Why do two people become more and more alike after being together for a long time?
Have you ever found that couples or couples look more and more alike after being together for a long time, commonly known as two people have "husband and wife". Although this statement sounds very mysterious, in fact, this is based on science, not out of thin air.
From the professional point of view of the emotional counselor, two people will become more and more like each other for a long time for the following reasons:
1. Environmental factors
We often say that "one side of the water and soil to raise one person", it can be seen that the external environment has a shaping effect on people's appearance, and husband and wife live together, diet, living habits, living environment will be roughly the same, so each other's appearance will be more and more similar.
2. The way people behave in the world
Two people together for a long time, each other will become more and more familiar, more and more tacit understanding, in the handling of people will be more tacit, take a similar approach, and the result of this is often: the temperament and mental outlook of the two people will become more and more similar.
3. Mate selection
In the process of choosing a mate, people will tend to choose people who have common characteristics with themselves and can talk to become partners, because it is easier for two people to go on; coupled with two people together for a long time, the content of life will become more and more overlapping, and the mental process will be very similar.
4. Empathy
There is a concept in psychology called "empathy", which refers to "emotional transference", which simply means that our feelings will be transferred to the other half. For example, when you are unhappy, the other half will be unhappy, which is very common and normal. As a result, two people will inadvertently imitate each other, such as imitating each other's behavior, demeanor, tone, etc., and over time the two people will become more and more alike. #Emotion##Couple##情侣在一起久了会越来越像吗 #
