For some people, demolition is the beginning of sudden wealth, as the saying goes, "demolition, demolition, one step to the sky." "And for some people, demolition is

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For some people, demolition is the beginning of sudden wealth, as the saying goes, "demolition, demolition, step up to the sky." "For some people, demolition is the beginning of a fight." In Shanghai, many families have caused embarrassing disputes over demolition, so that fathers and sons turn against each other, flesh and blood feuds, and family affection is gone. Xiao Ya's family suffered such a thing.

Today is the Chinese New Year's Eve, and shanghainese are celebrating the New Year in full swing. Xiao Ya's mother-in-law's side seemed quite deserted.

Xiao Ya's mother-in-law has three children, two sons and one daughter, each of whom has established a family, and is also in Shanghai. The eldest son, the couple, has a son. The son has also started a family and has also raised a son, who is 8 years old. Xiao Ya's husband is the second son, and they also have a son, which is also a family of three. The third daughter is also a family of three, raising a daughter.

Shanghainese tradition Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the first lunar month, all children gather at their parents' place for the New Year. But today, only Xiao Ya and his wife are here in Xiao Ya's mother-in-law, and Xiao Ya's son cannot spend the New Year together because he is studying in the United States. Xiao Ya and his wife were busy and also prepared a rich dinner. The eldest son's family of five did not come, and the younger daughter's family of three did not come until three or four o'clock in the afternoon, and left after dinner. On the first day of the first lunar month, only Xiao Ya and his wife were at their mother-in-law's house.

The eldest son's family of five has not come to his mother-in-law for the New Year for five years. The mother-in-law can't send it out with a red envelope. Not only that, but the mother-in-law's eldest grandson's family of three has been cutting off contact with the mother-in-law for five years. The mother-in-law misses her grandson, and she wants to see her grandson even more, but she is close at hand, but she is not allowed to see each other.

The time is pulled back to the first day of the first lunar month before 2017, when the mother-in-law's family is more lively. At that time, Xiao Yagong was still there. Three children, three people, 10 people gathered at the in-laws, the living room is very small, everyone is together, and the walks are all colliding. A large table could not sit down, so I had to sit next to each other. Everyone laughed and laughed, drank, ate, chatted, played cards... Cheers!

All of this has vanished with the demolition of five years ago. Why? And listen to me one by one.

The in-laws have a 50-square-meter old house in Shanghai, which has 11 household registrations, which are a family of three in-laws, second sons and third daughters, and three families of eldest grandchildren. Five years ago, the old house was demolished and divided into 6.7 million yuan, and the in-laws used 3.5 million of them to buy a small two-bedroom apartment of 65 square meters. Another 3.2 million, she gave all to one of the children. Is it for the Xiaoya family?

No, the in-laws actually gave all 3.2 million to their daughter! The daughter also used this money to buy a large two-bedroom apartment and rented out the original small house. How can parents be so eccentric?

It turned out that the in-laws thought that the living conditions of the two sons and the eldest grandson were better, and only the daughter's family was still crowded in a hut of more than 50 square meters, so she decided to give the remaining house money to the daughter. In order to comfort her beloved second son, the in-laws told Xiao Ya and his two sons that the house they lived in would be all for them in the future, and they only needed to subsidize the eldest son for 30,000 yuan.

Xiao Ya and his wife are good-hearted people, and they also sympathize with their sister, so they agreed to give 320,000 yuan to their sister. Of course, the eldest son and the eldest grandson did not agree, and Xiao Ya's husband went to negotiate with them about this matter, saying that the two families would divide their parents' houses equally in the future. In this way, things are barely handled. But the bitter fruit was buried, and the eldest grandson's family never saw Xiao Ya's in-laws, and the three brothers and sisters did not come and go.

The youngest daughter was the biggest winner in the demolition, she took 3.2 million, bought a new house, and rented out the old house, with more than 5,000 rents per month. The two sons only received 1/2 of the future of their parents' house, and the amount of money was almost half that of the younger sister. Such a thing, who can not be annoyed? Who can not complain? Who can not be angry? Who can not hate it? Therefore, the eldest son's family did not come to the New Year, and the eldest grandson's family did not see their grandparents, which was also forgivable. The in-laws are actually self-inflicted. Generally, parents love their sons more, and they love their daughters the most.

The younger daughter has received this great benefit, is there more love for her parents and more filial piety than her brother? Not really! You see her Chinese New Year's Eve, hurrying, hurrying back.

There is also the matter of taking care of the elderly, and she is not dedicated. The mother-in-law is 88 years old in the New Year, and it was supposed that the three brothers and sisters took turns to take care of each other, 7 days a week, 2 days for each of the two sons, and 3 days for the daughter. The two sons have been insisting on caring for 2 days a week. Here, I still want to praise this eldest son, although he does not come to the New Year's Festival, but he is still conscientious in taking care of him two days a week. This daughter was good, at first she still took care of 3 days, then it became two days, and two days became a day. The younger daughter said that her mother had a bad temper, so she was reluctant to serve her. Xiao Ya's mother-in-law's temper is indeed not good, and she is also like this to her son, let alone to her daughter-in-law. Sons and daughters-in-law can tolerate the elderly, why can't she?

So does the little daughter miss her brother? Not really! She said the state has a policy to take care of small housing when demolishing. She was supposed to take the big head, and her parents took the small head, and it was she who was tall, so she took the small head. She bought a new house and borrowed money from Xiaoya for decoration. Xiao Ya was very angry, and told her about the story of the affair, and solemnly pointed out that there was no such policy in this demolition.

So why are Xiao Ya and his wife willing to accompany the elderly for the New Year every year, and are they also getting some other benefits? Not really. Because Xiao Ya is a Christian, she said that she is a person of faith and should be different from others. Therefore, in the matter of demolition, she complimented the uncle to the top and humbled the sister-in-law to the bottom; so no matter what the mother-in-law did, she always treated her well and honored her. Xiao Ya's two mouths of strength and bosom are really rare.

Originally, a large family was happy and harmonious, and they got along very happily, but now they can't get close to each other, or even they don't have contact with each other. Whose fault is it? Because of the demolition, but also because of the eccentricity of parents and the inferiority of human nature!