Because the old people have outdated ideas, they will always have friction with their young parents.
More and more babies are raised by the elderly in the family, perhaps the parents are busy earning money and engaging in careers, or the parents are idle for themselves, and the final result is the same.
Among them, many parents are very contradictory, on the one hand, they give their children to the hands of their elders, and on the other hand, they are not at ease, always worried that the elders will not take good care of their children.
The old man with the baby is not bad, but the behavior is really worrying
Xiao Ao's parents are elite in the workplace, when Xiao Ao was 6 months old, his mother returned to the workplace, sometimes taking advantage of the noon lunch break to go home to feed Xiao Ao, sometimes in advance with a milk storage bag.
In this case, the heavy responsibility of taking care of Xiao Ao naturally fell on Grandma. Grandma would visit her grandson at her grandmother's house from time to time, but most of the time, grandma worked harder.
One day, the mother did not work overtime to leave work earlier, thinking of taking the child back to her home, letting the mother-in-law take a day off and get a good night's sleep, without telling the mother-in-law in advance, directly to the mother-in-law's house.
When I got home, I was just in time for my mother-in-law to feed Xiao Ao a complementary food - boiled carrots, and my mother wanted to take it and feed her children to eat, but when she got the carrots, she found that the carrots were not boiled, and when she touched them with a spoon, she felt very hard.
But the mother did not say anything, so she put it back, wanting to see what the mother-in-law was going to do. Then the mother-in-law picked up the carrot, chewed it herself and spit it out to feed the child, which made the mother unable to accept it!
"How can you do this, so unhygienic!" Carrots should be cooked, cooked to feed him! "Mom pointed out her mother-in-law's mistake very directly.
The mother-in-law immediately replied: Eating carrots raw is also nutritious, isn't it? Your husband has been raised by me since he was a child, what is the problem, is not he still as good grown? Why are young people so pretentious now?
Alpaca mom has something to say:
How should we, as bystanders, say this? Although the mother-in-law uses the improper method, her heart is good, if she is not attentive to the child, how can she consciously feed the child complementary food?
Besides, where is the grandmother who harms her grandson? Didn't she act like this because of ignorance? When she first became a mother, there were naturally many problems without a teacher, but it was also quite chilling to be disliked by her daughter-in-law.
And there is no problem with the child's mother's approach! After all, if you see a problem and don't stop it immediately, you are not a competent mother. Everyone is for the good of the child, and contradictions should still be understood by each other!
The old man of the "fake pain baby" will often do these things, and the superficial happiness and harmony will harm the child
Stir up the relationship between the child and the mother
Everyone who has personally brought a baby knows how hard it is to want to bring a good baby, and if you don't pay attention, the child will bump, get sick, and be unhappy, if you do anything with your own child, otherwise you will complain.
In this process, even the mother will be tired, not to mention the elders who are more than half a hundred years old, they are tortured by their children every day, and it is normal for them to complain about physical and mental exhaustion.
Therefore, many elderly people can not help complaining, and even some elderly people will specifically say it to their children, so that if the children complain to their mothers, they do not have to say anything more.
But in fact, such behavior will only make the child fall into pain, sandwiched in the middle of the splint gas, both people themselves are very loving, so why can't they get along well?
Take your kids to square dancing and mahjong
After retirement, the elderly have a lot of leisure time, cultivating some hobbies and hobbies without any problems, both to strengthen the body, but also to pass the time, many children are very supportive.
But if the elderly always go out with their children, the situation is not so optimistic. For example, when taking her children out to dance square dance, a grandmother in Tianjin once tied her child to the guardrail next to her to prevent her grandson from running around.
Isn't that a joke? There was nothing wrong with Grandma going out to square dance, and no one said that you couldn't go out and dance when you watched the children. But why insist on taking the kids out?
Also, if the old man takes the child to play mahjong and poker, it is inevitable to smoke, and the harm of second-hand smoke to the child is very large, coupled with the delay of the child's punctual meal on a whim, it is even more sinful!
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Has your old man ever had such a fake baby behavior? What would you do if you found something similar? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!