"It's love to help, it's duty not to help" is a familiar saying, isn't it? But sometimes it's wrong not to help, and I just become a stingy person because I don't borrow a car from a friend.
Yesterday at about 11 o'clock at noon, a friend sent me several videos, but I didn't take the phone at that time, and at 12 o'clock I saw the missed video, and then I called my friend back, and my friend said that I was asked to come out to drink milk tea, and by the way, I was idle at home, thinking about going out to chat, and then I took the child out.
When I arrived at the bubble tea shop, my friend brought her two children with her, and then the three children played together, and I chatted with my friend while drinking milk tea.
My friend asked me what I was going to do on May Day? I said I had no money, so I had to stay home and watch TV, and then my friend said she wanted to go to the beach.
I said, "Then you go, I won't go, I really don't have the money to go!"
Then my friend smiled and said, "Then you lend us your car, and you don't travel anyway." ”
At that time, I was confused, because my friend's family also had a car, so I asked her: "Doesn't your husband have a car?
My friend said, "Our family has a tram, and we have to charge it and run at high speeds, besides, your car is relatively large." ”
I admit that my friend's car space is indeed relatively large, but the key is that it is not my car, it is my husband's car, and I am reluctant to lend the car to anyone from the bottom of my heart.
Then I said to my friend: "Didn't I tell you last time? ”
Friend: "Then you change a tire, changing a tire is a matter of six or seven hundred, you change a cheaper two or three hundred, and the cheap tire can be used for two or three years." ”
At that time, listening to what my friend said, I was angry in my heart, and I arranged everything for me with her.
I said, "How can I afford to change tires? If I have the money to change tires, I'll follow you to the beach." ”
Friend: "I'm not asking you to travel to the beach with me to spend money, I'm saying that you lend me the car, and I park our car downstairs in your house, and you can use the car if you want." ”
Oh, it turns out that she didn't borrow the car for nothing, she wanted to exchange with our family, she wanted to drive our family's oil car to travel, and put her tram downstairs in our house, but even so, I don't want to lend her the car, not to mention whether the car is in my family's name, I just don't want to lend the car to anyone, in case of an accident, isn't it my husband's responsibility? Although I have a bad relationship with my husband, he is the father of my child, how can I pit my child's father?
While drinking milk tea, I said casually: "Oops, our tires are punctured, I can't run at high speed without changing tires, I don't have money to change tires, then you give me 600 yuan, and I will immediately ask my husband to change tires." ”
My friend squirted out the milk tea in his mouth and shouted, "Your car, let me pay for the tires?
Me: "It's not that your family doesn't have a car, you can save money by tram traveling, and my husband is not willing to lend his car to others, the last time he lent his car to his cousin, the bumper was scratched!"
Friend: "I found out that you are really stingy, so I borrowed a car from you, you have 100 sets of rhetoric waiting for me, if you don't borrow it, you won't borrow it, I asked my husband to take it with his cousin." ”
I persuaded my friend again, telling her that it was not that she didn't want to borrow, that she didn't have the money to change the tire, and that the car was not in my name, and my friend was next to her, but I could see that she was angry.
After that, we didn't talk much anymore, and my friend said that he was going to take the child home to cook, and I took the child home.
Friends, if it were you, would you be willing to lend your car to someone else?