Recently, I met a mother on Zhihu and asked: Kindergarten take a group photo, the whole class on my daughter alone did not show her face, do not dare to ask for the C position, at least to shoot the baby into it, should I tell the teacher?
After seeing this question, Lao Yu was the same as some netizens: the black question mark face ???
How can there be such a problem, how big a thing, all these things have to find a teacher, do you think the kindergarten teacher is so idle? Will the teacher deliberately make things difficult for your child? The undeserved sound overwhelms.
This does make some sense, the big group photo who has not taken a picture, every time I close my eyes and turn around, I wipe my nose And the shutter is pressed. There's really no guarantee that everyone will shoot properly.
But why does the whole class have faces, but my family does not have them? After becoming a mother, I began to understand the question asked by the subject.
In the eyes of the teacher, there are dozens of people, but the parents can only see our baby alone, so a little problem about their own baby can be magnified, as soon as they get a photo, they want to see their own baby, and it turns out that the big photo is everyone is there, and my baby is not there.
The more I think about it, the more I think why my child has not been photographed? Did the teacher have an opinion about my baby? Don't like my baby? This question is not only a question that the subject has thought about, netizens said that they have also thought about this problem and understand the subject's mood very well.
It seems that this is indeed a common problem, and there are many people who stand in favor of voting. Netizens said that communicating with the teacher is really beneficial, not only can solve the matter they have always cared about, but also communicate with the teacher to understand more about the child's school situation, boldly say it is.
Let's not talk about it, let's first recall whether these things are too many in daily life.
During the online class during the epidemic this year, a parent in my baby class posted a long small essay in the WeChat group, which basically means: Why did other children answer the question three or four times in class, and click my child once? My kids especially want to answer questions...
Teacher Wa seems that the next time the children answer the questions, they will have to hang business indicators in their hearts.
We have all experienced that when our children are in kindergarten, looking at the crying babies, only they know in their hearts that they are even more reluctant to have children. We have no way of knowing all the situations of the child in the kindergarten, but we can only observe how the child behaves in school from the details and whether he has suffered any grievances. In the subject, it is clear that the group photo of the kindergarten is one of the ways for the mother to understand the child's situation at school.
It seems that these problems seem to be too calculated, but everyone actually knows that the purpose of these parents asking the teacher is not to ask the teacher to take a picture of my child next time, and how much to take a picture of; the next class must be my child 3 times; more is to know whether their children are not concerned by the teacher? And I want to convey to the teacher the expectation that my own children need to be paid attention to.
Since the subject is so entangled in this question, of course, you can choose to ask the teacher, so how to ask?
This mother does not know the specific situation when the child takes a group photo, we can not rush to blame the teacher, it is better to ask the child about the specific situation first? The child's own personal statement is much more useful than this two photos, listen to the child's attitude towards the kindergarten and the teacher.
Then if the thief likes the kindergarten teacher, then this photo is not a big deal, we are also at ease when we go to school, and teach the child to take a picture posture by the way, this matter will pass; then if the child says that he does not like the teacher or that the location is arranged by the teacher, then this is indeed the need for parents to come forward and communicate with the teacher.
When it comes to the step of communication, children still have to spend a lot of time with teachers in kindergarten. It is not good to question the teacher, but more to express the expectation that your child will be concerned through communication. Kindergarten teachers also do not have three heads and six arms, and it is normal that they cannot take care of each child, especially those who are not very active and relatively quiet and introverted, and speaking out also gives teachers a wake-up call and gives their children more opportunities to be paid attention to. There's nothing wrong with that.
The subject is entangled in this question, must be that he feels that this question is asked as if there is so much fuss, do not ask it, whose child is not the heart and liver baby of the parents, I am afraid that my baby will be wronged in the kindergarten. The thing about children is that no matter how small they are, they must be taken seriously, but after the children go to school, we must understand that children are unique in our eyes, but they are ordinary members in school. We can't ask all the spotlights to hit the baby.