My son had two apartments and I didn't want to live with them, so I moved to another house. My daughter discussed with me whether she could let their family move over, and I agreed. The daughter-in-law knows about this,

My son had two apartments and I didn't want to live with them, so I moved to another house. My daughter discussed with me whether she could let their family move over, and I agreed. The daughter-in-law knew about this and asked her daughter to move out immediately. I said, "Can you be kinder?" The house is empty, why don't you let my daughter live? ”

I am Zhao Da Niang, 68 years old, with a monthly pension of 4,000. I have a son and a daughter, both of whom live in the local area and both have established a family. However, my daughter's life is average, she and her husband are both salaried grassroots, when they got married, they lived in the old house of the elderly, and after 10 years of marriage, they still did not buy their own house.

I often go to my daughter's house, but from nighttime, only more than 80 square meters, on the fifth floor, climbing the stairs is difficult. And the community environment is also poor, the two bedrooms are not large, and the house layout is not good at all.

My son's situation is much better, my son's own job is good, the monthly salary of 15K, and my daughter-in-law is very powerful, is an executive of a large company, the annual salary is six or seven hundred thousand, it is said that there is a lot of room for growth.

Fortunately, my son was born well and had a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, otherwise I would have worried that my daughter-in-law would look down on my son and divorce me.

I'm not a mean mother-in-law, but I've also been a strong woman for a lifetime. Previously, my daughter-in-law and I lived together, and considering her daughter-in-law's income, I was a "man with' tails between my legs.

But even so, I don't want to live with my daughter-in-law, the old and the young, and the habits are really different.

For example, my daughter-in-law always dislikes me for squeezing toothpaste and not squeezing it from the tail, I think as long as I squeeze it out! But the daughter-in-law couldn't do it, so she had to let me squeeze from the tail.

We also quarreled a few times about this.

Then I couldn't do anything about it, so I bought another can of toothpaste, I used my own, and I didn't use a can of toothpaste with them.

Another time, I was cooking in the kitchen and preparing to fry a cabbage.

Cabbage everyone knows it, that dish, after peeling the outer leaves, the inside leaves are clean. I don't wash it every time I make cabbage. After so many years, I haven't had anything wrong with eating. But my daughter-in-law couldn't see it, and she asked me to throw away the stir-fried dish.

I worked hard to make a dish, she let me throw it away, you say angry people don't you?

As far as I know, when many people fry cabbage, the leaves inside are peeled out and fried directly without washing. So there's no need to make a fuss about it.

The two things I listed above are just two small things in life, and there are many things like this. Later, I really didn't want to live with them, so I proposed to my son to give me a house and go out and live on my own.

The son and daughter-in-law discussed it for a while and agreed.

The house they gave me was near the City Sports Park, which was not possible on this side before, but Zhengzhou is now developing rapidly, and this side of Fengcheng Road is also changing with each passing day. It's a great place to be now.

I was able to walk to the park very quickly and not far from the subway entrance.

When my daughter came to visit me, she offered to live with me. I thought about it for a moment and agreed, it was a three-bedroom apartment, or well-decorated, and I did feel very lonely living alone.

I originally wanted to discuss with my daughter-in-law whether to hire a nanny for me. Now it's good, my daughter is coming and saving my daughter-in-law money.

I think that's a good thing.

The daughter moved in the next day, and they were a family of three. After moving over, I sold the house a few days later and bought a nice car.

I am very happy that now my daughter's life has also improved. But I never expected that at the end of the month, my daughter-in-law would come to see me. When I entered the door and saw me and my daughter's family eating hot pot and watching TV, I was dumbfounded.

What does my daughter-in-law mean by me?

I thought it was a good thing, so I didn't hide it, so I told my daughter-in-law the truth. I smiled and said, "I originally wanted you to find me a babysitter, but now it's okay, my daughter's family came to take care of me, no need to find a babysitter." ”

My daughter said, "Sister-in-law, you have no worries now, I will take care of your mother-in-law for you, what a good thing!" ”

The daughter-in-law was a little displeased, and said: "Stay a few days, just move back, this house next year we will also live in!" The daughter-in-law said that this side is closer to the middle school, and her son will come here to study in the future. When the daughter heard the words, she suddenly stopped clinging to it, she said: "Sister-in-law, I sold all the house, you let me move out now, where do I move?" ”

My heart also clucked a little, this trouble. I gave my daughter a guarantee. I said sure there would be no problem. So they sold the house and bought the car. Now moving out, there's really nowhere to go.

The daughter-in-law was always strong, she said: "That's your business, I just want my house!" ”

The daughter sighed and said, "Sister-in-law, how unreasonable are you, I have said it all, my original house has been sold, and we have no place to go now!" The daughter-in-law said, "Your house was sold, and you sold it, and it has nothing to do with me." And you didn't ask me! ”

I coughed softly and said, "Forget it, don't make any noise." I said to my daughter-in-law, "The house was given to me by you, and it was empty, so I made the decision to let my daughter live in, and now this is it." You have such a high salary, you can buy a house in two years, don't embarrass us! ”

The daughter said breathlessly: "I called my brother, and I asked her how she had found such a ruthless and cold-blooded woman as a daughter-in-law!" ”

When the daughter-in-law heard this, she was completely angry and ordered them to move out tomorrow.

Guys, what do you say now? I thought about this matter carefully, and blamed me for not consulting with my daughter-in-law, who did not know how to respect my sister-in-law. What do I say I do now?

@Hassle-Free Kite Views:

Hello friend, I can understand your feelings, but you are really wrong in this matter, your daughter-in-law is not wrong, people give you a house to lend you a pension, but you are the master to let your daughter move in. Originally, it was estimated that it would be okay to move in for a while, but your daughter actually sold her house, what does this mean? Is it to be occupied by the magpie nest dove? The right thing to do now is to move out.