#Is the one you love the most still around?#There are two men in my life who love me the most, father and husband. Dear father He was an ordinary farmer, and his father was industrious, kind and difficult all his life

#Is the person you love the most still around# There are two men in my life who love me the most, father and husband.

Dear father He is an ordinary peasant, the father has been industrious and kind, hard and simple, respecting the old and loving the young, no quarrel with the world, no deception, and high moral respect! It's a model for me to learn all my life! Especially the love for her daughter is unmatched...

When I was so young, my father took me in his arms at night, and during the day as long as he rested, he would ride me on his shoulders to play, and others saw him and said: Your yellow haired girl was spoiled to the sky, and my father smiled, when I was in elementary school, my father waited for me to pick me up after school, not on his back, but on his father's shoulder. Other children did not have parents to pick up, because at that time the small mountain village school was close to home, and they walked to and from school, which was very safe, and there was no car. I have four older brothers and one younger sister, and my father only bought me toys, clothes and hats, and my sister was particularly unhappy and angry about this. Mom said that the father of six children is painful! I'm very proud of that! Of course it is very sweet and very happy!

Father drove to the west of the crane in 2008, and on the first four days of February 2008, I lost my favorite father forever!

My husband and I met on the high school campus, we went to high school for two years, to be exact, we met in the second year of high school, at that time we were all relatively simple, only knew to study, did not know about love, anyway, I did not understand, others did not know. When I was in gym class, I found out that he was secretly looking at me, and I was scared and my face was red! Afraid of being seen by classmates, we didn't interact at school, and we didn't even say a few words! After graduating from high school in 1981, none of us were admitted to college, he responded to the call of the state to enlist in the army, became a glorious SOLDIER in the People's Liberation Army, and I worked for my mother at home!

In the army, he wrote me a letter a week, I did not reply to the letter he also wrote, to tell the truth at that time did not enter the university, the heart is still unwilling, want to review and retake the exam, due to family conditions do not allow it. So I cut love! Halfway. At one point, I was depressed, I didn't want to do anything, I didn't want to say anything! There are big girls in the rural family, and there are many people who come to the door to ask for relatives, fortunately, most of them are looking for my sister, because I am a student who can't work, which makes me a lot easier.

Because my family lives in a remote small mountain village, the traffic is inconvenient, the communication is inconvenient, there is no electricity, and the kerosene lamp is used. The husband is serving in the military in Xinjiang, and it takes half a month to receive a letter, that is, it takes a month to receive a letter, there is nothing to do, a day except to read a book, is to wait for his letter. In this way, we did not spend the previous month, it was the Hongyan Chuanshu that established the love relationship. Her husband's troops were railway soldiers, and in 1983, the unified soldiers were changed to railway soldiers and relocated to Houma, Shanxi. We got married at the end of '85, and he took me away from home, my parents and siblings, and far away from home! To tell the truth, I thought that leaving the small mountain village was a city person, got off the train, colleagues and compatriots rode bicycles 🚲 to pick me up, and arranged a new house for rent. At that time, I felt a little deceived, and I couldn't help but cry! I think my life is so bitter! Because the unit is in its infancy, the damp house that has just been built cannot be inhabited, and everyone rents a house to live. If it comes, it will be safe. Then I can live my own little life with peace of mind! Two people together are carrying shoes across the river, slowly groping, trying to adapt to each other, can do mutual respect and love, although not romantic, but still relatively happy. We did not have a great blessing, it was a smooth and peaceful life, and the arrival of the two children brought long-lost laughter to the family. Laughter along the way! There is suffering too! Now that the children are older, we are also old, and we are all retired and can slowly grow old together without abandoning the company, is it very happy 😊 and happy!