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A relative introduced a blind date and warned me, on your terms, you must seize every opportunity, otherwise you will become a leftover girl!
If I were someone else, I might think this was ugly, but I didn't refute it, and I even felt a little inferior, because I had a physical injury.
My name is Wang Wan and I am 25 years old. Relatives often say that you are only 155 when you wear shoes, and there is a birthmark the size of an egg on your lips, and if you don't hurry up to find a partner now, no one will want it after 30!
After listening to it too much, it is inevitable to be anxious, because I have failed 9 blind dates, and this time I must succeed.
The man's name is Feng Cheng, 31 years old, and he works as a project manager in the automotive industry. The tall man of 180 made me confused, and I was a little apprehensive, for fear of "dying at the sight of the light".
2
The first time we met, Feng Cheng made an appointment at a compromise between the two of us, and I squeezed the subway for 40 minutes and was almost late.
"Excuse me, waited a long time, didn't you?" Seeing that Feng Cheng had finished drinking a cup of coffee, I felt a little sorry.
Feng Cheng said with a smile that he had just arrived, and then thoughtfully helped me pull out the seat, and I straightened my back shyly.
I deliberately didn't cover the birthmark completely with concealer, but I didn't expect Feng Cheng to mind at all, and said that it was cute with my baby face.
The two of us chatted very happily, and when we left, I thought Feng Cheng would send me back, but he said embarrassedly: "I'm really sorry, I will make an appointment for car maintenance later, this time I will send you to the subway station first, and we will make an appointment on the weekend." ”
As soon as I heard that there was a follow-up, I was excited in my heart, but my best friend advised me not to be happy too soon.
According to her analysis, even if Feng Cheng drove to meet near my house, it was just a matter of walking a few more stops. But he chose a compromise position, let me walk and add 3 subways, tossing for an hour, and finally he was unwilling to send me back. Obviously a person who is unwilling to give, let me observe more.
And I just think that Feng Cheng understands me better than any blind date, and I hope to catch him firmly.
After some sweet words and gentle offensives, we quickly fell in love, but soon after a small episode occurred that made me waver.
3
That day, Feng Cheng took me to the zoo that I had been thinking about for a long time, specifically to see the giant pandas.
I saw that the entrance of the panda pavilion was full of people. It turned out that it was too hot today, and the giant panda was reluctant to come out, so he hid in the corner to sleep, and the tourists waited outside for more than 20 minutes without moving.
Feng Cheng struggled to squeeze to the front, and found that he could only see the feet of the giant panda in the distance.
He was so hot that his forehead was sweating, and he complained to me: "This is too bad, I spent money and waited for so long, and I didn't see anything." ”
At this time, a staff member walked by, and Feng Cheng directly stopped him to complain: "Why don't you drive the giant panda out of business?" Now let me look at the air, a ticket is still so expensive, isn't it a lie? I want a refund! ”
I saw that everyone was looking sideways, and quickly grabbed Feng Cheng: "Don't be unreasonable, let's just go and see other animals." ”
"I'm unreasonable? If you hadn't been clamoring to see the pandas, would I have spent this unjust money? "Feng Cheng suddenly transferred the problem to me, I was dumbfounded, this is not something I can decide!
Seeing that I was sulking, Feng Cheng also calmed down and explained to me that I had been unlucky in the past two days, so I couldn't do anything. Yesterday, I was squeezed out of the promotion place by my colleagues, and today I had a small accident, and I couldn't hold back my temper for a while.
He bought two ice creams and put them both out, and I was amused by him and didn't say anything more.
4
After getting along for a long time, I found that Feng Cheng is indeed very calculating. For example, when I go out to eat, if he pays a few more times, he will definitely ask me to come back.
Actually, it's nothing, I'm financially independent, and I don't think the man has to pay for love. But I didn't expect that Feng Cheng would lie and lie to me for the gains and losses in his heart.
My sister who was far away in Beijing was going to get married, so I asked her to be a bridesmaid, and asked me to bring my boyfriend with me, so I happened to know her.
