Nowadays, children are dressed up very exquisitely, and parents are always willing to give the best to their children, wearing beautiful clothes and brand-name shoes, which cost a lot.
Children dress up beautifully, can enhance children's self-confidence, but also let children have aesthetic ability, they will be very proud to lead their children out. However, the child is too beautiful to dress up, and there are some drawbacks that you can't see.
"Don't dress up your daughter too beautifully", Bao Mom's "blood lesson", parents should take it as a warning
Lingling is a junior high school girl who has an older sister who is several years older than her, and her sister is already working. The family has two daughters, and my mother loves them very much.
Although the family conditions are average, the mother always says that there is no son in the family, there is no need to buy a house, buy a car, and dress the child beautifully. Especially the little daughter, who dresses up like a princess every day.
My sister came home from work and wore a mink coat that she had just bought, which my sister had bought for two months' salary, which was beautiful and expensive. After eating, my sister went back to her room to rest. When she woke up, she found that her mink coat was missing. Could it be that there are thieves in the house? She was ready to call the police.
Still the mother knows the younger daughter better, she hurried to the school to find her, and sure enough, the younger daughter Lingling is wearing her sister's mink coat and is sitting in the classroom. Her mother asked her to take it off and give it to her sister, but she refused, and said that unless her mother bought her one, too. My sister was even more angry and wanted to beat people.
Since childhood, my mother liked to dress up her two daughters, but now she is a little overwhelmed. Although the eldest daughter goes to work, she often can't make ends meet, buy clothes and cosmetics, pay month and moon, and borrow flowers. The younger daughter also did not have the heart to study, and often learned to make up and dress up like her sister.
Looking at the sisters who were about to fight for a piece of clothing, my mother sat weakly on the ground, which was really a failure of her own education, but it seemed that it was too late now.
Every parent wants their child to be pleasing to the eye, but dressing up their child should also be appropriate. Girls should not dress up too beautifully, which will affect the child's personality development, value cultivation, academic performance and many other aspects.
Parents should not dress their children too beautifully, not a problem of more money and less money, mainly because of these reasons that affect children.
Dressed too beautifully, children are prone to develop a proud and complacent personality
Now many children know how to pick clothes from the age of two or three, and like to wear beautiful and expensive clothes. Children dress better than others from a young age, it is easy to form a superior psychological hint, I dress better than you, so better than you. The child has no real talent and practical learning, only pursues a beautiful appearance, and such ideas will affect his growth and progress.
Children dress up too beautifully and are easy to attract the eyes of bad people
The heart of the human heart is separated from the belly, and the heart of defense is indispensable. It's not a good thing for us to take our kids out to play, or for the kids to go out on their own when they grow up, and it's not a good thing to dress up the kids too nicely, especially for some girls.
Girls who dress too beautifully and attract attention in the crowd are easily noticed by bad people, and the chance of danger increases. In particular, girls should not wear clothes too fancy, or it is better to be simple.
Children who like to dress up are easily distracted and cannot study well
If adolescent children pay special attention to their appearance now, parents should consider whether the child has a tendency to fall in love early. Because I want to get the attention of the opposite sex, I always want to dress eye-catching. Children's adolescence is a hurdle on the road to learning, once the child falls into early love, it may make the school halfway abandoned. We always dress up our children too beautifully, and it is easy to attract the eyes of the opposite sex in the class. Children's self-control is relatively poor, and beautiful girls are easy to fall into early love, which affects academic performance.
Children are prone to developing bad values and developing bad habits
Now many young people, in order to buy a pair of shoes to spend thousands of dollars, is this shoe really how good? Or is it that there is a mine at home and a few thousand dollars do not take it seriously? In fact, children form wrong values from an early age, although their income is very small, they spend lavishly, vanity is hidden, the wind of comparison is prevalent, and the style of young people doing things down-to-earth and thrifty and thrifty life is gone.
Children dress too well from an early age, and once they cannot satisfy their vanity, they may also go down a crooked road. Therefore, within their own economic conditions, parents can dress their children up clean and generous, and being beautiful is not the most important thing.
What should a child dress like? Of course not too shabby. It is good for children to dress generously, decently and neatly.
We must teach children to correctly look at the relationship between external beauty and inner beauty, and the occasional stinky beauty of children is still understandable, as long as the correct guidance is no problem. We must not only have a confident appearance, but also a beautiful and firm heart.