After the death of the father, all four of my mother's siblings returned to the state they had been 70 years ago, that is, single. The eldest aunt is 96 years old, the uncle is 93, the mother is 90, and the aunt is 87. They are all three years apart

After the death of the father, all four of my mother's siblings returned to the state they had been 70 years ago, that is, single.

The eldest aunt is 96 years old, the uncle is 93, the mother is 90, and the aunt is 87. They were all three years apart, because Grandpa went out to do business when he was young and came home every three years.

The spouses of the uncle and aunt have died in the previous years, leaving the elderly person or adult to live still healthy or weak, normal or abnormal.

My aunt has lived in Guangzhou for many years, and she returned to her hometown once three years ago, when I specially accompanied my old mother from Nanjing to reunite with my brothers and sisters. Before the aunt returned to Guangzhou, she hugged her elder brother and sister and cried bitterly: I don't know if I can reunite the four brothers and sisters again in this life!

After the Spring Festival this year, my mother and aunt met again to return to their hometown, and the four elder brothers and sisters were reunited again. Unlike before, my uncle died at the end of the previous year, and my father died last March.

Our juniors discussed which house to eat a simple meal, but really could not find a suitable place, the uncle and the seventy-year-old son live together, the son is not good at housework, the daughter-in-law is always outside the grandson, usually are hourly workers to cook, the hourly workers pinch the point every day, immediately leave after two hours, do not stay for a second, to rush to the next family; the aunt lives with her daughter and son-in-law, usually the relationship is very stiff, and then go to a few elders to eat, the face does not know how long to pull; and I accompany my mother to go back for two days, The pots and pans in the kitchen of the hometown are all a layer of ash, and the refrigerator is not yet energized; the aunt has no house at all in her hometown, and every time she goes back, she stays in a hotel...

In the end, I decided to go to the hotel for dinner. My aunt was specially taken leave by my son to accompany me from Guangzhou, I accompanied my mother, my uncle was supported by my son in his seventies, and my aunt was pushed by her daughter to the hotel in a wheelchair, and her legs were already shrunk and she could not walk alone.

Ordering is another nerve-wracking thing. In addition to the sister-in-law's teeth are ok, the other three are all teeth missing, the dentures worn are not completely closed, and sometimes the bite is not proper, it will hurt and grin. Usually, when my mother was in Nanjing, we had almost no emerald green vegetables on the table at home, and all dishes had to be covered with a pot for a few minutes until they were crispy, otherwise my mother could not eat it.

We ordered a steamed cinnamon icon, old hen soup, crab powder tofu... Then I went through the menu and couldn't find the right one.

Our juniors were each busy helping their fathers and mothers with vegetables, deboning, and picking thorns, and our uncles spoke. Although the 93-year-old uncle is the second oldest, as the only boy in the family, he has an elder brother style since he was a child, and if there is any dispute between several sisters, the uncle can settle it.

Uncle said: Our brother and sister have met again, raise a toast to congratulate you.

The sound was loud and loud, and the guests around them looked back. His son said: Little bit, it's not at home, it's at the hotel!

The aunt said: What do you say? Loud!

My mother asked me: What did your uncle say just now? I can't hear you clearly!

Several of our juniors looked at each other, in the past we were facing an old man at home, and now suddenly we had to face four old people, and we were inexperienced.

The uncle's son said: Now it is in a public place, you can't shout, after the old man speaks, our junior will be next to the conversation.

Then my uncle and aunt spoke, and I passed it on to my mother. The uncle said: ... I'm really "a small icon of the mountains" now! I was the oldest in the unit, and the two years older than me have passed away one after another, and everyone's eyes are on me, I am the benchmark for living!

The 96-year-old aunt opened her mouth with a smile and said with tears in her eyes: ... I ate and slept all day, was sent to the hospital by 120 for an unknown number of times, I have lived enough! Don't want to live anymore! But I'm still alive!

My cousin, who was sitting next to me, muttered to me: My mother lives a long life, maybe I walk in front of her. My mom was suspicious all day, saying I was stealing food in the kitchen and saying I had embezzled her pension. The monthly pension had to be withdrawn and placed under her pillow to give her peace of mind. He said that he didn't need his children's money, gave me ten dollars, wanted to help her buy apples, oranges and bananas, she hadn't gone out alone to buy anything for many years, thinking that the price was as cheap as twenty years ago...

The eldest cousin in her seventies was very old, with rough hands and a sallow face. At the beginning, the three brothers and sisters signed an agreement: their parents' house belonged to their cousin, and their parents' pension also belonged to their cousin.

The cousin wanted to tear up the agreement several times, not to want the house, the parents were taken care of by the three brothers and sisters in turn, but the cousin brother-in-law cared about the house, because the son was going to get married, and the parents' house could be used as the son's marriage room.

My cousin said that I spent a third of my life taking care of my parents, and I had never even been to the provincial capital, let alone traveled abroad. My mother's longevity has consumed my life!

My aunt asked me aloud: What are you talking about?

I replied: My cousin said to take care of you with all her heart, and I hope that when you are a hundred years old, we will get together again.

The aunt smiled with her toothless mouth open, and in an instant she blackened her face again: Sooner or later I will be angry with her!

When leaving the hotel, the aunt hugged the elder brother and sister and cried bitterly: We all have to live well! Next time we must meet alive!

I also burst into tears, when I was in the Olympic Games in 2008, my parents were both sitting on the couch chasing stars, and now in the Winter Olympics, only my mother is alone in front of the TV. Compared with the aunt and uncle who died twenty or thirty years ago, these ninety-year-olds are lucky, they live in peace and security, enjoying today's prosperous years...

However, no one knows whether there will be a next reunion, and no one can guarantee that their brothers and sisters will meet again in some way, and perhaps this party will become forever...

I sincerely hope that they will always be alive with quality... [Prayer]