In marriage, some women have done a lot of things, but in the end it is a bamboo basket to draw water, and some women have not done anything in marriage, but they have been spoiled by their husbands as a darling.
People should pay attention to skills when talking about love, and when getting along with each other in marriage, they should pay more attention to skills, because when they are in love, it is only the two of you, so at this time, you have used some skills, or relatively small. But after two people get married, it is the communication between two families, so at this time, one is not careful, and may be resented by both parties.
When you are with a man, some can be done for a man, but some are not done for this man, and you must know how to think twice when doing something.
In marriage, women do not do the following three things for men, but men will love women to the bone.
01.
Don't lie for men
I have an elementary school classmate, and something happened to the object of this elementary school classmate:
The object of the elementary school classmates and others got into a fight, and after the fight, the public security organs found the door, so at this time, the object of the elementary school classmates was also arrested.
After the object of the elementary school classmate was taken away, the elementary school classmate was very nervous, so at this time he lied: he lied that his man had a festival with others, so the two people made a big deal.
In fact, the two people did not celebrate the festival, but when they were on the road, the other person bumped into himself, but the other party still denied it, so the two people would fight.
Obviously, this lie is a lie for a woman, but it is bad for the woman's object.
If the two of you have had a festival before, then at this time, you two have made a big move, indicating that you two are seeking revenge, and maybe this punishment will be more serious.
But if it is a collision on the road, then the two people will have a dispute, indicating that the festival of these two people is also relatively small, and it may be called over and then said a few words to release the two people.
So sometimes if women don't understand, don't lie for men, because this lie you tell may make your man pay a heavy price, it will not give you any benefits, and men will sometimes resent you.
In life, some women know a lot of things, so they also know how to lie? Or how to talk?
But some women really don't understand the reasoning, and sometimes it may be because of their own words, so let their men pay a heavy price, which will make this man hate you the most for a lifetime.
This also shows from the other hand that women must know how to learn, and only if you understand more, you can help men.
02.
Don't do the work for men
Women in life must not do a lot of work for men, if men encounter some things in the unit, at this time, men are really busy, so you can ask women to make a form and the like.
But if a man has a lot of things for this woman to do, then it means that this man is a man who knows how to be lazy, and may put all his dependence on women.
Women are already very tired in marriage, because you have to take care of a lot of people at home, and some women may be pregnant, so at this time, the body does not support themselves to do a lot of things.
On the other hand, women in today's society have some jobs, so women also have their own work to do, if at this time you still have to do a lot of work for this man, your life pressure will become more and more intense, then at this time, your physical strength will also get a certain amount of pressure, the impact on your mental state is not very optimistic.
Some women are more intelligent together, although this woman is very good at doing things, but when doing some things for men, she will always say that she does these things, there is some awkwardness, and to tell men that when they do these things, they will feel very tired, so that men can do things on their own, so that the man can do things on his own, so that the man is more and more diligent.
People are in a state of laziness, just like when we were young, we had our parents as our dependents, so at that time, we would do a lot of things, but we didn't want to do it.
When we grow up, we have experienced the tempering of society, and we will find that if you do not do these things yourself, then no one will help you, so at this time, we will become more and more mature, and we will be more and more diligent when we do things.
In love, women must not spoil a man's son, sometimes we need a person who is as stable as a father and who can give us a good life.
Therefore, even if women will do a lot of things, do not help men to do, so that it is easy to develop a lazy psychological state of men, but let you be busy alone. Sometimes when a woman wants to help this man, she must first see if the man can do these things on his own, and if he really can't, he can help.
03.
Do not stand up for men to confront men's parents
Women will find that they and their in-laws will have some contradictions in their lives, but your men will also have some contradictions with your in-laws.
But the difference is that when you have some contradictions with your in-laws, the contradictions between the two of you are difficult to resolve, because in the eyes of your in-laws, you are always an outsider.
But if your husband and your parents have some conflicts, at this time, the two people may quarrel very fiercely, but after that, the relationship between the two people will still be as good as before, which is blood relations.
So if you find that your husband and your parents are arguing, at this time, you may be facing your husband, because in this family, your husband is the person closest to you.
But smart women will never confront their in-laws for their husbands, because if you do this, your in-laws will not feel that it is your son who is wrong, but will put all the mistakes on you, and will feel that it is you, the daughter-in-law, who is picking and choosing behind your back, causing family conflicts.
Sometimes you bump into your in-laws for your husband, and in the end your husband will blame you, think that you do not respect the elders, and will also feel that you have done very much, because people are thicker than water, so sometimes if you are on the points, your husband will feel that it is your fault, and it will also cause conflicts between your husband and wife.
The contradiction between the three people is the contradiction between the family, so you, the outsider, should not mix it up anymore.
Women must guard their marriage in marriage, although men are also your most important person, but in this marriage, what you have to do is to ensure that your status is not shaken, but also to know that some things are done, it is thankless, so there is no need to do it for this man.