I haven't written anything for a long time, and I have been idle for two days, and suddenly I remembered a plot in "Dream of the Red Chamber".
The gist was that the raider advised Lady Wang some words, so that Lady Wang felt that this lady was very standing and conscious.
The story is that once, Bao Yu somehow tranced, pulled the attacker and began to express, saying: "Good sister, how is my heart", I "never dared to say", the result was that I was too depressed, my body did not seem to be very good, I was sick, "Today I boldly say it, and I am willing to die" and so on.
Of course the raider knew that these words were not and said to her. Bao Yu has always called her "good sister".
So I was very scared, so I pushed it while letting Bao Yu wake up quickly.
Bao Yu did wake up, and as soon as he woke up, he knew that he had mistakenly confided in the attackers what he had said to Daiyu, and for a moment he was "ashamed and purple" and hurried away.
This paragraph is actually a very typical adolescent phenomenon. If it were today, how would the attackers respond? Not easy to say.
But at that time, it was still the world of "Dream of the Red Chamber", and there were still some things to be said.
For example, the old chief Jia Mu once listened to a book and watched a play, and talked about the instructions of the "talented and beautiful person", "This young lady must be well-read and polite, know everything, and is a wonderful beauty." Only to see a handsome man, whether it is a relative or a friend, I remembered the lifelong events, my parents also forgot, the book ceremony also forgot, the ghost is not a ghost, the thief is not a thief, which point is a beautiful person? ”
It can be seen that under this plot, it is Dai Yu who is more distressed than Bao Yu. After all, Bao Yu can still "boldly say it today" and express "I can't forget you in my sleep", but what about Dai Yu? It is estimated that it is to write poetry, and it is necessary to cover the clouds and mountains several times.
The attacker is very smart and self-conscious, especially in the position, very firm.
After Baoyu was hurriedly ashamed, she began to worry that if Baoyu's impulse was greater, in Daiyu's body, "it would be inevitable that there would be something untalented in the future", which would be troublesome. This is not good for Daiyu, and it is not good for Baoyu. Or rather, it's especially bad for Baoyu.
After all, Baoyu's "lifelong reputation and conduct" is what she values and relies on the most. Therefore, the raiders asked Madame Wang. I will not repeat how to advise specifically, but it is nothing more than those great truths.
In short, Madame Wang was surprised and delighted after hearing it, surprised by Bao Dai, and happy that the attackers knew the rules so well, so she immediately "my son".
Then there is the promise of future identity, and the instruction of future work, which can not be said to be a situation that does not pay attention to Baoyu.
Many red readers often talk about the "mental technique" of attacking people here, but in fact, it is not necessary, and even based on this argument, it is quite thief-like.
One of the really interesting problems here is the method of attacking people and the idea that Madame Wang thinks that she can solve the problem.
The raider said the truth for half a day, and in terms of method, it was just a sentence of "how to change the law, and in the future, I even taught the second master to move out of the garden to live" just fine.
And what Madame Wang deeply believes is actually this. It can be seen that the two respond to the potential Bao Dai "crisis", and all they think of is a physical isolation strategy.
Like adjusting seats to students and changing classes?
Neither the raider nor Madame Wang are stupid people in Jia Province, so what is in the world of "Dream of the Red Chamber" that restricts or constrains their hands and feet?
Probably this kind of thing is already quite difficult to do, right? After all, in addition to men and women, there are too many other roles for people. Moreover, it is a burden for everyone. #红楼梦 #
