When people get along with each other, everyone will have some caution in their hearts, especially when your other half or your object has a friend of the opposite sex around, you will be particularly sensitive.
Because when we face a person we like very much, we are afraid of losing each other, so we will be so wary, and we will also be nervous.
Therefore, some people will not let their object have too much contact with another opposite sex, nor can they share.
In fact, what you need to know is that the more generously the opposite sex gets along with men and women who share the following three things, the less they will have transgression.
01.
Intersect with the object of the other party
There are some phenomena around, some people have objects, but there is a friend of the opposite sex around them, then this person will hide this friend of the opposite sex, when he thinks of this friend of the opposite sex, he will play with this friend of the opposite sex, but will not tell his boyfriend or girlfriend about this matter.
There are ghosts in such people's hearts, and they will not share their opposite-sex friends with their lovers, or their girlfriends or boyfriends, indicating that this person is very worried about one thing: he is afraid that his object will blame himself for having such a friend of the opposite sex.
Sometimes if you don't have a ghost in your heart, you will let your object play with your friend of the opposite sex, and then the three of you can be together, have a short afternoon, or have a cup of coffee.
When you introduce this friend of the opposite sex to your object, it means that you are frank in your heart.
On the other hand, people's sixth sense is also particularly sensitive, if you say that after you introduce this friend of the opposite sex to your object, your object discovers some things between the two of you, so that you can't understand. At this time, you must reflect on it, maybe some of the things you have done are indeed very excessive.
Sometimes you may not even know it, and you will turn your back on your object, but your object will see the cattiness between you and your friends of the opposite sex.
Just like sometimes we have a member of the opposite sex around us, we are often with this opposite sex, but our lover is particularly reassuring because the three of us know each other.
And the lover does not feel that there is any problem between you and the opposite sex, then, when your relationship is like this, then such a relationship is a more normal relationship.
02.
Share large gatherings
When some people have a friend of the opposite sex, they dare not bring this friend of the opposite sex to a large party, because this person is afraid that others will misunderstand themselves.
In fact, everyone will have some concerns, but when you are so afraid, it means that you also have ghosts in your heart.
But some people will not be like this, some people have a friend of the opposite sex, when they go to a classmate party or a colleague party, they will also bring this friend, and your classmates and colleagues can also see that the two of you do not have some relationship between men and women, just some things that should be done between ordinary friends.
Unless some people have different views and coax you at this time, so that the two of you are in an embarrassing situation, under normal circumstances, normal people will feel that the two of you are normal.
Some people hide their friends of the opposite sex, usually with this friend you and I, but after a large occasion to erase this friend, afraid that others know the existence of this person, then it shows that you also have some taboos in your heart.
If you take your friends of the opposite sex out, and you are frankly communicating with each other, you also tell others that this is an ordinary friend of the opposite sex of yours, indicating that you are more frank and do things more brightly, and it also shows that you are a person who knows that your body is very positive, so you are not afraid of the shadow crooked.
03.
Share the fruits of your labor
Two people together may do a lot of things, because when we have a good relationship with the opposite sex, we may involve some interests.
In fact, sometimes although we have a good relationship with each other, when we do some things with each other, if the two of you have not yet developed into the kind of relationship between men and women, then at this time, if two people have some results in this thing, they can share these results together, and it is aa system.
So you will find that when two people go to dinner together, although the relationship between the two people is very good, after eating, they still silently transfer money to each other, or transfer money to the other side.
This also shows that the two people still maintain a certain distance, it seems that the two people share some money, and sometimes share some losses, in fact, this also shows that the two people keep that bottom line very clear.
Once two people become a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, then the two people's money may have some entanglements, and sometimes two people will not be so clear about eating.
This is why many couples still play this emotional card with each other after breaking up, because they feel that they spend a lot of money on each other, such as two people eating together, such as two people going on a trip together, etc., so at this time, they also want each other to think of this, think of their own good, and then further to keep each other.
Therefore, if two people do not have any financial entanglements, and two people can share the fruits of this thing after making love, rather than one person swallowing alone or someone letting it out, it means that these two people can never cross the line, because your is yours, mine or mine, and the two people are still relatively clearly divided.
Under normal circumstances, people who divide the relationship of interests very clearly cannot become a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship in the end, because such two people will not think of letting each other take advantage, nor will they think of paying with each other, it is difficult to become a lover relationship between you and me, because love is sometimes an understanding, but also a kind of payment, but also to deal with money.
When the opposite sex is getting along, if you already have a significant other, then at this time, you should keep your distance from this person. Between the opposite sex, some things can be shared, and some things cannot be shared.
However, if the opposite sex shares the above three things, it means that these two people have no ghosts in their hearts, so these two people will not cross the line.
You must know that those who suddenly cross the line have already had ghosts in their hearts, so they will betray their marriage or love and choose to be with the opposite sex who is closer to them.
Therefore, it is not that the opposite sex around us will become a third party in our marriage or love, sometimes it still depends on the situation, and it is also necessary to look at the character of two people.
If you have shared these three things in a fair way, it means that these two people are still relatively reliable people.