I also hoped that my sister would check for me, so I invited Feng Cheng: "You just follow me, you don't have to be courteous, it's just lively." ”
Feng Cheng frowned and calculated: It's so far, the round-trip ticket is at least 1,000 per person, will you reimburse it?
I felt disappointed, I was going to be reimbursed, but seeing that he was so calculating, I deliberately said: "If you don't want to go, you won't go, there's no need to be so clear, right?" ”
Feng Cheng saw me pull down his face, and quickly said that he was joking, he would definitely go, and he also helped me buy a ticket.
As a result, the day before departure, Feng Cheng told me that he couldn't go to his family because of something temporary, so he sent me my ticket information and the fare.
This is to ask me to transfer his ticket money, I am angry, so I have to go alone.
My sister said that it was a pity that I didn't see Feng Cheng, the more I thought about it, the more I felt that he was too much to go back on, how could a boyfriend do this?
As soon as I came back from Beijing, I went to the company to block him and ask for an explanation.
As a result, I overheard Feng Cheng's chat with his colleagues, and only then did I know that I had been deceived.
5
It turned out that Feng Cheng not only had nothing to do that day, but also went to the bar to drink, but he didn't want to go to the wedding.
Seeing that they were talking and laughing, I roared angrily: "Feng Cheng, you lied to me? ”
Feng Cheng was startled, he didn't expect me to suddenly appear here, and hurriedly explained to me. At that time, the matter at home was solved, and he didn't need to go back, but the high-speed rail time had already been missed, so he simply went to the bar.
"After all, we are just boyfriend and girlfriend, and in my hometown, this kind of relationship will not go to the wedding of relatives. I'm really embarrassed to go, you understand. "He was sincere, but I was skeptical, he was never someone to be embarrassed about.
I forgave and found an opportunity to secretly open Feng Cheng's ticketing software. Sure enough, from beginning to end, he only bought my ticket alone, and he just didn't want to pay for it.
Recalling what his best friend said at the beginning, Feng Cheng really didn't take the initiative to spend money on me for more than half a year. When we go out to consume, it has always been a "gift exchange".
I began to think, is Feng Cheng really a suitable person to get married?
Since then, I have unilaterally fought with Feng Cheng. Seeing that I hadn't shown up for a week, Feng Cheng bought a large bouquet of roses, gave gifts, and booked a restaurant I liked, wanting to beg my forgiveness.
It just so happened that I brushed up on the recently popular three-no wedding, and I was going to use this news to find out his tone, so I agreed to go to dinner.
6
"This kind of good, save money and effort, if you want me to see, the bride price should be canceled." Feng Cheng thought that I also wanted this kind of minimalist wedding, so he said what was in his heart.
I pretended to be annoyed: "That's not good, the bride price still has to be paid, but my mother said that my family will come at the most ordinary level, only 160,000.8." ”
"168 thousand? Why don't you rob your family, this is a sky-high bride price in my hometown, which is enough for me to marry 4 wives! Feng Cheng's jaw dropped in shock, let me be a little less.
Seeing that I still refused to back down, he finally showed his true colors: "If it weren't for your honesty and vanity, how could I have taken a fancy to you?" I spent such a big price to coax you, it is enough to give you face, I advise you to think clearly, with your appearance, I will give a maximum of 20,000 yuan in dowry. “
Feng Cheng stared at my birthmark with disgust, and said the most vicious words in his mouth.
I have never been insulted like this, I am so angry that my whole body is stiff, I have always been weak, I tried my best to put the hot tea on the table, and splashed it in his face: "Then I also advise you, if you are a man, you can wash your little family spirit, otherwise I can only wait for someone to be blind before I marry you!" “
After saying that, I left in style, leaving him alone and stupid.
I reported the good news to my girlfriend and finally got rid of a relationship that had been wrong from the beginning.
Feng Cheng was not a good person from beginning to end, but I became a licking dog because of my inferiority, and I couldn't see men or myself clearly.
No matter what my appearance is, as long as I live in this world by my own ability, who is inferior to me?