When I learned that my brother-in-law had stomach cancer, I felt that the sky was about to fall, so I decided to give my brother-in-law 100,000 yuan to see a doctor. The husband disagreed, and the sister said, "Forget it, this is your brother-in-law's life, you don't want it."

When I learned that my brother-in-law had stomach cancer, I felt that the sky was about to fall, so I decided to give my brother-in-law 100,000 yuan to see a doctor. The husband disagreed, and the sister said: "Forget it, this is your brother-in-law's life, you don't want to divorce him." "I decided that even if I got divorced, I would save my brother-in-law, because I had a secret with him that I couldn't tell.

Every year on the third day of the first lunar month, we gather at my eldest sister's house, because this day is my eldest sister's birthday. The eldest brother-in-law is a cook, cooking deliciously, just on this occasion, the four of us sisters get together. My family has four children, I am the fourth, there are two older brothers in the middle, the eldest sister is 58 years old this year, 18 years older than me, and the eldest brother-in-law is the same age as her.

Speaking of my family's relatives and relatives, I am most grateful to my eldest sister and eldest brother-in-law, especially my brother-in-law, who is not only my brother-in-law, but more like my father. My father left early, when my father died of illness that year, I was only 8 years old, my eldest sister was 26 years old, already married, two older brothers, one just graduated, one went to high school, and the burden of life suddenly weighed on my mother.

At that time, the 26-year-old brother-in-law said to his mother: "Mom, you can rest assured, as long as I have a bite to eat, I will never starve you and my younger siblings." "In those years, my brother-in-law paid for my and my brother's tuition, which was definitely a big expense for him. Later, the eldest brother worked steadily, and only then did he share a part of the burden for his sister and brother-in-law, and they were slightly relieved.

I grew up with my sister's parents because her home was close to my school, and I ate and lived at her house. My brother-in-law said that I was growing up, so he often improved my food and bought me beautiful clothes from time to time. It wasn't until I graduated from high school and went to college that I left my sister's house. After graduating from college, I was very capable of working and soon became a sales executive.

Later, I met my husband, he worked in the factory, the salary was not high, but people honestly cooked, I felt that he and my brother-in-law's temperament was quite similar, and I chose him among many suitors. I am not good at financial management, more careless, so I handed the salary card to my husband, he is a good hand at housework, careful, will live.

Now that my brother-in-law is sick, I feel very unhappy in my heart, and I used to think that the days ahead will be long. I haven't repaid him well, how did he get such a disease! I must treat him, even if I spend more money.

But I didn't expect that my husband was unwilling to give 100,000 yuan, I was too cold, our savings have been a million over the years, how can he be so cold-blooded, he obviously knows that I have an unusual relationship with my sister and brother-in-law, I gave him a death order, do not give a divorce, he only transferred 100,000 to me.

I told my two brothers about my brother-in-law's illness, and I thought they would be like me and would not hesitate to pay for my brother-in-law's illness. Who knows they began to make excuses, the eldest brother said that he wanted to buy a marriage house for his nephew, but also to decorate and buy furniture, and needed a lot of money. The brother said that he wanted to change the car, and the money was still in the hands of his sister-in-law, and it was estimated that it would be difficult for him to come out.

I was so cold that I scolded them on the spot for having no conscience, and I said, "You are all so old, how can you not have a grateful heart, if there was no brother-in-law, our family would not have been the same." Especially my little brother and my brother, if it weren't for my brother-in-law, would we still be able to go to college? We have even basic problems with our lives. Big brother, if it weren't for your brother-in-law, you would have to bear the life of a large family after graduation, and you asked yourself, can you stick to it alone? ”

Both brothers bowed their heads and did not speak, and I said on the spot that I must treat my brother-in-law, even if I can let him live for one more day, I am willing. Later, my sister and niece and I took my brother-in-law to the hospital and told him that he would be at ease with his treatment, and that he did not have to worry about money.

Two days later, the two brothers came to the hospital to see their brother-in-law, and each brought 100,000 yuan, saying that they must treat their brother-in-law. The two brothers called me out of the ward and blamed themselves: "Little sister, our two big men are not as good as you, you are right, without the brother-in-law, there would be no life we have now, everything we have now has the credit of the brother-in-law, and now that he is sick, we should work together to treat him, because we are a family." ”

I think this is very good, the eldest brother-in-law's efforts for us in those years, absolutely not worth 100,000 so simple. But my two sisters-in-law came with my husband to prevent us from paying.

My husband said: "The terminal stage of stomach cancer is basically no play, there is no need to spend more money." "My two sisters-in-law agreed with him and felt that there was no need to spend the money.

The sister-in-law means that each of our families will give 30,000 yuan to my niece, and we can make a living allowance in the future. My husband thinks that's appropriate too. I was immediately angry, and I told my sister-in-law that in case my brother-in-law had a three long and two short, I would be responsible for my niece's future tuition. My husband glared at me, and I told him: "My monthly salary of 25K, that money is basically earned by me, how can I spend it when I want?" ”

My two older brothers were not as strong as me, and they were somewhat repulsive in the face of the sisters-in-law's questioning. My sister said to me privately, "Forget it, you don't have to worry about it, your brother-in-law is this life, I can't watch you all get divorced!" "I told my sister that I didn't care how the two brothers chose me, but I helped.

Teacher, do you think it's appropriate for me to do this?

@Forgetting. point of view:

Hello lady, you are a good sister and know how to be grateful. I have always felt that of all the emotions in the world, family affection is the most precious, and your brother-in-law has the grace of reconstruction for your whole family, and you should repay it.

What you are doing now is right, we often say that the master is also the best in the world, you are now capable, the salary income is good, take out a part of the money to help the brother-in-law, this is also the right thing to do. You are a righteous and kind girl. Believe that your kindness will touch your brother, sister-in-law, and your husband.

I believe that your family is cohesive, and under your inspiration, your big family will be more harmonious and more fraternal.