A rich businessman in the United States, the daughter fell in love with a man who was idle, obsessed, and no one could persuade him. The rich businessman could only play his cards according to common sense, and even spent 500,000 yuan to find a bastard with a tattoo. What is dumbfounding is that this person only said 1 sentence, and immediately made the girl change her mind, which was unbelievable.
Rich American businessmen are real estate tycoons, rich and wealthy. Due to the early death of his wife, only a pearl in the palm of her hand, Alice, was left. The rich merchant held Alice in his hand from an early age, and he was eager to pluck all the stars from the sky and give it to her.
Alice is well-behaved and well-educated, and works for her father's group after graduation. The rich merchant was particularly pleased, until Alice met a man, Pete.
The two fell in love and fought fiercely. Every time she eats, watches a movie, or travels, Alice pays for it, and Pete coaxes Alice around with sweet words. It turns out that this Pete is a love con artist who falls in love not with Alice, but with her family's possessions.
The rich man investigates Pete's background, the soft rice man, cheating everywhere, and a scumbag! He strongly opposes the two of them, and the cute Lis is deeply trapped in the love network, even if she is cheated of 500,000, she is unwilling to break up.
Enraged, the rich man approached Pete and offered $2 million to get him to leave Alice. Pete doesn't want money because he has a bigger goal, to become Alice's husband and inherit the rich man's family business. Alice heard about her father's actions, and she had a big fight with her father, who had been a well-behaved girl since she was a child.
She believed in Pete, the love of her life, and gave her body for it. The rich businessman was so angry that his whole body trembled, and he threw out Pete's past one by one, how to play with women, how to be partial to money, and cute Lis thought it was all in the past, and still looked forward to the future of the two.
Once, someone offered a plan to a rich businessman, and the rich businessman was overjoyed. He sent someone to find a flower arm man Simon, arranged in the company, and told him: "As long as you can let my daughter break up with her boyfriend, I will give you 2 million"!
Simon gladly agreed, and he cleverly used the "scumbag routine" to successfully approach Alice, and the two became good friends with frequent contact at work, while Alice and Pete were still inseparable.
Once, Simon deliberately said: "You and Pete handsome men and women are a match made in heaven, and it is really enviable that he can have a girlfriend like you." ”
Alice was stunned and a little moved, and everyone objected to him being with Pete, saying that Pete was a scumbag and that only Simon understood their feelings.
Simon saw Alice's reaction and smiled evilly: "You are so good, Pete should also have a successful career, which company is the boss?" ”
Aeslith's ears were red and she couldn't answer because Pete was an unemployed vagabond and had no serious job at all.
Simon saw Alice's panic, and instead of belittling Pete, he said seriously, "There's nothing like a job, and your family isn't short of money." The most important thing is that he is single-minded enough and loves you enough. ”
At this moment, Alice had some words, she suddenly calmed down, remembering her father's warning: "Pete is a soft rice man, ambiguous with many women, cheating money and cheating in the past, looking at you are coveting our family's property"!
These words stuck in alice like roots, stinging Alice's numb nerves. She hurriedly said goodbye to Simon and changed the house for three days and three nights, turning a blind eye to Pete. On the fourth day, she and Pete proposed to break up.
The rich merchant was ecstatic and gave Simon 3 million, saying that 1 million was an extra reward! He warned Simon, "You can be friends with my daughter, but you can't get along!" ”
In fact, Simon of this story is familiar with "The Weakness of Human Nature", and there are two choices that deserve everyone's deep consideration:
First, do not accuse others of their mistakes, let alone prove this repeatedly
"The Weakness of Human Nature" mentions: "One of the natures of human beings is not to accept criticism from others, always think that they are always right, and like to find all kinds of excuses to defend themselves." ”
If you accuse the other person of a mistake, it is a challenge to his self-confidence, self-esteem, judgment, and intelligence, and she will not be grateful, but will provoke a rebellious instinct.
Rich businessmen always tell Alice: "Your choice is wrong, your boyfriend is a scumbag". Alice, on the other hand, fiercely resisted, unwilling to admit it. But Simon is different, he first identifies with Alice and Pete's love, gains Alice's trust, and then makes Alice let down her guard and open her heart.
Second, the only way to make someone admit their mistake is to make himself aware
"The Weakness of Human Nature" mentions that it is necessary to learn to grasp the psychology of the other party and use clever methods to make others realize their mistakes in order to more effectively promote their corrections.
Simon doesn't directly pick out Alice's mistakes, but does the opposite, pretending to "praise and identify" with Pete, but every sentence speaks of Pete's fatal flaws, until Alice realizes little by little that Pete is not a man worth entrusting for life.
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