#这才是家庭教育 #
When it comes to Fangfang, a child, in her mother's words, her personality is too stubborn, as long as she recognizes the reason for death, you are saying that the sky is broken, and she can't listen to it. It is also the daughter's stubborn personality that will make her mother angry and angry from time to time.
This is not, last Saturday afternoon, the daughter and the mother secretly fought, the father looked in the eyes, but he did not immediately intervene to resolve the contradiction between the two women, but adopted a wait-and-see attitude, according to Fang Fang's father's words, are angry, persuade no one to listen, let alone criticize anyone.
Fang Fang is 13 years old, and her personality and behavior are completely in line with the performance of adolescent girls, and Fang Fang's father knows this. This time, he planned to take the opportunity of dinner to let his wife see how he was educating her daughter.
Fangfang's father quietly told his wife that if you are in a bad mood, don't make dinner, and I will make it for you.
Fang Fang's mother said, you have not entered the kitchen, you can make a good meal, the ghost believes.
Fang Fang's mother said this, although she also worried about cooking, but she was really not in the mood, so she went into the bedroom and lay on the bed to continue to sulk.
Only to see Fang Fang's father enter the kitchen, he did not know where to start, so he asked his wife again and again, but the response was, I don't know, find myself, find my own way.
So FangFang's father came to his daughter's room and asked her daughter for help, saying that he wanted to make dinner, but he had no clue and wanted his daughter to go to the kitchen to zhang luo together.
Fang Fang, who was sulking, listened to her father's words and knew that her mother was on strike, although she did not want to eat dinner, but seeing that her father was so embarrassed, she was determined to help her father, so as not to let her mother see his jokes.
Don't look at Fang Fang is only 13 years old, this girl is particularly assertive, her attitude towards her father and mother is completely different, usually no matter how to be angry with her mother, but never have any festival with her father, because she is particularly convinced of her father, after all, he is reasonable, and his mother is too different in this regard.
Walking into the kitchen, Fang Fang asked her father, what do you want to eat?
Dad said, I want to eat delicious.
Fang Fang smiled and said, "There is no difference between you and the one who didn't say anything, at first glance, it is the thoughts of people who never go down to the kitchen."
Dad said, you decide this meal, you can do anything, I will give you a hand.
I saw Fang Fang open the refrigerator and look at it for half a day before taking out the ingredients and then putting them on the kitchen countertop.
Then Fang Fang told her father which dishes to cook.
Seeing that my daughter was doing all this in an orderly manner, my father asked, how did you learn to cook?
Fang Fang said, sometimes you travel on business, my mother and I sometimes sulk, I don't want to eat the food she cooked, so I tried to do it myself, at the beginning it was a mess, but I found that no matter how bad it is, as long as I can eat it, I have a special sense of accomplishment and am full of happiness. Slowly, I became interested in cooking, and when I had time, I watched videos of cooking on the Internet, and the more I learned, the more I would cook.
Dad said with emotion, my daughter has really grown up, she can live independently without her mother, it seems that your mother can worry less about your heart. It is not necessary to take priority care of you like when you were very young, even if your mother is sick, no matter how uncomfortable.
The father said, while observing his daughter's look, only to see that Fangfang was suddenly silent, he knew that his words had touched the child's heart.
Dad also said, you still have a mother to be angry, dad wants to be angry with his mother is gone, I really understand the deep meaning of the words that the son wants to raise and does not wait. You are still young and have not deeply experienced the taste of loss. In a few years, when you leave your mother to board at school, I am afraid that you will miss your days at home very much.
Fangfang's father said while helping his daughter pick vegetables and wash vegetables, while Fangfang was very serious about putting everything on the plate for later.
Dad asked his daughter, have you noticed that mom seems to be a sign of menopause? Sometimes Angry, sometimes even unreasonable?
Fang Fang said, yes, it seems that menopause makes women very painful, ah, I am a little scared, because in the future I will also have such a day.
Dad said, you don't have to think so far, not all women will be very painful in menopause, as long as they get the love of their families, let them feel the happiness of the family, everyone tolerates and understands each other, a little more tolerant, not for a while, but will make the family less contradictory, as long as the family atmosphere is good, the mood will be comfortable, the mentality is peaceful, which will be angry and angry.
Fang Fang said, Dad, when you say this, I suddenly feel that my mother is very innocent.
Dad asked, what do you say, I don't understand.
Fang Fang said, just take me and my mother just now to put angry, I suddenly realized that I did a little too much, obviously my mother let me sleep for an hour at three o'clock in the afternoon, so that I can continue to study at night, otherwise I will be sleepy at eight or nine o'clock in the evening, and I can't learn at all. But I blamed my mother for being troublesome, and as a result, I became angry with her.
Dad said that it is rare that you can think like this, although your mother may have heard ugly words at the time, but the original intention is to be good to you, if you can understand her and accept your mother's kindness as much as possible in the future, you will avoid a lot of contradictions between you.
The father and daughter chatted and cooked, and the atmosphere in the kitchen seemed very warm.
After the meal was ready, the father advised the daughter to invite the mother to dinner, and said a few good words to the mother, assuring her that she would be discouraged.
Although Fang Fang was a little reluctant, she still went to her mother with her father's encouragement.
Seeing the meal her daughter had prepared, although the expression on her face was still unhappy, she had forgiven her daughter from her heart.
After dinner, the father asked his daughter for advice on whether she could clean up the table, wash the dishes, and clean the kitchen, and Fang Fang agreed.
After the arrangement, Fangfang's father took his wife downstairs for a walk.
As the couple walked and talked, Fangfang's father told his wife about his daughter's performance today, and he said that her daughter was older and could no longer be as angry as she was with a few-year-old children, or even angry. Otherwise, it is difficult to handle the relationship well.
Listening to her husband's words, Fangfang's mother's heart was also touched, in her eyes, her daughter was very stubborn and even sometimes unreasonable, in fact, this root is still in her mother' body. In contrast, the father-daughter relationship is more harmonious.
Thinking of this, Fang Fang's mother's unhappiness was suddenly swept away.
The story is finished here, I don't know if you feel it in your heart after reading it?
