I am 71 years old, when my husband died at the age of 32, I raised four white-eyed wolves alone, and during the Spring Festival, I stood at the entrance of the village on crutches, hoping that they would come back to see me until today

I am 71 years old, when my husband died at the age of 32, I raised four white-eyed wolves alone, and during the Spring Festival, I stood at the entrance of the village on crutches, hoping that they would come back to see me, and to this day, no child has returned.

My son heard that it was La Yue who came back from work, the house he rented was only half an hour away from me, but he didn't come to see me, on the day of the regimental year, their family of three was a regimental year, I was alone and bitter, a cabbage and a bowl of rice were counted as the regimental year.

The four daughters are married relatively closely, the eldest daughter is at home alone, the second daughter is called to her family group year, the second day of the new year is the day when the daughter returns to her mother's house to visit the New Year, I look at the direction of their house, from morning to night, the four daughters did not come to visit the New Year with me, and the phone did not answer.

I was married when I was 19 years old under the arrangement of my parents, when I was on a blind date, I saw that my husband had a trembling disease, I did not agree, my stepfather forced me to agree, my mother and I jumped into the river to die, but still failed to scare my stepfather, determined to marry me to my husband, on the day of marriage, I and my mother hugged my headache and cried, and my mother cried and said sorry for me.

After marriage, the husband because of illness, can not do anything, the in-laws are also older, more than a dozen acres of land are all carried down by a weak woman, and in the following years, the in-laws fell ill and died, several children were born one after another, during pregnancy, I never sat for a day, but while taking care of children and husbands, but also planting so many cotton fields, every day is to coax several children to sleep, I rest is already at midnight.

When I was 32 years old, my husband also died of illness, when my son was only more than one year old, I still had to raise five minor children, the burden of life was all on me, I changed from a weak woman to a strong and competitive woman, after sending my husband away, relatives and friends also introduced me to several men who died of wives, but at that time there were many children, thinking that I had four children, I did not plan to remarry, decided to pull the children up alone.

Thankfully, I have a good mother's family, there are several younger brothers and sisters, they are particularly distressed about my half-sister, as long as the field begins to farm, all the younger brothers and sisters will come to help me, need money is also to do their best to help me, a few years have passed, the children have grown up, I used the money I saved, married my three daughters,

In the years when the son got married, because the harvest in the field was not good, the son owed thousands of dollars when he got married. I feel very ashamed of my daughter-in-law, so I am particularly kind to my daughter-in-law, but no matter how good I am to her, I can't cover her heart, and my son is a wife slave and listens to her daughter-in-law.

In the first few years of their marriage, I took the children with them, and every year I went home to celebrate the New Year, and then after renting a house in the city, it took only half an hour to drive, and they never came home to join me for the New Year, and I felt particularly uncomfortable in my heart, and now I feel that it doesn't matter under the persuasion and comfort of my younger brothers and sisters.

After several daughters got married, life was not very good, never cared about greeting my body, because they were married in a nearby village, often encountered on the street, but they never came back to see me, a few years ago I fainted in the toilet because of menopausal bleeding, was found by neighbors, quickly took my mobile phone to play with my son and daughter-in-law who was playing in the city, they said there was no time. In fact, I know that they are just afraid of hospitalization and spending their money.

The neighbor called my daughter at home again, saying that I was bleeding and fainting, asking her to come and take me to the hospital, the daughter said to take care of her son, there was no time, there was really no way, the neighbor and my brother who were far away in another city called, the brother received the call, drove more than two hours to rush back to take me to the hospital, he paid all the hospitalization fees and medical expenses with me, and left 2,000 yuan when he left.

At that time, I really felt very cold, also in childbirth, why other people's children are so filial piety, and my children are so cold-blooded and ruthless, the eldest daughter at home, four years ago gave birth to a second child, at that time every day to take the child to let me take with her, I took the child more than one year old with me at that time, it was very hard, eating and sleeping badly, and now after she took the child to school at the age of three, she ignored me.

This year the eldest son-in-law because she did not go home for the New Year, she was alone with her four-year-old daughter at home, I called her to prepare for her to come and talk to me for the new year, but made a lot of phone calls, she did not answer, and then heard others say that she was called by the second daughter to go to the new year, the son came back from working in the field directly in the city to rent the house for the New Year, did not come back, did not make a phone call, the news of his return I listened to the villagers said.

On the second day of the Chinese New Year, watching the couples coming and going on the road with their children back to their mother's house to pay their parents a New Year's greeting, I also sat on a stool at the entrance of the village, looking forward to a few daughters coming back to visit the New Year with me, looking at the grandchildren, but I wanted to wear it, my legs were numb, and I did not expect a daughter to come back to visit the New Year with me.

My life is really a failure, what hope is there in this life, I really want to die, and a few sisters call to complain, they all advised me to die better than to live, my annual income in the field, and various subsidies add up to six or seven thousand yuan is enough for me, but I really feel cold to my children.

The above is a true story of a friend's family, this lady's life is really very bleak, older, less physical than before, all kinds of diseases, perennial medicine.

A person lived in a very remote village, and the neighbors were particularly bad because she was too strong when she was young, and because at that time they were orphans and widows who were looked down upon by the villagers, and walked in the village, without even a person to speak.

Several daughters are not married satisfactorily, they are all living together, yesterday listening to her call to talk about these things, we really did not expect these daughters to be so cold-blooded, the elderly mother is at home alone, do not come to visit a glance, really too chilling.

But I can only persuade her to want to open up, things are already like this, don't bother with children can't come back to see her, it doesn't matter, taking care of your own body is the best.

As the old saying goes, the body has the skin of the parents, the sheep have the grace of kneeling milk, the birds have the feeling of feeding back, everything in a person is given by the parents, if you do not honor the parents, it is really not even as good as the animals!