A divorced man talks about his ex-wife: the two have not quarreled for 10 years, but the wife mentioned divorce after the child's college entrance examination

This day was the day before the child's college entrance examination, but his wife suddenly said to him: "After the child's college entrance examination, we will divorce." ”

At first, he thought his wife was angry. He snorted indifferently and continued to play with his phone. But I didn't think that my wife was serious.

When the two came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, he cried and asked his wife why, what did he do wrong? But my wife smiled and said, "I've been waiting for this day for 10 years." ”

The man was shocked, is it all a fake for so many years of harmonious life? In the past 10 years, the two have not been at peace with each other, not even quarrelsome, is the wife having an external heart? But later, when communicating, I learned that it was his wife who had long been dead to him, and his wife's "sensible" and "virtuous" in the past 10 years just did not want to worry about him.

In the first few years of marriage, he especially hated his wife for letting him do housework, and the two had many quarrels for this reason. But I know from what day on, my wife will not let him do it, he still feels very happy at that time, he feels that he really can't get used to her. Doesn't housework have to be a woman's duty?

When his wife was sick and hospitalized, he called him, and the man said, "Is there no one in your mother's house to take care of you?" Why are you looking for me? At first, the wife would retort a few words, and then she would not say anything, and simply review it by herself. This victory once again made him feel that his wife was too pretentious and could not be "used to it".

Gradually, the family began to have no complaints and nagging about him. Whatever he said, the wife just listened; whatever he did, the wife didn't care. Even he didn't come home after a night of drinking and singing with friends, and his wife never called him. At that time, he also laughed at the men who were urged by women, thinking that they had no ability and were still managed by their wives, but they were particularly capable of holding the women in the family.

The days passed slowly in this light cloud. For more than 10 years, the wife earned her own money and took care of her own children, took care of the housework by herself, and men only needed to take care of themselves. He used to be complacent about these things, and felt that his wife had become gentle and virtuous. But it wasn't until the moment of divorce that I knew that it was just his wife's complete disappointment in him, and she didn't need him at all.

The wife's attitude is very determined, and the family that once seemed calm and harmonious has ceased to exist.

In fact, whether it is in marriage or in love, women are very sensitive and emotional, when she cares about you, as long as you look at others more, she will be jealous, as long as you are a little unhappy, she will be distressed. But when she doesn't care about you, no matter how much you do, she will turn a blind eye.

A woman will nag a man, indicating that she still has this man in her heart and wants this man to live better. But nagging is just nagging, and as long as she's nagging you, then she'll still be with you.

When a woman is heartbroken by being heartbroken, she will become quiet, no longer have her own temper, and will no longer care where you go, what time you come home, tired or not, hungry or not, and will not have too many topics with you. Because my heart is cold, it is meaningless to say more, and I don't want to add to your troubles for you.

Therefore, don't think that it is a good phenomenon that the wife suddenly becomes "reasonable" and "gentle and virtuous", it is likely that she has changed her heart and no longer loves you.

The maintenance of marriage requires two people to operate together, and it is a very happy thing for two people to support each other, care for each other, and understand each other.

Many men will always feel that it is annoying to have a woman next to them, but when she leaves, they will feel empty, and suddenly miss her past goodness, even her former nagging, it seems so intimate. I also deeply regret that the feeling of having a woman around to ask for warmth is so happy and happy. Cherish the person in front of you, and don't wait until you lose it before regretting it.