Recently in Qingdao, Shandong, Mr. Yan and his girlfriend bought a new house together, originally planned to happily wait for marriage, but unexpectedly, the two quarreled and broke up, both sides thought that buying a house was out of their own money, they should live here, so the girlfriend's family of five lived in a new house: mom and dad and grandfather, and brother, Mr. Yan was very depressed, asked the woman to vacate a room to let her parents live, but the woman refused: "Vacate can't come out."
It turned out that Mr. Yan and his girlfriend began to fall in love from 2018, and in 2020, they reached the age of talking about marriage, so the two decided to buy a new house together, and soon the two looked at a house of 1.35 million, plus taxes and other expenses of about 50,000, a total of more than 1.4 million.
So in December 2020 bought a new house, Mr. Yan paid a down payment of 450,000 yuan, responsible for commercial loans, 3400 yuan per month, girlfriend paid 50,000 or 60,000 taxes and fees, etc., responsible for provident fund loans, 1780 yuan per month, the names of the two people written on the real estate deed: common ownership.
Unexpectedly, just over half a year later, the two people had a conflict, and after a big fight, they broke up, but because of the house, what happened next made Mr. Yan very distressed.
The girlfriend took her parents, grandparents, and brother to live in the new house, the girlfriend and her mother lived in a room, the grandfather and her father lived in a room, the brother lived on the living room sofa, and Mr. Yan could only live in the small north bedroom.
The small area of the set of three miles to live this big son, full, the key is inconvenient, the girlfriend lives in this can also, the elderly are living in is indeed too much, Mr. Yan is very angry, your parents can live here, why can't my parents? Moreover, the down payment of 450,000 yuan of the house is self-made, according to the proportion of investment, he accounts for at least two-thirds of it, so he proposed to let his girlfriend vacate a room and let his parents live.
However, the girlfriend refused: "Can't vacate the room", girlfriend Ms. Liu said:
"First of all, this house was jointly funded, I have the right of residence, how much money he has paid, how much loan he has repaid, how much money I have paid, how much loan I have repaid, and he knows better than me." I have already communicated with him, this house is legal procedure or fair, but he has not cooperated with the handling, he has sued me, according to the court procedure can go. ”
Because of the house thing, the two sides made a lot of trouble, the girlfriend also stopped the provident fund loan, has been suspended for two months without paying, the girlfriend wants to shoot this house.
Mr. Yan is also a stomach bitter water, he tried to avoid them, there is a home can not go back, after work to find a place to sit, until 12 o'clock in the evening to go back to sleep, the next morning at eight or nine o'clock to go to work, and his girlfriend family of five live together, take a bath to make a meal is very inconvenient.
Seeing this scene, netizens are not calm, some netizens said that the girlfriend is too much, the man paid a down payment of 450,000 yuan, the girlfriend only paid fifty or sixty thousand yuan, out of such a little money, let a family of five live in, live two-thirds of the area, but also want to divide the property equally, it is indeed excessive.
Some netizens also said that the girlfriend is not unreasonable, people have paid for it, and they have divided their hands in the hope of dividing the property normally, but the man does not cooperate.
In the end, buying a house together before marriage, or too impulsive, the real estate deed wrote the name of the girlfriend, it means that the house is shared, if the two can successfully marry and have children, live a happy life, of course, it is a good thing. But like Mr. Yan who broke up before he got married, personal property disputes are still indispensable, who pays more, who pays less, whether the house has appreciated or reduced the price, these problems look at the headache.
From the conversation between Mr. Yan and his girlfriend, it can also be seen that both of them are very careful, the account calculation is very clear, it may be that there is no agreement on the cost issue, if they are unwilling to give in, they can only go through legal procedures.
Buying a house is a major life event, if you buy a house before marriage, who paid how much money or write clearly, do you need to add the name of the other party, it is best to be cautious, in case there is a dispute, it is not worth it to bring trouble to yourself.
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