychology, there are children at home, and parents should do these 3 points.
1. Adhere to their own bottom line and principles, and provide the most solid support for their children
Bullying is commonplace, and in general, teachers choose to settle down. However, we cannot spare our subordinates. Because if you are soft-hearted, in a few days your son will be beaten again.
We must remember that if the child is bullied, parents and classmates must know, do not bully my child!
What can be done? If this matter is not too serious, it will not cause irreparable harm to the child, as long as the child can accept it, you can let the parents and children of the other party apologize to their children in school; if they really caused a lot of harm to their children, and the children are unwilling to forgive, we can report to the education department, or directly report to the police, and make this matter a school bully.
School violence can cause not only physical trauma to children, but also to their psyche. At this moment, as parents, we must be by their side and use our actions to show them that no matter what happens, parents are your backing.
2, exercise the child's physical fitness, will not be bullied.
After all, the child must eventually get out of the arms of his parents, and if he wants to avoid being bullied, he must strengthen his physical fitness from an early age. Parents can't focus on their children's academics, nor can they always let them spin around in the classroom, desk, and training class.
At dinner and on weekends, put your phone aside and play soccer, run, and jump rope with your kids so that he can make his body stronger and protect himself in times of danger.
3. Teach children how to distinguish between bullying and how to protect themselves
The meaning of this sentence is to teach children to be vigilant at all times in their daily lives, and to train them to "always be ready to protect themselves." "Prevention is always more effective than dealing with it after the fact, and parents need to teach them how to distinguish between bullying and how to protect themselves."
How many ways is there to bully? When a bullied child is bullied, he will be helpless, he will not say it to his relatives, he will only bury this matter deep in his heart. Over time, people's spirit will have problems, introverted, timid, sensitive, school-weary, and even the possibility of suicide.
Therefore, parents should let their children discern the essence of bullying, teach them how to deal with it, and report to teachers and parents. In addition, parents should pay attention to observing their children's psychological conditions, and once there is an abnormality, they should communicate with them in time to uphold justice for them.