"I'm just in a relationship, living with my ex for 5 years, and I'm not married, I don't hate your low salary, what qualifications do you have to dislike me?" Love me and don't care about my past. ”

"I'm just in a relationship, living with my ex for 5 years, and I'm not married, I don't hate your low salary, what qualifications do you have to dislike me?" Love me and don't care about my past. "I yelled with excitement." Sorry, in my opinion, cohabitation is no different from marriage, we are not suitable, don't contact again. "After he knew my past, he resolutely turned and left, leaving me alone on the side of the street, scumbag!

I am thirty years old this year, and I have become an older leftover woman in the eyes of most people, and the elders in the family are very anxious, especially my grandparents and parents, and I have begun to ask people to help me introduce men and arrange blind dates.

Although I also hope that someone will accompany me when I am lonely, and someone will warm me in the cold night, I also feel that marriage needs fate and cannot be forced, but the hope of my parents' arrangement of blind date is not rejected.

I grew up with good academic performance, good looks, went to the architecture department of a good university, and then did interior design in a well-known company, relying on my own ability to buy a house and a car in the city, there was no financial pressure.

I am very independent, can handle most of the things in life, such as changing buckets of water, light bulbs and other things I can sit in, I am not a pretentious person, can do things on my own, do not like to trouble others, in life can take care of the other half, in the career can also help the other half.

Emotionally, I am a late bloomer, somewhat dull and hindsighted, which may be related to my family education since childhood.

My parents helped me as a boy, until high school I was still short hair, did not wear a skirt, my life is very simple, school, homework is my basic daily routine.

I had a failed relationship, and it was my first love, and we were college alumni and didn't know what to understand at the time.

In the second semester of my freshman year, I saw that my friends around me had their own objects, and my heart was also full of emotions, I wanted to have a man by my side, and I had a vision and expectation for love.

It was my roommate's birthday, and I was naturally there as a roommate and good sister, and I met him at her birthday party.

At the first sight of this man, I had the feeling of liking, I would not have believed in love at first sight, but after meeting him, I believed in such a wonderful fate.

They were all young people, and I had a crush on him, and after a conversation, we exchanged contact information and started chatting online.

This is my first time in love, there is no experience and no skills to speak of, I feel that like a person does not need to play a routine, do not have to pretend to be reserved.

Every time I chat and send a message, I will reply in time, he asked me what, I also answered honestly, after a few days, he said, with me is very relaxed and comfortable, can you be his girlfriend.

I also expressed my affection for him, and we naturally came together and became a couple.

For the feelings hope is serious, I will ask friends about the boyfriend's hobbies, and then chat about some topics that the boyfriend is interested in, the longer the two of us have been in contact, the better the relationship.

My boyfriend and I talked about work from college, after graduation I didn't want to be separated from my boyfriend, I went to the same city with my boyfriend to work, in a strange city, my boyfriend and I just found a job, naturally to reduce the cost of life, so I lived with my boyfriend, and also began our cohabitation life.

My boyfriend and I get along with some of the models like husband and wife, I will wash and cook for my boyfriend, and my boyfriend will also give me gifts on anniversaries, I like my boyfriend very much, so I ask my boyfriend when to get married, but my boyfriend always let me wait for my boyfriend, hoping to start a business and then start a family.

I didn't expect that this wait was five years, then my boyfriend and I lived together for five years, and finally waited for my boyfriend's leg splitting and breaking up.

We have experienced such a long love run, the boyfriend has long been unable to feel the freshness in this relationship, he is tired of this relationship, the two of us originally had a lot of talk, and gradually became no talk.

Eventually the relationship ended with a breakup and I deleted all my ex-boyfriend's contact details.

First love is always unforgettable, this relationship caused a lot of damage to me, since then I no longer believe in love, before I thought that love is to live together, and then get married at the age of marriage, but reality gave me a slap, two people are not together for a long time can get married.

I was afraid I would be hurt again, and it took me two years to heal so that I could forget about that failed relationship.

After the New Year this year, I also wanted to open, participated in several blind dates, and never met anyone who could be associated.

Last month, my aunt introduced me to a man, a year older than me, working as an auxiliary police officer, very burly, good appearance, although the salary is not high, but looks very honest, there is no bad habits.

Although it is not my favorite one, it is still acceptable, I am willing to associate with him, if it goes well, it will go to marriage and live a good life.

We had a few meals together, watched a few movies, and although the process was bland, we felt that we could go on.

Yesterday, after eating at Wanda Plaza, he asked about my emotional experience, I felt that the two people should be sincere together, and I told him about my ex-boyfriend.

Unexpectedly, he heard that after I had lived together for 5 years before, his face changed, saying that we were not suitable and would not contact each other again.

"I'm just in a relationship, living with my ex for 5 years, and I'm not married, I don't hate you for low salary and poor conditions, what qualifications do you have to dislike me?" Love me and don't care about my past. I was in a bad mood and said excitedly.

"I'm sorry, in my opinion, cohabitation is no different from marriage, after a breakup is a divorce, I can't accept it." 」 His voice was cold, and he turned and left.

Under the scorching sun, I was left alone on the street to bask in the sun, and I cried as I walked.

I am extremely aggrieved, on the condition of which point I am worse than him? I have a house and a car, I don't bite the bride price when I get married, my salary is three times his, and he actually hates me, it hurts too much, scumbag.

I think to really love someone and live with her, don't care about her past, are you right?

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